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Advice me as iam not getting any meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi iam 33 straight male from boro

Since iam here looking for meet with single or couple but no luck

But daily 5 to 10 interest from male but iam not interested in.

Not getting any in what iam looking for..

Can any one tell me y?? Plz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asian?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes iam

Is this the reason??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a single and not any meet yet will I be still allowed to get in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You asian?"

Is this the reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club"

As a single straight and not any meet yet

Will I be allowed to get in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to cam rooms, stick your cam om and show face and ppl will verify you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to cam rooms, stick your cam om and show face and ppl will verify you"

I will try this

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Being Asian will not have much influence on whether you get meets.

Are you messaging people you are interested in? If you don't do this you may be in for a very long wait for people to message you.

When someone sends a message most single ladies and couples will read your profile text and look at your public pictures. If they don't see anything that interests them they won't want to chat with you.

I suggest you do a forum search for profile advice - there are hundreds of threads already out there with some very good advice on them. Pick out the good bits and see if you can apply them to your profile.

Good luck OP

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By *appyWandererMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Why you aren't getting meets, simple.

- Generic profile text. No personality and doesn't read well

- No face or full body picture.

- 1 photo

- No verification, even by webcam.

Ask yourself why a couple will choose you over the other 30 guys that messaged them

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Check out a few other male profiles and see what looks good. Photo angles, witty comments and a general feeling of Yeah-that's-what-I-should-be-saying.

Post a lot of good, nice and well spoken comments in the forums. It worked for me!

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By * and RoxCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool/Leeds

We get plenty of messages like "want to meet" well no as no picture no profile saying what they are about!

We get no face pic on profile as some dont want kids wife or whatever knowing but if you going to message send some form of pic to get a response.

Please read a profile fully before messaging as well x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being Asian will not have much influence on whether you get meets.

Are you messaging people you are interested in? If you don't do this you may be in for a very long wait for people to message you.

When someone sends a message most single ladies and couples will read your profile text and look at your public pictures. If they don't see anything that interests them they won't want to chat with you.

I suggest you do a forum search for profile advice - there are hundreds of threads already out there with some very good advice on them. Pick out the good bits and see if you can apply them to your profile.

Good luck OP"

Yes I do text but mostly getting no reply or if getting reply say not our type lol

Nearly did arrange meet but refused if thay saw my pics or face pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why you aren't getting meets, simple.

- Generic profile text. No personality and doesn't read well

- No face or full body picture.

- 1 photo

- No verification, even by webcam.

Ask yourself why a couple will choose you over the other 30 guys that messaged them "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why you aren't getting meets, simple.

- Generic profile text. No personality and doesn't read well

- No face or full body picture.

- 1 photo

- No verification, even by webcam.

Ask yourself why a couple will choose you over the other 30 guys that messaged them "

Thanks I will try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need a face pic up that will help

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

If people are not attracted then you change things. In reality though some people have less appeal than others that you can't do a lot about so its best to make the most of any positive attributes you have.

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