FabSwingers.com forum: please help everyone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hello all

I have been on fab before and have recently come back on.can I ask for all your advice please

I am alwase polite and genuine with my messages and post no cock pics but am finding that I get 0 responses to any searching I do.views but no responses.

Am not sure what I am doing wrong to get that response(or lack of it)

Am articulate and intelligent but nothing.

would appreciate your help and advice.

Ian x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the club!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just don't get it at all.this site is ment for people to connect for intimate times but when you try there is no response.how do people meet?or chat?lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another fab straight profile..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Another fab straight profile? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another fab straight profile? X

Yes. You say you are straight but you are looking to meet TV/TS as well... That is not straight. You should change it to curious or bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest you say that you are articulate and intelligent.From reading your profile and forum posts I would think you are lieing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for that.nice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok ill change that.thank you for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello all

I have been on fab before and have recently come back on.can I ask for all your advice please

I am alwase polite and genuine with my messages and post no cock pics but am finding that I get 0 responses to any searching I do.views but no responses.

Am not sure what I am doing wrong to get that response(or lack of it)

Am articulate and intelligent but nothing.

would appreciate your help and advice.

Ian x

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not sure really you like pegging that coupled with your pics are maybe making you appear bi do some other pics maybe dressed, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great advice.thank you.Am taking it all on board.Never been in the chat rooms before and it's actually really helpfull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I find that patience and perseverance are key. This place isn’t find a shag in an hour for single guys.

I don’t know what the Male to female ratio is on here but the fine ladies of Fab certainly have loads of us guys to pick from so you’re going to have to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd fab thread I've seen asking for advice this morning..

Time for a bacon butty me thinks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3rd fab thread I've seen asking for advice this morning..

Time for a bacon butty me thinks!

Lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

This year I've met 2 people from fab that I've come into contact with through the site alone. Others I've met from here I've met at clubs or parties, but first contact has been at the location I met them.

Get out and about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3rd fab thread I've seen asking for advice this morning..

Time for a bacon butty me thinks!

Think the way the forums fill up with these threads you might need a few butties and a few cuppas to get through them all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you.so it's the profile that is not doing me any favors.I was just trying to say a little about myself.did not mean to come across as bragging

thats great though I'll overhall my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other thing I'd look at on your profile at thinking of changing if the wording "mature" and then in your looking for your after 18-99.some people won't class 18 year old are mature so may pass on that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks mate.time for a sit down and think what to write on profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I see what you mean.thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3rd fab thread I've seen asking for advice this morning..

Time for a bacon butty me thinks!

Good shout ,please can I have an egg on mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bacon butty

now that's a idea.runny egg and tomato sauce

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..there are numerous threads in the forums about this same subject. You would do well to read them, and take notice.

I would also look at your expectations of Fab, what you have to offer that's different to the thousands of other men, and how ypur profile reflects you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out. "

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you have not taken any advice on board as your profile and pictures are still the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's my thread.lol.I think I am being wound up.lol.I just realised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be patient not every woman wants to have sex with you, no matter what you think about yourself.

You would be much more successful going to a club on a mixed night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok you need to read your profile text, it's all short sentences and hard to read, check the grammar ECT.

I would definitely say you were bi-curious more than straight, so mention that. And change your profile pic to something a little provocative. Show that you have imagination as well as confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bacon butty

now that's a idea.runny egg and tomato sauce

Brown sauce you heathen !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am to busy chatting on hear.can't multi task

but I will take your advice and revamp my profile asap.thank you.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

I know

I knows you knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bacon butty

now that's a idea.runny egg and tomato sauce

Brown sauce you heathen !!!"

Yes!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a snickers it will help mr T said so

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha or dare I say the words chilli sauce.....so wrong but so right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok you need to read your profile text, it's all short sentences and hard to read, check the grammar ECT.

I would definitely say you were bi-curious more than straight, so mention that. And change your profile pic to something a little provocative. Show that you have imagination as well as confidence. "

Electro convulsive therapy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

I know

I knows you knows

where is the heart emoji, my smart fab friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

God I can remember when it was called a marathon bar!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

I know

I knows you knows

where is the heart emoji, my smart fab friend

Why are you so needy?! Urgh..... 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

can't see it so a x will have to do.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

hello all

I have been on fab before and have recently come back on.can I ask for all your advice please

I am alwase polite and genuine with my messages and post no cock pics but am finding that I get 0 responses to any searching I do.views but no responses.

