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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how to bring your attention to others? I am here for the second time and no one answers the message. please help

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message "

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I read the profile and try to be in line with expectations.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I read the profile and try to be in line with expectations."

Yes but they will read yours, and decide from that if they are interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the profile and try to be in line with expectations."

But you have no profile to read. It’s the key to success a well written profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read the profile and try to be in line with expectations."

What do you think swinging is? This isn't a trick question, just wondering.

And welcome to the forum.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"how to bring your attention to others? I am here for the second time and no one answers the message. please help"

Are you looking for profile advice, or general advice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

both advice

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Grabbing popcorn...

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Right..

Your profile is crap. All of it. There is absolutely nothing about it to entice women. Your user name is that of an adolescent. Your pics are of a very poor quality, and not at all appealing. You have no profile text.

So, profile aside, what are your expectations of swinging? Clunge on demand? Nothing could be futher from the truth. Swingers are sociable people, who also like sex. Swingers have lives away from here, and do not talk about sex 24/7.

Maybe you could read the numerous threads about social meets and going to clubs.

Essentialy, you get out what you put in here, if you want to stand out and be noticed.

Good luck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right..

Your profile is crap. All of it. There is absolutely nothing about it to entice women. Your user name is that of an adolescent. Your pics are of a very poor quality, and not at all appealing. You have no profile text.

So, profile aside, what are your expectations of swinging? Clunge on demand? Nothing could be futher from the truth. Swingers are sociable people, who also like sex. Swingers have lives away from here, and do not talk about sex 24/7.

Maybe you could read the numerous threads about social meets and going to clubs.

Essentialy, you get out what you put in here, if you want to stand out and be noticed.

Good luck.."

what she said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got to realise that there are far more men on here in comparison to women. Keep plodding on and be nice to people and I'm sure something good will come your way.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Thank you"

OP..press the 'reply & quote' button, so people know who's post you are referring to..

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"You've got to realise that there are far more men on here in comparison to women. Keep plodding on and be nice to people and I'm sure something good will come your way. "

True, it's raining men on here. Tall, Blonde, dark and lean

Rough and tough and strong and mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you

OP..press the 'reply & quote' button, so people know who's post you are referring to.."

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"You've got to realise that there are far more men on here in comparison to women. Keep plodding on and be nice to people and I'm sure something good will come your way.

True, it's raining men on here. Tall, Blonde, dark and lean

Rough and tough and strong and mean."

God bless mother nature

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"You've got to realise that there are far more men on here in comparison to women. Keep plodding on and be nice to people and I'm sure something good will come your way.

True, it's raining men on here. Tall, Blonde, dark and lean

Rough and tough and strong and mean.

God bless mother nature"

She's a single woman too

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

OP, you are one of many single guys on here, there are many successful single guys on here, with well thought out profiles and pictures. What do you have to offer a meet and what are you hoping for from that meet. More effort from you and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, you are one of many single guys on here, there are many successful single guys on here, with well thought out profiles and pictures. What do you have to offer a meet and what are you hoping for from that meet. More effort from you and good luck "
thank you

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"OP, you are one of many single guys on here, there are many successful single guys on here, with well thought out profiles and pictures. What do you have to offer a meet and what are you hoping for from that meet. More effort from you and good luck thank you"

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above. Look at some of the more successful male profiles and try to make your profile stand out more.

Also, look out for social events in your area, or go to a club, with no expectations though. As it's not easy for single men in clubs, either, but in person, your personality can stand out more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As above. Look at some of the more successful male profiles and try to make your profile stand out more.

Also, look out for social events in your area, or go to a club, with no expectations though. As it's not easy for single men in clubs, either, but in person, your personality can stand out more. "

thx

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By *heycallmehanWoman
over a year ago

nr wakefield

I dismissed your message based on profile and also message content x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right..

Your profile is crap. All of it. There is absolutely nothing about it to entice women. Your user name is that of an adolescent. Your pics are of a very poor quality, and not at all appealing. You have no profile text.

So, profile aside, what are your expectations of swinging? Clunge on demand? Nothing could be futher from the truth. Swingers are sociable people, who also like sex. Swingers have lives away from here, and do not talk about sex 24/7.

Maybe you could read the numerous threads about social meets and going to clubs.

Essentialy, you get out what you put in here, if you want to stand out and be noticed.

Good luck.."

^^^^This...

Your profile is a typical example of self entitlement on this site....blurbs like yours are the absolute epitome of sheer garbage....you don't need advice on profile writing, or how to attract people....you DESPERATELY need social skills, a basic understanding of general human interaction....

Before you can even begin to fathom out how to approach people in real life, let alone online....

Seriously dude, give up. You have LITERALLY zero hope on here with that mentality

If it seems like harsh advice....that's because it is

Suck it up and do something about it

The rest is up to you

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Don't make promises you can't keep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right..

Your profile is crap. All of it. There is absolutely nothing about it to entice women. Your user name is that of an adolescent. Your pics are of a very poor quality, and not at all appealing. You have no profile text.

So, profile aside, what are your expectations of swinging? Clunge on demand? Nothing could be futher from the truth. Swingers are sociable people, who also like sex. Swingers have lives away from here, and do not talk about sex 24/7.

Maybe you could read the numerous threads about social meets and going to clubs.

Essentialy, you get out what you put in here, if you want to stand out and be noticed.

Good luck.."

I'm intimidated I think I love her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would see the username and delete any message from you

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Dear diary.

Day 4.

Despite the gratitude shown for all advice received, nothing changes.

