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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve been on a few weeks, and you all seem a friendly kinky bunch have a genuine question that I would like an honest answer to. I’ve struggled with self confidence for Most of my adult , I know I o have some half naked pics up, but they are there caise I am fishing a little and I can do it in relative safety on here, so the questions boils down to this, out of 10, what am I? I genuinely don’t know if I’m ugly, average, or devastinngly handsome. I’d like honest opinions from open minded people, I can take it if you don’t fancy me, id just like to know why so I can adjust expectations or make some changes

Other than that, have a happy, kinky sex filled Christmas

J

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hi there

Sorry to hear confidence has been an issue.

It’s an impossible question you ask because tastes differ. However, your pictures suggest to me that you’re nice looking but you are pulling faces in each one. Maybe a straightforward smiling photo would show you off to your best.

Remember, it isn't all about looks. Your interaction, your humour, your thoughtfulness, your forum posts, your status updates, your profile text, all help people form an impression of you. Make sure they’re all the best they can be.

Good luck. X

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW

Attraction is a matter of opinion

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How do you manage to be dominant in the bedroom if you struggle with self confidence ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I put on a front a lot the time, it’s easy to pretend

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If confidence is an issue, it's worth investing your energy into building it. Your looks will be connected to thos, so beware of inviting knocks. Whilst our looks are somewhat fixed, what we do with them isn't - so it's great to work with what you have to your advantage.

I'd suggest getting photos including your face taken by someone else, preferably when you are relaxed and natural instead of posing.

You will be attractive to some here but it's important to understand that it's really tough for all single men - beware of that being used to knock your confidence. Be careful how you use the site, as a supplement to your wider sex life and stay focused on improving your confidence as it will pay dividends through life.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

You are good looking, but as previous posters have said, you have to pose more naturally.

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