FabSwingers.com forum: Not getting any meets.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it my profile or age or something im missing? If you could give advice or help that would be great? Thank you

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You had a meet last month. Maybe it's your expectations that need work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First, can’t reply privately because you block men. It’s not just women that can offer advice.

Perhaps, and it’s just one man’s opinion, you come across as wanting to ‘use’ women for just one thing. The words you list perhaps sound harsh. Women want to be valued and appreciated and nothing here comes even close. Clearly, you want to fuck, NSA, attract someone that matches your sexual appetite but you could frame your profile differently and maybe......

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

You've got a bunch of veris, doing better than most guys who ask for advice.

Personally the pics with all the captions and images added strike me as juvenile, and your text makes you sound more like a picture collector who likes camming, both of which would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age, yes to an extent it will go against you but that's just individual preferences, that's out of your control.

Your pictures are immature.

Your text, quite degrading to women.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Normally when I see one of these threads, I will check a profile out completly before forming an opinion.

I didn't get past the first 4 photos.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Very bizarre pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually your age wouldn't put me off... Your list of the porn you have watched has though... And the pics someones 2 year old has drawn on, well I only got past them to the writen bit because of what of what others had said about it

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By *eleytMan
over a year ago

holywood.

any advice on mine would he greatful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather use my toys.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everybody wants something that's unique to them - so as long as you target your activities towards those who seem to be wanting what's mutually needed, you'll be improving your potential success. There are people who like guys in your age range, as well as others who potentially may find your age too close to that of members of their family.

After a brief look at your profile, I got the impression of something like a menu of requirements, rather than an eloquently written outline of you as a person and what you offer, as well as seek. I don't think you specifically asked for profile advice, so it's not really appropriate for me to give it.

Consider making some changes to how you communicate and experimenting, to potentially see how it may improve things for you. It's worth searching the forum for posts with advice that help single guys, as there are many upon profile help and other aspects of success.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Your pictures are juvenile, as others have said.

Your text is about what you want. Apart from the generic, what do you have to offer?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

It's obviously working for you as you have recent veris. Leave it as it is if it truly reflects your personality.

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Whatever works for you mate. It should reflect who you are. If you're getting meets then you can't be doing much wrong.

It's not like mine but I don't get contacted often so perhaps therein lies the point.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

A negative attitude comes across on the profile It would put me off totally.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

Not for me, but that doesn’t mean it’s not for everyone. You are getting meets so it’s clearly working to some degree!

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

May be its a welsh thing. We're getting plenty of meets on this side of the border. In fact hoovering up all the welsh women too.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

I'll send some back to you

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Off topic, but have they moved Worcester to Wales now then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ask for advice if you don't intend to take it OP?

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By *itch400Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I too have problems trying to establish contact, links or general conversation on fab right now!

I am quite an open minded guy when it comes to the types of sexual things i have listed on profile its just me being adventurous, i have put a number of selfies on, but would couples, single ladies really want to see “other” more explicit ones idont know?

But yes im struggling even getting replies let alone any contact, any advice for me fabbies? Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age, yes to an extent it will go against you but that's just individual preferences, that's out of your control.

Your pictures are immature.

Your text, quite degrading to women."

Hes 23 so of course hes immature

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Off topic, but have they moved Worcester to Wales now then ?"

Think its still in the west Midlands. Is it slipping off the edge of England? Any other english cities at risk? Is chester still ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it my profile or age or something im missing? If you could give advice or help that would be great? Thank you"
nothing wrong at less you had a meet on here a lot of men do not have any that how hard it is on here for single men. anyway good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 9 cock pics out of 11 pics and you're 23 not sure how you message women but if you lead with sex then most likely that's reason you fail but you have veris so maybe you're doing better than many

