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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello,

Looking for some advise. Don’t seem to be getting a lot of meets, I wonder if someone could take a look and help me improve my profile?

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Three meets on two weeks of being on here you are rocking it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks! Just first few days seemed to be really booming but since uploading pictures it’s dropped off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt its your photos putting people off,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be happy to meet you, but you have 'cannot travel or accommodate'. So instantly this says fake female profile to us.

Even if you are genuine. This would also make a meet impossible.

I know you have put in your written part that you can travel locally, but the other bit comes up on the screen first. So automatically move on for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

Looking for some advise. Don’t seem to be getting a lot of meets, I wonder if someone could take a look and help me improve my profile? "

Tried to message you but I am out of your age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I’ll get this changed now!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The can't travel or accommodate bit hasn't stopped me, to be honest. Being genuine can come across in other ways. (I travel locally, and had "can travel" briefly. I started getting offers from hundreds of miles away)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Watch your spelling and grammar (you're not local, not your). Less important for women, but if you're specifically going to point out this stuff yourself, you don't want to make basic errors.

I think your profile is OK. Even for a woman you're getting meets at a good rate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I’ve made some amendments now!

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

From what I've seen, you've had 3 meets in 2 weeks, and most likely gonna get a meet on Sunday as you've posted a meet me for that day. I think you're doing alright lol exactly how many meets would you prefer in 2 weeks ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s more of the making my profile more attractive to the right sort of people!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Doing OK by the looks of things.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s more of the making my profile more attractive to the right sort of people! "

Be nice, friendly, and yourself, is the best advice. There's no deterring the wrong sort, though, I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice xx

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

Looks good to us

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve found that full figure photos rather than just boobs/bum attract more attention...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said you have made some ‘amendments’ but your profile says you are looking for sexual ventures and it should be adventures.

Love the photos though they are very alluring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You said you have made some ‘amendments’ but your profile says you are looking for sexual ventures and it should be adventures.

Love the photos though they are very alluring."

Indeed, and for someone who has made a point about spelling....

By the way, you're looking to FULFILL a fantasy.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think you want people to drop you a message not a massage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s more of the making my profile more attractive to the right sort of people!

Be nice, friendly, and yourself, is the best advice. There's no deterring the wrong sort, though, I'm afraid. "

Love seeing you on the local updates OP, as above be yourself, unfortunately there will be idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody likes a profile that starts off with a whinge about what they don't like only to find there are mistakes everywhere..

Also your header says you're looking for fun with couples yet your two actual meets are with men

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london

Shame you are that far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

Looking for some advise. Don’t seem to be getting a lot of meets, I wonder if someone could take a look and help me improve my profile? "

Ur profile looks ok to me ....it just takes time ....have you tried going to any meet n greets as ul get to meet loads of new friends and people who you possibly wouldnt even get to chat to on here! Hope all gets going for you, happy fabbing!

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon


"You said you have made some ‘amendments’ but your profile says you are looking for sexual ventures and it should be adventures.

Love the photos though they are very alluring.

Indeed, and for someone who has made a point about spelling....

By the way, you're looking to FULFILL a fantasy."

If you're American maybe, the English is fulfil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks! Just first few days seemed to be really booming but since uploading pictures it’s dropped off "

Ive looked at your pics oved and over...it is indeed dropping off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know there doesn’t seem to be that many local couples to me which is unfortunate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for letting me know, autocorrect is the Bain of my life!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Nobody likes a profile that starts off with a whinge about what they don't like only to find there are mistakes everywhere..

Also your header says you're looking for fun with couples yet your two actual meets are with men "

Maybe the OP hasn't found a couple she wants to meet with yet? If she's also looking for men why the confusion?

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I’ve found that full figure photos rather than just boobs/bum attract more attention... "

Concur!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only joined 3 weeks ago and had 2 meets already.... That's pretty good going! Besides about quality not quantity. Nice profile lovely pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some more different pictures may do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The can't travel or accommodate bit hasn't stopped me, to be honest. Being genuine can come across in other ways. (I travel locally, and had "can travel" briefly. I started getting offers from hundreds of miles away) "

I'm the same as you with the travelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very hard to beleive that nobody wants to meet you how many messages a day do you receive

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Funnily enough, I would suggest clubs or parties, unless the element of anonymity makes it more exciting for you.

Would also suggest not repeating the things you ticked at the beginning, i.e. if you chose the "curvy" option for your body type, no need to repeat that or to expect people not to like you for it. You cannot control what they like, so leave it to them to decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there any particular fantasy or fantasies you can describe when you talk about trying new kinky things. I think if you give examples it helps people identity easier if your interests align. Hope that helps, would be intetested to here what others think on that point, because I'm new to this myself. Cheers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody likes a profile that starts off with a whinge about what they don't like only to find there are mistakes everywhere..

Also your header says you're looking for fun with couples yet your two actual meets are with men "

To be honest I picked up on that. You really went in with the brutally honest approach (sounds harsh lol) where I aimed for constructive. I do agree in principle though; A focus on the positives is much more attractive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing better than me on the meets lol.. so you must be doing something right

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