FabSwingers.com forum: what is wrong with my profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys.

I am after some advice. I have been on forums, chat rooms and still can't seem to attract a meet.

I have now got to thinking my profile is the problem. I'm generally good with people as that is my daily job.

Any ideas would be good.

Cheers in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mention your child and then say your looking for the love of your life, it certainly gives the impression that your looking for dating not swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with poster above and it would put people off as it sounds like you have the potential to get clingy or possessive even if you haven't. You look like a good looking guy so some more pics would help. Not being able to accomodate is a disadvantage. Good luck. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys.

I am after some advice. I have been on forums, chat rooms and still can't seem to attract a meet.

I have now got to thinking my profile is the problem. I'm generally good with people as that is my daily job.

Any ideas would be good.

Cheers in advance."

Cut out the love of your life bit-that would certainly put us off.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Your profile is certainly better then a lot I have read on here.

However, as others have said, what would put me off is the genuine and caring, and the love of my life bit.

I don't want caring, I want fucking, and I'm not looking for someone that sees every potential meet as a candidate for love.

Ok, this may not be the case for you, but your profile comes across that way.

But personally I would say leave it as it is, that way people know what they are getting involved with, and can make a choice on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will be put off that you can't accomodate because they'll assume that you're married and cheating.

Finally I think the comment about going halves on a hotel will put people off too. After all it's you looking for a women so I think most would expect you to pay for the hotel. After all they've got thousands of other men to choose from, a lot of who can accomodate

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

too long for our liking.keep it short n simple.Going half @ the hotel as a single bloke thats why u r not geting meets..

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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Not sure we know any couples that would meet a single guy that wouldn't pay for the hotel, couldn't accommodate (cheating), and is looking for "the love of his life"....

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

"Not sure we know any couples that would meet a single guy that wouldn't pay for the hotel"

You think a single guy should pay for the hotel when meeting a couple?

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't agree that a single guy should pay for the hotel. We'd expect to go halves as it's only fair.

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By *nvyCouple
over a year ago

Waltham Cross

"Hi guys.

I am after some advice. I have been on forums, chat rooms and still can't seem to attract a meet.

I have now got to thinking my profile is the problem. I'm generally good with people as that is my daily job.

Any ideas would be good.

Cheers in advance."

To be fair do you you're profiles not that bad but would def take out the 'love of your life' bit as that tends to be more a dating site thing but in general it's ok. Maybe look at some guys who have a lot of verifications and get some tips from their profiles if you're looking for more meets...good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure we know any couples that would meet a single guy that wouldn't pay for the hotel, couldn't accommodate (cheating), and is looking for "the love of his life"...."

Ok so all single guys that can't accomodate are cheating?

I think that's a bit harsh but that is your opinion. I have said why I can't accomodate, and think it would not be nice for my housemates to have a different person staying all the time.

The love of my life was meant in irony, but does not seem to have conveyed that way. I have taken that on board and wi take it out. I do not want to find the love of my life at this time in my life.

Thank you all for the comments and I will update my profile accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant accomodate and im single.... My bro wouldnt be impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expecting the single guy to pay for a hotel room comes across as arrogant also IMHO

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