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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a bit confused here , why people are so rude sometimes no matter which way approach them they still are ingnorant and full of rubbish. Just thinking it's good idea to be here or not ...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a bit confused here , why people are so rude sometimes no matter which way approach them they still are ingnorant and full of rubbish. Just thinking it's good idea to be here or not ...??"

Maybe its a better idea to finish off your profile?

But without knowing how you approach people its very difficult to comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your time and your advice. Regarding me profile I am happy privately to talk more about it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your time and your advice. Regarding me profile I am happy privately to talk more about it .."

There isn't much to talk about..literally!

If you are sending messages out after doing due diligence and reading profiles yourself, the first thing they will look at is yours...and that will be why you get no response..

Effort in = results out

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

You’re a single man. There are a lot of single men on this site.

Couples and single women get inundated with messages - your profile isn’t very complete at the moment. Don’t forget deleting a message isn’t considered rude - it’s a simple way of saying someone isn’t interested.

I’d focus on making yourself stand out from the rest and keep sending polite thoughtful messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply , I am used to get this sort of messages all the times looks like people here are like waste of time , and secondly I am not single but I fell it's a not a welcome environment to get Mrs involve as well .

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

That's probably going to be problematic too - many and id say most women here don't want to be part of someone's cheating. Do you have your partners blessing? Is she/he involved at all?

What messages do you get all the time?

People here aren't a waste of time! Like anything you need to get to know people over time and see who you hit it off with. It will be highly unlikely anyone will want a newbie single bloke at the drop of a hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on here deserve respect ...

Don't judge everyone the same

With an attitude like yours if you leave you won't be missed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a bit confused here , why people are so rude sometimes no matter which way approach them they still are ingnorant and full of rubbish. Just thinking it's good idea to be here or not ...??"
not sure how you approach people but few are rude to me here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just something you will have to accept. Some people may reply to say thanks but no thanks, others with delete without reply and some will delete and block. Each one just means the same.

None of it though means they are rude, roll with the punches or get out the ring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't matter what you do, you don't get nonwhere, always a rubbish escuse..

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Looking at the profiles of new guys shocked when upset when do not get a reply.

People forget this is a swinging site not a sex site.

I find the people here and single men met considerate and put the effort in and far from rude. Just because do not get a reply does not meen they rude. Just not intersted.

Either spend time on profile and messages and selling yourself so to speak or leave.

If people come to forums to complain that do not get meets. Do not think it the site for them. Leave the site to the genuine single men who take the odd rejection and just move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

None it's cheating but this it's the truth accepted or not ..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"None it's cheating but this it's the truth accepted or not .."

Some will accept, some not. What where your expectations on joining this site OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None it's cheating but this it's the truth accepted or not .."
lots of lovely people here give it time

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Don't matter what you do, you don't get nonwhere, always a rubbish escuse.."

You only joined 7 days ago. That's no time at all. People will look at a profile before choosing whether to respond to your message. I would suggest you maybe start there and lose the sense of entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None it's cheating but this it's the truth accepted or not .."

Yes its cheating..

You should say youre married so as to give others the choice of whether to meet you or not..

As is often the case on here there is always a hidden agenda...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am new here as you can see And I haven't done anything to say I am cheating and joining here it was different purpose but I got at a point it's better to go away because I am wasting me time.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I am new here as you can see And I haven't done anything to say I am cheating and joining here it was different purpose but I got at a point it's better to go away because I am wasting me time."

"as you can see And I haven't done anything to say I am cheating" - from your last post.

"None it's cheating but this it's the truth accepted or not .." - from a previous post of yours.

Forgive my stupidity, but I'm a bit confused here. Can you clarify please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a bit confused here , why people are so rude sometimes no matter which way approach them they still are ingnorant and full of rubbish. Just thinking it's good idea to be here or not ...??"

Move on block people who you see as unplesent I do it all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am new here as you can see And I haven't done anything to say I am cheating and joining here it was different purpose but I got at a point it's better to go away because I am wasting me time."
you've been here a week and patience here is definitely required to get success, if you don't possess it then maybe it's not for you, ignore the entitled jibe unfortunately it gets used a lot around here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its a bit complicated to explain but I will try me best, some people judge me if I am married why I join here as a single,me answer its, to try this on me own first they said I am cheating I me view it's not because she knows I am here Ok?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Its a bit complicated to explain but I will try me best, some people judge me if I am married why I join here as a single,me answer its, to try this on me own first they said I am cheating I me view it's not because she knows I am here Ok?"

Thanks for clarifying OP. OK, so she knows you are here then, how about having a chat with her then letting her onto your profile so she can have a look around the site for herself. That maybe a good way to introduce her to here. You can then decide if you both want a couples profile. You do have to be patient as a single guy as there are thousands on here. You have to make yourself stand out. Since you haven't specifically asked for profile advice, I can't give it to you. Good luck to you whatever you (both) decide. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks , we think about it .x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Thanks , we think about it .x"

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