FabSwingers.com forum: Private parties / events

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right guys, I have been on the scene for few years now, love clubs but never attended private party. Not sure what to think of them, what's your opinions and experiences?

Would you recommend private parties or rather advice to stay away from them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one. Will be interesting to see thaughts

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By *aughty_Nat69Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Love private party! Defo my favourite thing about fab! if you can get yourself invited to one then defo go! xxx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I host my own small private parties... saves me the hassle of going to a club and being surrounded by the Walking Dead "Whisperers"

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

We do parties, love it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Brilliant, can you tell us about your parties a bit more.

Iv been invited to a few parties but as we all know always a bit tricky but thrilling doing something for the first time lol

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

"Brilliant, can you tell us about your parties a bit more.

Iv been invited to a few parties but as we all know always a bit tricky but thrilling doing something for the first time lol

All info is on my profile... xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It very much depends on the hosts, the other guests and the set up of the party. Never again will we go to a party where there is no dedicated social space and everyone is expected to play.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Avoid parties where you are expected to pay, or are used as bait by the organisers to entice guys along (who have to pay).

We have been to loads of (free) parties organised by people who's only intention is to have fun with a bunch of others, and had a great time, and made loads of friends. Definately keep an eye out for any in your area, and try and get an invite....but make sure you turn up, word spreads fast if you mess people around.

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By *akequeen90Couple
over a year ago

Sydney

We do our own private parties. Fun starts after weve knocked over a few drinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been to a couple of private parties, they were great fun and quite a few firsts for me. Give it a try OP you might love em too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We host our own private parties but in one of the local clubs....we also hold house parties occasionally too!

We have to charge an entry fee to cover our costs only, not for our own profit! Our ethos is to have fun and that is what we ensure happens and our verifications back up our claim

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We have held a party or two. It was fantastic but surprisingly hard work. We had to invite 4x as many people as we wanted there!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"It very much depends on the hosts, the other guests and the set up of the party. Never again will we go to a party where there is no dedicated social space and everyone is expected to play."

Totally agree on this one, been to good and erm not so good lol if there’s not a guest list then it can be difficult if there’s no social area if there’s nobody you want to play with, have to make your excuses and leave but could be seen as rude, give it a whirl what do you have to loose?

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

We had a couple who came and were chatted. Played as part of the group and literally the moment they had finished they got dressed and left abruptly

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I'd host a party at mine but doubt if anyone would be all that interested really ..

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love private parties. Always good fun with lovely people and no dramas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Small private parties are generally loads of fun, large private parties are generally not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We occasionally do private parties, but they're always deliciously kinky affairs which rules a lot of the more vanilla folk out.

But as they tend to be immersive, taking a theme and creating a story from it where everyone present has a role that scratches all their favourite itches, they tend to work best with a smaller group, say 10-12 attendees?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right, thanks for your replies guys.

Might as well put it out there that if you organise parties please send me an invite. Can attend on my own or as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private parties are great more relaxed than clubs. We hold monthly parties feel free to message if anyone would like any info

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Private parties are great more relaxed than clubs. We hold monthly parties feel free to message if anyone would like any info "
funny i find the total opposite. Have always felt pressured to play at parties even if it's not really had people I wanted to play with. Where as at clubs there is never any pressure. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Brilliant, can you tell us about your parties a bit more.

Iv been invited to a few parties but as we all know always a bit tricky but thrilling doing something for the first time lol

If you have been invited, go along and find out rather than asking everyone on here! You will have a much more realistic idea that way. Also, invites are very few and far between for most single guys don't waste yours. Use the chance to get to know people.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Op, if you get invited to a private party - go for it!

We can't get enough of them, they can be amazing events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have attended several and also run our own.

We always have great fun at house parties

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Avoid parties where you are expected to pay, or are used as bait by the organisers to entice guys along (who have to pay).

Yes my first question would always be how much (some are just scamming you for money) followed by and how much are the men paying (not being used as bait). Chose wisely cos I'm sure you will get a few invites off this thread.

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

As an old school swinger I love non commercial private parties but haven't had a chance to attend one in years.

With regard to paying, unless you are part of a network of people that already know and trust each other paying is unavoidable. Its safer to hire a venue and that comes with an overhead that has to be met.

As a bi curious couple we find the lack of choices in the weekend somewhat frustrating so we hosted our own exclusively bi interracial party last year. Lots of fun but also a lot of hard work so to be honest,given a choice we'd rather attend than host.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love parties. We hold them once a month pm us if anyone is interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It very much depends on the hosts, the other guests and the set up of the party. Never again will we go to a party where there is no dedicated social space and everyone is expected to play."
private house parties shouldn’t be that way we have plenty of playrooms for people to use if they wish but we also have four social areas and disco for people to socialise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We host our own private parties but in one of the local clubs....we also hold house parties occasionally too!

We have to charge an entry fee to cover our costs only, not for our own profit! Our ethos is to have fun and that is what we ensure happens and our verifications back up our claim

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same cover cost not for profit you see some parties advertising we’re its clearly to make money

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We've only been to club parties. Going to our first more private party in hotel/bb xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our next party in two weeks if anyone is interested in attending.

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SATURDAY 14th SEPTEMBER 8pm - 2am

Spaces go very quick great mix of people attend from all over the UK.

Brilliant mix from 20s to 50s everyone is welcome.

We have four social areas we’re guest can relax, meet new and old friends. Show your moves on the dancfloor with a great mix of music and lights. If the mood takes you we have five play areas we’re you can play if you wish. Condoms, lubes and wipes are all in the rooms if needed.

Food, soft and hot drinks are all provided. Alcohol is bring your own.

Plenty of on street parking which is available including two car parks both within a few minute walking distance.

Feel free to pm or our party profile Hull Parties if you would like any more info or search Summer BBQ in the party section on the forum.

Pm to get on the guest list and join Hulls Biggest Swingers Parties this September.

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