FabSwingers.com forum: Still no luck

By *inkyDom96 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarmouth

I’ve been on here for a little under a now and I’ve still not had any luck meeting someone, I have also been to a club as I thought that would help but still no luck. I know that it’s mostly down to my age but am I missing something else.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Happy fabbing everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is fuck all you can do about it.

I was recently away and had far more success using a different site. 2 threesomes in 3 days compared to months of nothing here.

It is true you make your own luck, but Fab skews the odds firmly against single guys.

I only stick around because I like

a handful of people on here. I'm unlikely to be invited to their budoir but they make me laugh.

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By *inkyDom96 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarmouth

"There is fuck all you can do about it.

I was recently away and had far more success using a different site. 2 threesomes in 3 days compared to months of nothing here.

It is true you make your own luck, but Fab skews the odds firmly against single guys.

I only stick around because I like

a handful of people on here. I'm unlikely to be invited to their budoir but they make me laugh.

"
the downfall of being a single guy it’s like everyone hates us

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Unfortunately you are in a mixing pot of 10 Gazzilion Million Guys. And yes unfortunately for many couples and women (Nor all) you are too young and looked upon as inexperienced.

Just the way it is I’m afraid.

Good luck. X

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Try going to the club/clubs a few times no one said it would happen on the first night it takes time to get to know people.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you are just one more single man in a pool of thousands so you are bound to struggle somewhat. Add into this the fact you are into BDSM and you reduce the potential field even further. Many people have little or no interest in that scene. You may have more success finding a sub on a fetish lifestyle website.

Your age won't help you - I can't think of anyone I know who would be comfortable calling a 22 year old "daddy" no matter how much it gets you off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 22 your closer to our kids age, including our youngest who isn't in double figures yet. And you'll find that's the thought if a lot on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 10/11/18 14:10:05]"

That made me LOL X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you are just one more single man in a pool of thousands so you are bound to struggle somewhat. Add into this the fact you are into BDSM and you reduce the potential field even further. Many people have little or no interest in that scene. You may have more success finding a sub on a fetish lifestyle website.

Your age won't help you - I can't think of anyone I know who would be comfortable calling a 22 year old "daddy" no matter how much it gets you off!"

Exactly this. For young guys it is more difficult. But I personally couldn't call a 22 year old daddy.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Try going to the club/clubs a few times no one said it would happen on the first night it takes time to get to know people."

I think this would be my advise too. Clubs attract a wide age range and you get chance to see people face to face.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I’ve been on here for a little under a now and I’ve still not had any luck meeting someone, I have also been to a club as I thought that would help but still no luck. I know that it’s mostly down to my age but am I missing something else.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Happy fabbing everyone "

Describing yourself as a ‘Daddy Dom’ at your age won’t work for you mate, as others have already said. I would recommend you use your age to best effect; there are many older ladies who actively seek out young guys. Wipe your profile clean, and re-write with the emphasis on you being a young single guy, looking for experience in the swinging lifestyle

You can explore your ‘Dom’ side in your thirties, when you’re outside the ‘cougars and cubs’ arena.

Also; remove the ‘Dom’ from your username, use ‘lad’ or something more applicable to your age. All the best mate

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Your age won't help you - I can't think of anyone I know who would be comfortable calling a 22 year old "daddy" no matter how much it gets you off!"

This!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What is an urban explorer ?

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By *inkyDom96 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarmouth

"What is an urban explorer ?"
going to abandoned buildings and things like that

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What is an urban explorer ? going to abandoned buildings and things like that"

I hope you have a hard helmet

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Gotta be kidding me ... a Dom at 22... and a paranormal investigator what the fu*k is that ? ghost shit ? ...erm........ sorry but ... hate me go on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gotta be kidding me ... a Dom at 22... and a paranormal investigator what the fu*k is that ? ghost shit ? ...erm........ sorry but ... hate me go on"

thats my response as I read.

