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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " It does seem that if you're a black guy on here you are expected to fit that stereotype. You can't just be another guy on Fab or a just a black guy on Fab, you have to be a BBC and fit someone a fetish. | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears It does seem that if you're a black guy on here you are expected to fit that stereotype. You can't just be another guy on Fab or a just a black guy on Fab, you have to be a BBC and fit someone a fetish." It seems that way at the moment. | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " Just call yourself a BBC anyway. A lot of people who claim to be BBW’s aren’t that either | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Just call yourself a BBC anyway. A lot of people who claim to be BBW’s aren’t that either " Very funny, I like it!! but having turned up and see the disappointment in there eyes...total mood killer | |||
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"Just be yourself. Enough women have no stereotypes in their heads." totally agree and I'm not changing for anyone but king size is all anyone wants it seems | |||
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"Just be yourself. Enough women have no stereotypes in their heads. totally agree and I'm not changing for anyone but king size is all anyone wants it seems " Some want a person who will treat them as human beings. Some value a man as a whole person, not an attachment to any particular body part. Keep looking. | |||
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"Just be yourself. Enough women have no stereotypes in their heads. totally agree and I'm not changing for anyone but king size is all anyone wants it seems Some want a person who will treat them as human beings. Some value a man as a whole person, not an attachment to any particular body part. Keep looking." | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Just call yourself a BBC anyway. A lot of people who claim to be BBW’s aren’t that either Very funny, I like it!! but having turned up and see the disappointment in there eyes...total mood killer " You have nothing to worry about..... Just be the best person you can be and everything will fall into place...... For the record it’s usually the husbands/boyfriends that go crazy about cock size... The wives/girlfriends are more concerned if you’re a attentive and non selfish lover.... | |||
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"It's a myth that black men have huge penises, some have big some have small like white men. It's dosent mean because youre black you are king doing lol. " I blame the porn industry for this nonsense. | |||
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"It does seem that if you're a black guy on here you are expected to fit that stereotype. You can't just be another guy on Fab or a just a black guy on Fab, you have to be a BBC and fit someone a fetish." Agreed. I’ve been asked on numerous occasions “Are you a BBC?” Which gives an impression those kind of people deem black men as objects. It’s undeniable, many black men have greater opportunities on here than some but if it’s causing you frustration, it may be a thought to choose another path to enjoyment. | |||
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"Just be yourself. Enough women have no stereotypes in their heads. totally agree and I'm not changing for anyone but king size is all anyone wants it seems Some want a person who will treat them as human beings. Some value a man as a whole person, not an attachment to any particular body part. Keep looking." | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " Be more than just a BBC is what I say OP | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " yes shallow is a feature of fab in time you'll get used to it and maybe stoop to our level | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " I think as a single male on here you have to have a USP of some kind, mine tends to be my imagination, pleaser aspects and ability to mentally connect? The sheer numbers of men on here mean that there will be lots of male profiles on here belonging to black guys with bigger than average cocks so even if you went down that route you'd probably tend to be one of a multitude? Far better to concentrate on an aspect of yourself that you feel you can really excel in and shaping your profile and approach around this? | |||
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"Thanks everyone. All valid points I'll just keep raising the flag for all those average sized black men. At the end of the day anyone can have sex, but it's how you do it that surely matters " Write it down somewhere: IT IS NOT ABOUT THE SIZE OF ANYTHING. IT IS ABOUT THE WHOLE PERSON. Put it on the wall and read it before going out. How can you blame others for being fixated on the size of your genitalia if you are talking about it all the time yourself? Find a different unique selling point already! | |||
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"only women I know that want a big cock are baggy women who have never done there excercises.i find big cocks hurt" Have you ever tried being attracted to the man you are with? Lube can be useful, too. | |||
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"My preference is black men, but it’s got nothing to do with cock size. Infact a really huge one would put me off. There are lots of woman that like a BBC, but I imagine just as many that like a black man like I do. There’s a difference. " Refreshing to hear | |||
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"My preference is black men, but it’s got nothing to do with cock size. Infact a really huge one would put me off. There are lots of woman that like a BBC, but I imagine just as many that like a black man like I do. There’s a difference. Refreshing to hear " Oh, just go out in any big city and see how many mixed-race children there are. How do you think we got them? | |||