In conclusion, NFG.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would see the username and delete any message from you "
I know my mistake. now I have to wait to change them

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Would see the username and delete any message from you

I know my mistake. now I have to wait to change them"

Your profile biog is a lot better now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would see the username and delete any message from you

I know my mistake. now I have to wait to change them

Your profile biog is a lot better now. "

thx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would see the username and delete any message from you "
know my mistake. now I have to wait to change them

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Would see the username and delete any message from you

I know my mistake. now I have to wait to change them

Your profile biog is a lot better now.

thx"

No problem. Good luck chap.

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By *heycallmehanWoman
over a year ago

nr wakefield


"I dismissed your message based on profile and also message content x"

And also the fact you send the same message numerous times before I’d even read the last one...

We’re not all desperate! just because I’m local doesn’t mean i’m going to hop on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dismissed your message based on profile and also message content x

And also the fact you send the same message numerous times before I’d even read the last one...

We’re not all desperate! just because I’m local doesn’t mean i’m going to hop on!"

ok, I'm sorry

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I love the fact that you use short sentences and write in correct English. A lot of native English speakers could learn from you.

Good luck.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important."

bulxshixe

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.bulxshixe"

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with."

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

"

Good morning,would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

Good morning, would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening."

I don't have a clue.

It looks like the kind of word you'd type if you were just whacking your knob on the keyboard.

*guessing obvs

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

Good morning, would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening.

I don't have a clue.

It looks like the kind of word you'd type if you were just whacking your knob on the keyboard.

*guessing obvs"

Yes quite,one did have that problem before my penis reduction so that may be the explanation in this case. However all is well with the world now without my very well endowed penis fucking up my day.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

Good morning, would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening.

I don't have a clue.

It looks like the kind of word you'd type if you were just whacking your knob on the keyboard.

*guessing obvs

Yes quite,one did have that problem before my penis reduction so that may be the explanation in this case. However all is well with the world now without my very well endowed penis fucking up my day.

"

I forgot to thank for donating it to me.

Thanks awfully.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

Good morning, would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening.

I don't have a clue.

It looks like the kind of word you'd type if you were just whacking your knob on the keyboard.

*guessing obvs

Yes quite,one did have that problem before my penis reduction so that may be the explanation in this case. However all is well with the world now without my very well endowed penis fucking up my day.

I forgot to thank for donating it to me.

Thanks awfully. "

It's quite alright,has the bleeding stopped yet?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

Good morning, would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening.

I don't have a clue.

It looks like the kind of word you'd type if you were just whacking your knob on the keyboard.

*guessing obvs

Yes quite,one did have that problem before my penis reduction so that may be the explanation in this case. However all is well with the world now without my very well endowed penis fucking up my day.

I forgot to thank for donating it to me.

Thanks awfully.

It's quite alright,has the bleeding stopped yet?"

Thankfully yes. I'm getting enough blood to keep the bugger up now. It's a feckin monster of a thing though......

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

Good morning, would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening.

I don't have a clue.

It looks like the kind of word you'd type if you were just whacking your knob on the keyboard.

*guessing obvs

Yes quite,one did have that problem before my penis reduction so that may be the explanation in this case. However all is well with the world now without my very well endowed penis fucking up my day.

I forgot to thank for donating it to me.

Thanks awfully.

It's quite alright,has the bleeding stopped yet?

Thankfully yes. I'm getting enough blood to keep the bugger up now. It's a feckin monster of a thing though......"

Look after it well.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

Good morning, would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening.

I don't have a clue.

It looks like the kind of word you'd type if you were just whacking your knob on the keyboard.

*guessing obvs

Yes quite,one did have that problem before my penis reduction so that may be the explanation in this case. However all is well with the world now without my very well endowed penis fucking up my day.

I forgot to thank for donating it to me.

Thanks awfully.

It's quite alright,has the bleeding stopped yet?

Thankfully yes. I'm getting enough blood to keep the bugger up now. It's a feckin monster of a thing though......

Look after it well."

I'll polish it twice a day.

Vigorously.......

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

Good morning, would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening.

I don't have a clue.

It looks like the kind of word you'd type if you were just whacking your knob on the keyboard.

*guessing obvs

Yes quite,one did have that problem before my penis reduction so that may be the explanation in this case. However all is well with the world now without my very well endowed penis fucking up my day.

I forgot to thank for donating it to me.

Thanks awfully.

It's quite alright,has the bleeding stopped yet?

Thankfully yes. I'm getting enough blood to keep the bugger up now. It's a feckin monster of a thing though......

Look after it well.

I'll polish it twice a day.

Vigorously....... "

Not too vigorously I don't want you pulling it off.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I look at a profile before I decide wether to reply to the message

Likewise,a profile and username is very important.

bulxshixe

That's not a word I'm familiar with.

Good morning, would you happen to be familiar with said word? One needs enlightening.

I don't have a clue.

It looks like the kind of word you'd type if you were just whacking your knob on the keyboard.

*guessing obvs

Yes quite,one did have that problem before my penis reduction so that may be the explanation in this case. However all is well with the world now without my very well endowed penis fucking up my day.

I forgot to thank for donating it to me.

Thanks awfully.

It's quite alright,has the bleeding stopped yet?

Thankfully yes. I'm getting enough blood to keep the bugger up now. It's a feckin monster of a thing though......

Look after it well.

I'll polish it twice a day.

Vigorously.......

Not too vigorously I don't want you pulling it off."

Thank you for your concern. Is it still under warranty?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

As a site supporter you can change your name up to 4 times in a year OP. I like your profile. Good luck. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a site supporter you can change your name up to 4 times in a year OP. I like your profile. Good luck. Xx"
thank you

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

So much better op

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