Am not sure what I am doing wrong to get that response(or lack of it)

Am articulate and intelligent but nothing.

would appreciate your help and advice.

Ian x

I had this conversation with you last night, you've seen for yourself what we have to put up with. I already answered this for you during our chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep as slow as a sleepy snail on that one I was.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"Another fab straight profile? X

Yes. You say you are straight but you are looking to meet TV/TS as well... That is not straight. You should change it to curious or bi."

Don’t be ridiculous. I have bisexual as a “label” but I’m not looking to meet woman.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes thank you for your advice last night.I thought it would be good to post as well hear as have not made a thread before and was intrested in everyone's thoughts.x x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP...please use the 'reply & quote' button when replying to someone in the forums. It makes it easier to know who you are talking too..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hay thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

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pic or its not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys first post

He's hardly received a warm welcome

OP - it's tough on here for blokes mate

That's the long and short of it

Be your best

Look at how you present yourself

You're always gonna get frank and sometimes unwanted responses to forum posts

Rather than sending messages to the ones you don't like though, just rise above it

It doesn't look good

If you are miffed with something someone said, use the report button at the side of their post

Admin or a Forum Moderator will take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been here for over 2 years, have only 1 forum thread that you have contributed to.

Generally the only advice I can give is have a better profile, be honest about your sexuality, and don't expect replies from strangers.

Get out to socials or clubs, meet people, get involved with the forum, let your personality slip out a little.

That way you will know the people who don't respond to your messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

pic or its not true"

Tis true, tis true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

pic or its not true

Tis true, tis true! "
oh no it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

pic or its not true

Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't "

Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

pic or its not true

Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't

Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?! "
nooooo it's Xmas

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you.I did not mean to offend anyone or start any drama of any kind.thanks for your kind words and advice mate.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

pic or its not true

Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't

Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?! "
starts early on fab let's see all your Xmas avatars guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you.I did not mean to offend anyone or start any drama of any kind.thanks for your kind words and advice mate.x "
the drama doesn't need you my friend, you're just incidental to it

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If you can't be civil or need to be nasty on threads like this then please avoid the threads altogether.

Can people please realise that the person asking for advice doesn't have to take it.He may think your advice is not for him.

To the OP, welcome to the forum, don't be put off by the replies I removed. Stick around and join in while waiting for your meet, it may get you noticed more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks mate.I was on hear for a short while then had a break for a time and now have come back.Never posted in this as had to build up the courage to openly ask for help

am taking on board all the advice though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks mate.I was on hear for a short while then had a break for a time and now have come back.Never posted in this as had to build up the courage to openly ask for help

am taking on board all the advice though"
Some of it was good advice pics especially, take varied pics good light and smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very true mate.God I hate any drama!thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got to say I was about to run for the hills!!

ok thank you.some really great advice I got hear from all you lovely peeps.Am going to wipe my profile then start again.have a lovely weekend everyone.x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

pic or its not true

Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't

Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?! nooooo it's Xmas "

No it's not! It's November!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP...please use the 'reply & quote' button when replying to someone in the forums. It makes it easier to know who you are talking too.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says in their message or profile that they are intelligent, smart etc.. I don't bother reading anymore and delete. My IQ is high but I don't brag about it. Some can notice it or find out.

I'm intelligent and smart etc....

pic or its not true

Tis true, tis true! oh no it isn't

Oh yes it.... Oh, wait..... he's behind... hang on, am I on the wrong thread?! nooooo it's Xmas

No it's not! It's November!!"
I've seen quite a few Xmas trees up and people sitting eating Xmas dinners with their Xmas hats on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can't be civil or need to be nasty on threads like this then please avoid the threads altogether.

Can people please realise that the person asking for advice doesn't have to take it.He may think your advice is not for him.

To the OP, welcome to the forum, don't be put off by the replies I removed. Stick around and join in while waiting for your meet, it may get you noticed more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that patience and perseverance are key. This place isn’t find a shag in an hour for single guys.

It may not be for you but it has been for the majority of guys we have met over the years.

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By *ohnmul39Man
over a year ago

cork city

Guys I’m same as original poster. I’m sending very polite chats, mostly being ignored. Any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full brekky please yawn

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Socials

you're welcome.

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