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"Just be yourself. Enough women have no stereotypes in their heads. totally agree and I'm not changing for anyone but king size is all anyone wants it seems " Don’t even “advertise” yourself as that! It’s a complete turn of for some anyway. Not everyone is looking for it. Just be yourself | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " Just be yourself and be honest with people you engage with. It is all you can really do. Some people that scream and shout for BBC change their minds when one appears | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Just be yourself and be honest with people you engage with. It is all you can really do. Some people that scream and shout for BBC change their minds when one appears " Age old phrase be careful what you wish for | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Just be yourself and be honest with people you engage with. It is all you can really do. Some people that scream and shout for BBC change their minds when one appears Age old phrase be careful what you wish for " Nailed it! | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " If every guy on here claiming to have a BBC had an inch chopped off for every inch over 6.5 inches claimed fab would be awash with blood and the floor would be littered with bell ends. | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus....lol at the end of the day cock is cock ok look at it the way would you enjoy sex with a stretched pussy?you probably wont so not everyone fancies a mega cock whatever background you maybe size queens will always be around just find where you can fit in and enjoy fabbing a big cock without skill is not much good is it....the main advantage is most women will stop by when they spot a BC(i personally find the term BBC shallow others wear it as some kinda badge of honour)....just do your thing and enjoy what u can. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Just be yourself and be honest with people you engage with. It is all you can really do. Some people that scream and shout for BBC change their minds when one appears Age old phrase be careful what you wish for " And another slightly younger phrase: it is who it is attached to. | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Just be yourself and be honest with people you engage with. It is all you can really do. Some people that scream and shout for BBC change their minds when one appears Age old phrase be careful what you wish for And another slightly younger phrase: it is who it is attached to." | |||
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"I have been with both BBC and ABC (average black cock) they both did the job. I do prefer a man who is more than average just because that is what I am used to but I wouldn't turn a guy down if he had a good looking face, a good body, a great personality and can treat me with respect. (or a mixture of some of them)." | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus....lol at the end of the day cock is cock ok look at it the way would you enjoy sex with a stretched pussy?you probably wont so not everyone fancies a mega cock whatever background you maybe size queens will always be around just find where you can fit in and enjoy fabbing a big cock without skill is not much good is it....the main advantage is most women will stop by when they spot a BC(i personally find the term BBC shallow others wear it as some kinda badge of honour)....just do your thing and enjoy what u can. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " ...a good fuck is a good fuck regardless of the cock size | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " That's a shame you feel like that. For me Personally size doesn't matter. But I can't speak for all. X | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Just be yourself and be honest with people you engage with. It is all you can really do. Some people that scream and shout for BBC change their minds when one appears Age old phrase be careful what you wish for And another slightly younger phrase: it is who it is attached to. " And I still cannot send you a message. | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Just be yourself and be honest with people you engage with. It is all you can really do. Some people that scream and shout for BBC change their minds when one appears Age old phrase be careful what you wish for And another slightly younger phrase: it is who it is attached to. And I still cannot send you a message. " Me? | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Just be yourself and be honest with people you engage with. It is all you can really do. Some people that scream and shout for BBC change their minds when one appears Age old phrase be careful what you wish for And another slightly younger phrase: it is who it is attached to. And I still cannot send you a message. Me?" No, the person who gave my message the thumbs up. He knows who I am. Apologies. | |||
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"Some don't care about size as long as chemistry is fine." Very true I've met one or two blackmen in my time,at parties their dressed,so it's looks,smile,banter and chemistry always a winner for me,I've rarely been dissapointed whatever their size | |||
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"Op you will find many women that hunt bbc however you will also find many women who actually do not base their decision to play with someone based on the size of their cock! I personally do not ask size or wish to view pictures of a potential playmates cock. The only thing I'm interested in seeing is their face to see if I'm attracted to them and would like to sit on it then the rest is down to chemistry " Completely agree with this! I have a fab friend who happens to be black but is not and nor does he claim to be BBC - however, he does things to me no one else has even come close to | |||
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"Well I like black guys but as with white guys, it's less about cock size and more about how they are when we're together. " | |||
