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By *anjam OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hello all.

So I am by no means new to fab, but I made the mistake of creating a profile ages ago but then not really using it much (I was more active on another site back then)

So I was wondering it it would be best for me to just start afresh with a new profile? I’ve got a feeling that many people see that I’ve been here for over a year but have zero veris, and hear alarm bells ringing.

Or should I stick with my profile, and maybe add such a disclaimer?

Help and advice welcome. Cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make a new profile, OP.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes I agree with make a new profile.

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By *anjam OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Ok thanks for the advice. So out of interest, is it my time on here vs lack of veris that would put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you ticked all my boxes but had no veris and was here for a very long time, I would not be interested. Why can't you accommodate?

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By *anjam OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"If you ticked all my boxes but had no veris and was here for a very long time, I would not be interested. Why can't you accommodate?"

Thanks, that’s good to know. I wish I had just asked sooner but to be honest, until recently, I felt the forums on here a bit daunting, if that makes sense? Shouldn’t have worried, it seems very helpful and friendly.

I just had a PM asking me the same question about accommodating. I never even thought that would be such an issue, so that’ll be explained in the new profile.

Thanks again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck.

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By *anjam OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And try not to contradict yourself in the new one: you have a profile pic, but don't know how to put pics on.

More pics for the new one would be better too. Not c*ck pics though, only one if you must.

Mrs

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile says you are new here but you have been on 11 months.

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By *anjam OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"And try not to contradict yourself in the new one: you have a profile pic, but don't know how to put pics on.

More pics for the new one would be better too. Not c*ck pics though, only one if you must.

Mrs"

Haha... yeah I should have deleted that once I worked it out. I should have kept it updated full stop.

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By *anjam OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Your profile says you are new here but you have been on 11 months."

I’ve actually had this account for much longer than 11 months. Anyway, you’re right, I’ll make a point of keeping my new profile more up-to-date.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Your profile says you are new here but you have been on 11 months.

I’ve actually had this account for much longer than 11 months. "

So why does your profile say you joined 11 months ago ?

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By *anjam OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Your profile says you are new here but you have been on 11 months.

I’ve actually had this account for much longer than 11 months.

So why does your profile say you joined 11 months ago ?"

Honestly? I have no idea. I wasn’t even aware it said 11 months until you pointed it out. Maybe lesson one here is to attend to one’s profile a bit more.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Maybe lesson one here is to attend to one’s profile a bit more. "

Its been two hours since you first posted but you still haven't changed anything !

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By *anjam OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


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Its been two hours since you first posted but you still haven't changed anything !"

No point changing this one, I’m going to create a new shiny one later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a mistake and I payed money for a full year so I can’t change it till a years time

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I made a mistake and I payed money for a full year so I can’t change it till a years time"

You can edit it if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all.

So I am by no means new to fab, but I made the mistake of creating a profile ages ago but then not really using it much (I was more active on another site back then)

So I was wondering it it would be best for me to just start afresh with a new profile? I’ve got a feeling that many people see that I’ve been here for over a year but have zero veris, and hear alarm bells ringing.

Or should I stick with my profile, and maybe add such a disclaimer?

Help and advice welcome. Cheers!

"
don't care what others think, that's my advice veris mean very little, the great majority meet without them oh and always make your write up the best it can be inject some personality, great pics to put some effort in its your advert and if you target the most popular profiles here then know that you won't get much in the way of replies because so many desire their attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I am newish to to swinging so any advise I can get would be gratefully received. Hope you mail me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I am newish to to swinging so any advise I can get would be gratefully received. Hope you mail me."

Start by not hijacking anothers post. Normal forum etiquette on any platform.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I am newish to to swinging so any advise I can get would be gratefully received. Hope you mail me.

Start by not hijacking anothers post. Normal forum etiquette on any platform. "
even those that have been here years hijack threads as you put it

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