OP- change username, its not 50shades.

lose that paranormal bit

a reason you cannot accom

a club might not be the best place to get verifies from..socials should be better

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Gotta be kidding me ... a Dom at 22... and a paranormal investigator what the fu*k is that ? ghost shit ? ...erm........ sorry but ... hate me go on"

People don't usually suddenly become dominant sexually at a certain age, its quite possible that he's dom now. He might not have the years of experience or have honed his skills but he's identified his niche.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Op you're young thats possibly whats holding you back but its also the huge number of single men compared to women.

I'd say keep your profile as it is, it will attract people you're compatible with and thats the aim surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gotta be kidding me ... a Dom at 22... and a paranormal investigator what the fu*k is that ? ghost shit ? ...erm........ sorry but ... hate me go on

its hardly a niche when he'll go sub though lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Gotta be kidding me ... a Dom at 22... and a paranormal investigator what the fu*k is that ? ghost shit ? ...erm........ sorry but ... hate me go on

its hardly a niche when he'll go sub though lol"

People switch but I take your point.

He's young, a bit of encouragement won't go amiss.

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Happy fabbing everyone "
unfortunately your age is an issue to a lot of people. . My son is almost 20...I have no problem meeting younger blokes (over 25) but I'd never choose a younger Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if this has been said already but to say you are into BDSM is fine (take a look at our profile says the same) but note I (Mr) amd the Dom in the relationship and shall we say considerable older than you

Now it took me years before i would use that term and more importantly once i did i owned it, you contradict yourself saying you dont mind being controlled once in a while.

This sounds like alpha dom bashing but it isnt meant to be. Suggestions, change your title to Top (still a positon of dominance but one that shows its a work in progress) also decide what you want from fabs.

If you want a D/s relationship, this isnt the site for you really (my partner and I met outside of here) may i suggest the other site with fet in its name.

Maybe try socials or the chat rooms, show your face not your cock and honestly put the work in, go to socials as well as clubs. This was what i did when i was single and i did ok.

Lastly and not by any means least, dobt be expecting a different meet every night of the week.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Happy fabbing everyone "

More cock photos you need at least 6 to succeed here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here I'm having no luck on here at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Y am I having no luck on here

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Y am I having no luck on here"

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would feel weird calling a 22 year old "daddy"

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By *he CaptainMan
over a year ago

Cadihead

Your having no luck at 22 you should try being my age 70 you have to be patient there are at least 30men to one woman but some will want you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your having no luck at 22 you should try being my age 70 you have to be patient there are at least 30men to one woman but some will want you"

139 men to every woman on average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Happy fabbing everyone "

You maybe too young for some but in reality it might be the messages you send out some people struggle with sensible communication on here in reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think there are benefits whatever your age but i suppose it does get more difficult as you hey older

good luck with your search

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
over a year ago

Gravesend

If you’re looking to meet people then I would definitely recommend looking at what clubs you have locally, see when they have their cougars and cubs events and try to attend.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

For a lot you will be too young but if you take a mature attitude and keep polite it may help your cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Y am I having no luck on here"

Have you read your own profile?

Think that is your problem .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you ray winstone in disguise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is fuck all you can do about it.

I was recently away and had far more success using a different site. 2 threesomes in 3 days compared to months of nothing here.

It is true you make your own luck, but Fab skews the odds firmly against single guys.

I only stick around because I like

a handful of people on here. I'm unlikely to be invited to their budoir but they make me laugh.

the downfall of being a single guy it’s like everyone hates us

single guys are why I am here

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

no 22 yo could try to dom me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm past caring really, I'm just grateful for the fun I have had during past times, obviously not on this site. Just here for the pics lol.

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By *led6969Man
over a year ago

colwyn bay

I am the same no luck at all get talking to women then they chat back then I here nothing after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the book 'Game' by Roosh. You'll understand why you aren't meeting anyone and what to do.

You're main focus needs to be real life, not behind the screen.

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