FabSwingers.com forum: Still new to all of this!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys!

I haven’t been in here too long, and still haven’t had the courage to go out and meet any couples

Does anyone have any advice for someone new to the scene?

I live in derby but university kind of takes over quite a bit, and I have work at the weekends. I study fine art, and I practically live in weatherspoons ahaha

(I haven’t posted here yet cause I didn’t even realise that you could)

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hello and welcome.

Just take things at your pace, enjoy the forums.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Well now you know you can join in all the chats on the Forum... every day a school day

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

And nothing wrong with spending quality time in a "Spoons"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Ice been here about 10year still never met a couple outside of a club setting

I find that environment more relaxing and less pressured not to mention slightly safer than just meeting a random fab couple privately and alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi and welcome, we have been here for a while and we take it at our place as people can be pushy and then it turns to cheeky.

Know what you want and stick to it if you only want pictures on profiles or verificationa make sure to state it and delete those who don't listen.

Good luck and have fun. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry my prediction text is nitemare excuse spelling mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi it's not easy to meet on here as a single guy I'm Rotherham area

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Hi it's not easy to meet on here as a single guy I'm Rotherham area"

Think you totally miss read her post

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Hi there. I’ve been on here about 14 years and I’d say use group socials. ( no play ).

Group socials are a great way to meet genuine people. They actually turn up for a start.

You can chat, feel comfortable, with others around you. Then connect on here and arrange a meet in the future.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Hi guys!

I haven’t been in here too long, and still haven’t had the courage to go out and meet any couples

Does anyone have any advice for someone new to the scene?

I live in derby but university kind of takes over quite a bit, and I have work at the weekends. I study fine art, and I practically live in weatherspoons ahaha

(I haven’t posted here yet cause I didn’t even realise that you could)

Buy a tin helmet, take it slowly and at your pace, learn how to use the block button but most of all enjoy

Ps it's a legal requirement that when you do meet your first female and/or couple you have to take someone called Sam along to watch

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Bed waiting

"Hi guys!

I haven’t been in here too long, and still haven’t had the courage to go out and meet any couples

Does anyone have any advice for someone new to the scene?

I live in derby but university kind of takes over quite a bit, and I have work at the weekends. I study fine art, and I practically live in weatherspoons ahaha

(I haven’t posted here yet cause I didn’t even realise that you could)

Post in forums, try the live chat,and I'm sure couples will find you.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Make sure you meet in a public area first and make sure it’s definitely a couple your meeting.

Have fun.

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

As others have said try an organised social, should be able to find a localish one to Derby.

Also, and if you can battle the first time nerves, try a club. Attic in Derby is local but I've never been myself.

Other than that, trust your gut, engage and enjoy

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hi guys!

I haven’t been in here too long, and still haven’t had the courage to go out and meet any couples

Does anyone have any advice for someone new to the scene?

I live in derby but university kind of takes over quite a bit, and I have work at the weekends. I study fine art, and I practically live in weatherspoons ahaha

(I haven’t posted here yet cause I didn’t even realise that you could)

Welcome to Fab.

Enjoy your time on here.

Nothing wrong with meeting in Wetherspoons.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Try a club! The two we go to are quite protective of single ladies. If you bring a wingman/woman that can help the nerves as well.

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