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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know what I'm doing wrong,

No one wants to meet with me, not even a social,

I only have a mobile so cannot cam and I am too anxious to go to the fab clubs

Help

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By *appyWandererMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Profile Structure

About - what are you like as a person? Funny, energetic, do you like puns etc

Why you are on fab?

Meeting women - Tell them what meeting you is like. Fuck and go is never in the equation, they want good qaulity conversation before a meet.

Meetings Couples - Outline how you like to approach things

Rules - Self explanatory

Swingers rarely want to get involved in someone personally life unless it is a regular meet. Stuff about children, is best left off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile updated, I hope its better than it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what I'm doing wrong,

No one wants to meet with me, not even a social,

I only have a mobile so cannot cam and I am too anxious to go to the fab clubs

Help"

Download puffin browser to cam on your phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you be about 6ft

Either you are of you aren't !

Straight away you sound suspect not knowing your height !

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Maybe expand a bit more about the type of ladies you are looking for and the type of play you like. Are you looking for one offs,1 to 1s, couples, group play etc..

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Put meet ads up? Nobody is gonna find you through status alone. Look for a local organised social event in a bar you’ll get to meet a fair few people and get some verifications along with it

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't know what I'm doing wrong,

No one wants to meet with me, not even a social,

I only have a mobile so cannot cam and I am too anxious to go to the fab clubs

Help"

Obviously you haven’t asked for profile advice so I can’t comment on that but just keep messaging ladies, look at their profiles and construct a message accordingly. Ladies don’t like a copy and paste message.

Good luck

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As Bhubaysi said - we can’t comment on your profile until you ask us to. I would ask us to.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Also, kindly, Fab is a terrible place for self esteem sometimes. Don't rely on it and steel yourself against it. It can be an incredible tool, but only if you're prepared for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is rather boringly average.

Your pics are awful.

Sorry, just being brutally honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I any feedback is good, so please tell me whats wrong and why and I can hopefully make them better

Profile or photos or anything, any help is good

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I don't know what I'm doing wrong,

No one wants to meet with me, not even a social,

I only have a mobile so cannot cam and I am too anxious to go to the fab clubs

Help

Download puffin browser to cam on your phone. "

Also you have to use the full site with Puffin, not mobile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is rather boringly average.

Your pics are awful.

Sorry, just being brutally honest "

What's so awful about my pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand the statement 'about 6ft'. I don't think it makes you sound suspect, I think it makes you sound like you are about 6ft tall! Simple!

Re the rest of your profile, I agree that your pics could be better. You seem to be in good shape mate so find a good camera angle. Remember that professional photographers will often take 100s of photos but will only be happy with one...take lots and objectify them.

I think you also need more of a killer punch with your text. The many many many male and female timewasters aside, genuine people on FS are generally on here to fuck. They don't want to fully dally.

To be honest though this site is hard work at the best of times. Lots of folk seem to have beer money but champagne tastes. I am beer! But fucking good beer!

Good luck mate. And chin up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully dally should read dilly dally...

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW

Try real life

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Profile pic reminds me of the local perv or burglar peering through my letterbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is rather boringly average.

Your pics are awful.

Sorry, just being brutally honest

What's so awful about my pictures? "

They look as if you have put zero effort into them.

Your profile is your shop window, be a bit creative

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW


"Profile pic reminds me of the local perv or burglar peering through my letterbox."

So THATS where I know him from

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