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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard for me to get any success on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard for me to get any success on here "

In theory, you're the only person who can answer that.

What has the thread title got to do with your post?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Because you are looking for "regular encounters of mind blowing fun". A bit hard for a woman to guarantee she can offer that.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Because there are such an abundance of single guys on here so you have alot of stiff competition. Maybe women are put off by the fact that you want to have sex with 99 year olds.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"Because there are such an abundance of single guys on here so you have a lot of stiff competition. "

I did laugh @ "stiff" competition though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesnt express where you go to play. So a lot would think you're looking for women /cpls to accommodate!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Because there are such an abundance of single guys on here so you have a lot of stiff competition.

I did laugh @ "stiff" competition though"

Glad to have raised a smile x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've changed that now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not put some effort in and you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s early days for you . Be patient once people see your here for a while and you get ur 1st verification things will start to change .

Read profiles and try to make a connection in your initial messages

My experience was a long time before my 1st meet .

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Patience, Grasshopper. ..patience..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perhaps try clubs or socials. Lovely pics by the way. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because there are such an abundance of single guys on here so you have a lot of stiff competition.

I did laugh @ "stiff" competition though"

Not just me then, lol

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
over a year ago

Marlow


"Patience, Grasshopper. ..patience.."

He's only 31 he wont have a clue what you're on about,

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Some guys do quite well I have noticed and its probably down to how they approach swinging and their attitude, their profile, the messages they send makes them stand out and its only natural for women on here to be drawn to the people who stand out in a positive way.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Some guys do quite well I have noticed and its probably down to how they approach swinging and their attitude, their profile, the messages they send makes them stand out and its only natural for women on here to be drawn to the people who stand out in a positive way. "

Couldn’t agree more

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

I'm intrigued with the op's ability to make his girth larger for the right person... Or does he make it smaller for the wrong person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do alright on here. Had a naughty ffm the other weekend. I think you’ve just got to be polite and respectful and also make the most of your photos to make you stand out from the crowd. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm intrigued with the op's ability to make his girth larger for the right person... Or does he make it smaller for the wrong person?"

I thought the same thing... thats quite a talent.

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had an issue. Don't treat this as getting any luck. Be grateful you get a reply or get messaged.

It's not a free fuck site for single guys.

It's a site where the man is only here to add to a woman or couples life (as a single straight guy I mean) .

You don't call any shots on here buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys do quite well I have noticed and its probably down to how they approach swinging and their attitude, their profile, the messages they send makes them stand out and its only natural for women on here to be drawn to the people who stand out in a positive way. "
you I would message you something nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, can you start a sentence without using "I am" in your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi jess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard for me to get any success on here "

as a guy we have to compete with time wasters, 6ft2 shredded dudes, monster cock larrys and abusive twats due to men bombarding women's inboxes its hard for any dude to really find success on here. thats just the nature of a site like this, ive been on and off this site for over 5 years and its always the same.

if you want my advice talk in forums and chatrooms comment to peoples status's like pics and put meets up. also try talking to couples rather than just singles couple are more likely to reply and bring you into there home/relationship

yeah it will be hard but like i said there are way more men on here than women and alot of the time if your message doesnt stand out they will just overlook or it wll get deleted because they have 500 unread messages 967 wink and 2476 fabbed pics

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I can't speak for other women, but if you write messages based on profile text that are respectful, and two or more sentences long, you'll be doing better than the majority. It's not enough, but it's a damn good start.

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By *RIDAY NIGHT LADYWoman
over a year ago

Bolton


"Why is it so hard for me to get any success on here "

Your asking for mind blowing sex, so that puts a woman off to start with.

Good sex comes with time add getting to know the person.

So think about what the woman would be looking for, also are you thinking that women should accommodate you?

Why not get along to a club or social, take part in the forums so people get to know you.

YOU have to make the effort.

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