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"I do have a passion for black guys and had various size cocks it doesnt bother me as its the man who carries of the sex apeal and how he uses it and how he treats me and is respectful xx" more like you please | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears " Go BIG or go home Joking I wouldn't say people are shallow, it's more of a preference thing. They've been here long enough, they know what they want therefore it's only right they make it obvious on thier profiles that they are looking for HUNG BBC. It's the same thing when people state that they are only looking for white males, just move on and find people who arent looking for specific size + colour combination | |||
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"Never thought about that I'll give it a go. Wont hurt cheers" Won’t hurt is brilliant. | |||
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"Lots of people claim to have a BBC on here but upon meeting most seem to have lost it or left it at work and turn up with their spare which is very very average. " Touché Like lots of people show up claiming to be 49 and look not a day over 70.... | |||
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"If you're a bit small here's a wee suggestion. Try drawing every letter of the alphabet with your cock. When you've done all the small case version do it in Capitals with Big strokes . Works every time. Try it LOL. " | |||
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"It's a myth that black men have huge penises, some have big some have small like white men. It's dosent mean because youre black you are king doing lol. I blame the porn industry for this nonsense." | |||
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"This BBC thing is all vanity its just a myth and a load of bollocks ." Yep totally agree ... porn to blame for that ... it’s what you do with it I know that’s a cliche but it’s toyally true | |||
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"The bottom line is how good you fuck....simple,size my be an advantage but def not everything just sharpen and develop your own unique skills and techniques and fuck good you dont always need a batterring ram to get the job done xx" That may well all be true but the people who are into big cocks are into big cocks, that's what turns them on. | |||
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"This BBC thing is all vanity its just a myth and a load of bollocks ." It's a myth thank the lord........ I knew it | |||
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"He is gone." The curse was too much for him. He's gone for a penis extension as he thinks it will make a difference | |||
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"This BBC thing is all vanity its just a myth and a load of bollocks ." How is it just a myth? They clearly do exist. Doesn’t mean it’s true of every guy, but it’s not a myth. | |||
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"it’s how you use your manhood size ain’t nothing unless it’s a burnt cocktail sausage and that’s when it’s erect." | |||
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"This BBC thing is all vanity its just a myth and a load of bollocks . How is it just a myth? They clearly do exist. Doesn’t mean it’s true of every guy, but it’s not a myth." Theres loads of BWCs too that can do an equally good job. | |||
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"Hi all I'm newish to fab and have come to realise that being black and having an average sized cock is a big no no on here. I see a load of profiles that want a a hung BBC, much to my frustration, as I feel I can perform as good as the next man despite not being hung like a diplodocus. Are the people on fab really that shallow? Has anyone ever had a BBC and thought oh...is that it? Or should I just pack my bags and go home? You tell me Fab I'm all ears Go BIG or go home Joking I wouldn't say people are shallow, it's more of a preference thing. They've been here long enough, they know what they want therefore it's only right they make it obvious on thier profiles that they are looking for HUNG BBC. It's the same thing when people state that they are only looking for white males, just move on and find people who arent looking for specific size + colour combination" | |||
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"Make a bit of a joke about it on your profile. Obviously do it as humorously as possible wituout making it look like you’ve hang ups about it. " Genius idea. | |||
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"It's a myth that black men have huge penises, some have big some have small like white men. It's dosent mean because youre black you are king doing lol. I blame the porn industry for this nonsense." Your not wrong with that ... But it's how they make their millions isn't it... Last girl I had said "there's really nothing different about black cocks, I prefer yours anyways it's a nice cock its the nicest one I've had" ... That raised my spirits a little ... Knew her for 3 months then got the silent treatment because I think she got offered a new job in Manchester ... I loved her and I still do but she doesn't realise it. | |||
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"It's a myth that black men have huge penises, some have big some have small like white men. It's dosent mean because youre black you are king doing lol. I blame the porn industry for this nonsense. Your not wrong with that ... But it's how they make their millions isn't it... Last girl I had said "there's really nothing different about black cocks, I prefer yours anyways it's a nice cock its the nicest one I've had" ... That raised my spirits a little ... Knew her for 3 months then got the silent treatment because I think she got offered a new job in Manchester ... I loved her and I still do but she doesn't realise it. " So because a girl liked your cock better than a black cock , this made you feel validated? | |||
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