FabSwingers.com forum: Help on my profile please?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

I am fairly new here but I am not having much luck in getting interest. I am wondering if its because I have been honest and stated that I am married? I am not going to change that bit, but perhaps the whole text needs re-wording / or some of the pictures removed?

Please can you give me some feedback on my profile.

Thanks

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Too many cock pics, no bio to speak of and you are correct about being married. It's good that you won't change that bit as you are giving people a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too many cock pictures.

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

Agree with above OP. Too many cock pics. Take a few seductive pics half dressed. Suit, short unbuttoned etc.

Other than that you are honest in stating you are married.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you, that's some good advice. I will try and add some more in my time off next week.

Other than the pictures suggested that I should add, what other type would you recommend?

Rather than delete the cock pics, would you say it would be fine to move them into my private gallery?

I see this quite often in some profiles about ladies not wanting cock pictures, but I never understood this because of the adult nature of the site. Can I ask why, just so I can understand.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you, that's some good advice. I will try and add some more in my time off next week.

Other than the pictures suggested that I should add, what other type would you recommend?

Rather than delete the cock pics, would you say it would be fine to move them into my private gallery?

I see this quite often in some profiles about ladies not wanting cock pictures, but I never understood this because of the adult nature of the site. Can I ask why, just so I can understand.

Thank you

Personal preference, but just because this site is an adult site, doesn't mean that 20 pictures of the same cock is appealing. I agree, some photos of you partially dressed, open shirt, pants etc.... hold a little back. Everyone likes to unwrap a present and find out what is inside.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personal preference, but just because this site is an adult site, doesn't mean that 20 pictures of the same cock is appealing. I agree, some photos of you partially dressed, open shirt, pants etc.... hold a little back. Everyone likes to unwrap a present and find out what is inside."

Thank you, I think I am beginning to understand with the cock pictures now.

Ok, those type of pictures sound good. I always find a bit of imagination goes a long way rather than seeing everything at once.

Do you think my bio needs some work? and what sort of things would you like to read? I want to keep it fairly short though as i am not keen on descriptions that go on forever.

This is great advice, thank you everyone!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree with the "too many cock pics" comments.

I suggest you delete the pointless legal warning.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Your avatar makes me think your doorbell went while you were on the loo

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Cocks are rarely attractive things. And even though this is an adult site, many want to connect (even if just for a few hours) with a person. Combine that with the fact that we're constantly bombarded with (often boring, repetitive, and/or disgusting) cock shots on this site... less or none is more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just thought I’d jump on this thread for all those profile specialists and ask to check out mine as well. Cheeky I know. As for op I was surprised by the level of dick pic, nearly went blind!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Just thought I’d jump on this thread for all those profile specialists and ask to check out mine as well. Cheeky I know. As for op I was surprised by the level of dick pic, nearly went blind!"

Bad etiquette to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just thought I’d jump on this thread for all those profile specialists and ask to check out mine as well. Cheeky I know. As for op I was surprised by the level of dick pic, nearly went blind!"

Block single guys on message filters?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your avatar makes me think your doorbell went while you were on the loo

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your avatar makes me think your doorbell went while you were on the loo

Haha! I does look that way! Damn, feel like I should remove that pic now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree with the "too many cock pics" comments.

I suggest you delete the pointless legal warning. "

Thank you;

Legal bit deleted.

Sone cock pics moved into private. Well I think they have as they seem to have disappeared!!

Is the profile getting better? Will work on the bio and better pics when I have more time next week.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

"I agree with the "too many cock pics" comments.

I suggest you delete the pointless legal warning.

Thank you;

Legal bit deleted.

Sone cock pics moved into private. Well I think they have as they seem to have disappeared!!

Is the profile getting better? Will work on the bio and better pics when I have more time next week."

Still way to many cock pictures!

You only need one, as you only have one cock!

Lets put it this way, your in a pub do you get your cock out the moment you meet a woman in the pub?

Think about how you would normally meet a woman and it is the same on here.

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By *oob lover 99Man
over a year ago

chester

It's a good idea asking for advice. I was a bit ignorant to why I had no interest from people. So I have started working on my bio and added some pics. But kept a few for friends. My pic problem is I'm quite tattooed and want to keep them covered

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP Why don't you like hotel meets ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It's a good idea asking for advice. I was a bit ignorant to why I had no interest from people. So I have started working on my bio and added some pics. But kept a few for friends. My pic problem is I'm quite tattooed and want to keep them covered "

Blurring digitally is acceptable.

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By *oob lover 99Man
over a year ago

chester

Blurring digitally is acceptable. "

Thanks for the tip

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Thank you, that's some good advice. I will try and add some more in my time off next week.

Other than the pictures suggested that I should add, what other type would you recommend?

Rather than delete the cock pics, would you say it would be fine to move them into my private gallery?

I see this quite often in some profiles about ladies not wanting cock pictures, but I never understood this because of the adult nature of the site. Can I ask why, just so I can understand.