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By *ppo BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

barnsley

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By *ppo BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"Is it my profile or age or something im missing? If you could give advice or help that would be great? Thank you"
pictures are really poor with the silly writing on them but hey you have lots or verifications iv got one you must be doing something right I don't even get a response lol continue as you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You appear to only have meets in May and October so I'd hang on until next year now mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's mainly web cam veris.. I wonder why..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it my profile or age or something im missing? If you could give advice or help that would be great? Thank you nothing wrong at less you had a meet on here a lot of men do not have any that how hard it is on here for single men. anyway good luck"
Any way i had someone send me a fake meet were i did not meet this person has it every happen to anyone else because i know i may not get a meet..it seem they deleted there profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it my profile or age or something im missing? If you could give advice or help that would be great? Thank you nothing wrong at less you had a meet on here a lot of men do not have any that how hard it is on here for single men. anyway good luck Any way i had someone send me a fake meet were i did not meet this person has it every happen to anyone else because i know i may not get a meet..it seem they deleted there profile.

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awwwww sounds like another guy, lucky escape if you're straight

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Any way i had someone send me a fake meet were i did not meet this person has it every happen to anyone else because i know i may not get a meet..it seem they deleted there profile.

I thought if they closed their account the veris disappear?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I thought if they closed their account the veris disappear?"

Yes they do.

Someone sent me a fake verification and I asked admin to remove it and they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought if they closed their account the veris disappear?

Yes they do.

Someone sent me a fake verification and I asked admin to remove it and they did. "
Can I borrow your spirit level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought if they closed their account the veris disappear?

Yes they do.

Someone sent me a fake verification and I asked admin to remove it and they did. "

Same happened to me. I messaged admin to remove it about 3 weeks ago. Nothing happened. Veri still there but good job I can hide it.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP your pics are less than average and childish.

Your text is about you you you and you come over as wanting to use women.

It all needs a major re-think.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

One thing that would put me off is telling women how to talk to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your profile is spot on.

You are getting results.

Put more cartoons in, like googly eyes on your cock, it shows your playful side.

Also expand on your pic preferences, you missed out rosebudding, atm and hardsports.

Good luck. Your profile reflects who you are.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Op -you seem a bit confused as to what vanilla is -last time I checked, it was anything but offensive? It's the little details like this that make people think you haven't a clue imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather use my toys."

THIS!!

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

"I think your profile is spot on.

You are getting results.

Put more cartoons in, like googly eyes on your cock, it shows your playful side.

Also expand on your pic preferences, you missed out rosebudding, atm and hardsports.

Good luck. Your profile reflects who you are."

Yes. Perfect.

4 pics could be quick draw jizz slinger. Perhaps a little holster and a sheriff badge?

Thirsty cock pic would benefit from a straw and glass of milk

Film night in or filthy scenarios... oh the dilemma. Which to choose? Other great options too . Im going to copy and paste it into my profile right now

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

First and foremost your age will put many people off. You can't do anything about it, so don't fret.

We would consider meeting with you however, if it wsn't for this line "I understand this is a swingers site but i dont mind going for drinks or having a film night in if its with the right person", followed by a whole list of sexual things you want to do.

To us, that comes across as 'I want sex but if I really must I'll go for a drink with you first as long as we get to the sex bit, because that's all I want.

Now, no worries at all we are all here for sex. However knickers don't generally fall off if the first impression is all wrong.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Some ladies love them but a little look at your first couple of pictures and I had to get out of your profile. Cock pics just are or not at all for me.

So my personal opinion, is that I wouldn't even get to reading any text or pass the first couple of photos.

At the end of the day, it's your profile so your chance to show your individual personality. If that is what you are doing I would leave it how it is so people can see a glimpse of who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally think many ask for advice but never take it, good advice has been given let's see what happens.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"I generally think many ask for advice but never take it, good advice has been given let's see what happens. "

That is so true in so many of these profile advice threads, I really don't understand it. Obviously they can't take all the advice but to ask for advice and then take none of it at all, it's almost like they just want someone to look at their profile but don't really want advice on how to improve it.

I am somewhat wary of giving advice, because the profiles should be what they want to say about themselves, not what strangers feel they should say about themselves, to get other strangers to meet them.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

May be its not advice you seek, but exposure and opportunity.

More women talk here in the forum, than out in the wild, which is the fabled fabland

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