Thank you

Because adults know what will attract other adults. It is teenage boys that are so proud of their genitalia, they think everybody else wants to see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with the "too many cock pics" comments.

I suggest you delete the pointless legal warning.

Thank you;

Legal bit deleted.

Sone cock pics moved into private. Well I think they have as they seem to have disappeared!!

Is the profile getting better? Will work on the bio and better pics when I have more time next week.

Still way to many cock pictures!

You only need one, as you only have one cock!

Lets put it this way, your in a pub do you get your cock out the moment you meet a woman in the pub?

Think about how you would normally meet a woman and it is the same on here."

Gosh how many did you have before. In ten years on fab I have (male half here) only ever had one cock pick and that was in private. Only time I have been asked to send one has been by unverified couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Evening everyone!

Lots of comments since I was last on! Thank you. I will try and answer below rather than quote everyone!

Hotel meets - a cost involved; I'm not tight and willing to pay. But its principal with me. The moment money is involved it feels like prostitution. No problem with that, but it takes the fun out of it and feels like your just paying for it.

I agree with the number of cock pics. However I have seen some female profiles on here that have far more cock sucking, tit and pussy pics than their male counterparts. And nothing is said about the number of those. I've also seen posts about this and how its one sided and thus men tend to get more stick over the same issue. So it does seem a bit one sided. But I will take what you say onboard.

Its about confidence, older I'm not so shy or worried about showing what I have. But as a teenager I would never show pics like this of myself regardless of how proud of my cock I might have been.

But its all good advice, thank you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Unfortunately women have their pick on here, so can afford to be hypocritical if they want to. Also, I sometimes see men saying they want more explicit pictures from women, so... maybe they're playing to their audience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I now viewing the edited number of penis pics? If so...how many were there before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I now viewing the edited number of penis pics? If so...how many were there before

Yes! Stacks of them, taken me hours to remove them...nah, not that many to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unfortunately women have their pick on here, so can afford to be hypocritical if they want to. Also, I sometimes see men saying they want more explicit pictures from women, so... maybe they're playing to their audience? "

Spot on! Yes this is definitely the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on! Yes this is definitely the case. "

Plus it's only ever men who ask advice about how to get a meet. If a women or couple profile asked advice about thier profile. If it was full of pusy pics would get the same comments from us

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I get about equal positive and negative comments about the lack of nudity on my profile. I'd consider comments either way and target my audience if I needed to. As it is, it's how I like it.

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

Sorry cock pictures even worse, but its your choice, rather than take advice.

Would you really cum in front of a woman in a pub.

Would you get your cock out in public?

Ummm hotel will not pay, but as a married man you expect a woman to accommodate?

So if your caught the woman gets shit from your other half due to finding out where she lives.

Sorry being brutal but you need to think of consequences

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

OP, paying the hotel feels like prostitution? So you are equally unprepared to pay for food, drinks and transport?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well , I am also facing same . I did not get any interests from people around. Can someone suggest?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, paying the hotel feels like prostitution? So you are equally unprepared to pay for food, drinks and transport?"

Calm down, it was only a comment!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry cock pictures even worse, but its your choice, rather than take advice.

Would you really cum in front of a woman in a pub.

Would you get your cock out in public?

Ummm hotel will not pay, but as a married man you expect a woman to accommodate?

So if your caught the woman gets shit from your other half due to finding out where she lives.

Sorry being brutal but you need to think of consequences "

Well, i could equally say the same;

Would you get your tits out in public?

Would you finger yourself in front of a man at a bar?

No to both, and the same from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks fine, it’s all about how you come across in your first message and always include a face photo.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Thank you, that's some good advice. I will try and add some more in my time off next week.

Other than the pictures suggested that I should add, what other type would you recommend?

Rather than delete the cock pics, would you say it would be fine to move them into my private gallery?

I see this quite often in some profiles about ladies not wanting cock pictures, but I never understood this because of the adult nature of the site. Can I ask why, just so I can understand.

Thank you

Pretty much why I would veto meeting you is summed up in "it's an adult site so why don't you want to see my cock"

Yes, you have a penis, well done, guess what people on swinging sites have seen one before, and if u are a cis man we expect one

What else do you have that my you box doesn't have reliable plastic versions of?

(Miss Icebreaker)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya

Same for me no interest any tips xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, username, cock photos and the words VWE

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Profile looks fine, it’s all about how you come across in your first message and always include a face photo."

Thank you, you have made my day. You are the first one that has added a positive comment for quite a while in this thread! Instead of the feeling that its now become a bit of a attack on my bio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile looks fine, it’s all about how you come across in your first message and always include a face photo.

Thank you, you have made my day. You are the first one that has added a positive comment for quite a while in this thread! Instead of the feeling that its now become a bit of a attack on my bio.

X "

Thank you, however, still too many photos of a small penis!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you, however, still too many photos of a small penis! "

Haha!

well, I will have to convince myself that its what you do with it rather than size that matters! Of course that's probably a comfort comment for men with small dicks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for me lol. Any advice s don't have cock pics lol

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