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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

Hi All

I'm here on the advice of a friend who thinks this place might be a solution to my situation! (check profile!). Wondering if being as up front as I have been is the right way to go or if people recommend blagging my way through things?!

All thoughts/questions/advice welcome (be kind!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The comment about Sydney University suggests you've been here before OP?

That aside..good luck

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

haha. just seen a lot of profiles with it in this week and plus I'm a sarcastic fucker lol

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK

As always, with the default age range... would you really meet a woman who is 99?

Other than that maybe a few more photos, and standard advice of getting yourself to some local social events! Good luck!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All

I'm here on the advice of a friend who thinks this place might be a solution to my situation! (check profile!). Wondering if being as up front as I have been is the right way to go or if people recommend blagging my way through things?!

All thoughts/questions/advice welcome (be kind!) "

Blagging it is probably going to get you there quicker.

ps. Discreet is likely the word you meant, in context.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

Thanks for the advice guys. Do you mean "discrete" as in instead og "blagging" or somewhere in my profile?

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

I'd be a bit freaked out going to a social on my own is the thing - and single guys at such events surely isn't generally considered a good thing? they'd end up suffocating the entire even surely?x (i'm probably being ignorant here but then again, I am!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice guys. Do you mean "discrete" as in instead og "blagging" or somewhere in my profile?

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Discreet instead of discrete in your profile text. Your phone may be auto-correcting by the look of it.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

Ah. Thanks. discrete and discreet are spelt differently! thought they were the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah. Thanks. discrete and discreet are spelt differently! thought they were the same!"

Two different words with different meanings. Discrete is probably second to genuine as the most misused word used on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A steady profile more photos wouldn't#t harm I guess not for me but good luck.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'd be a bit freaked out going to a social on my own is the thing - and single guys at such events surely isn't generally considered a good thing? they'd end up suffocating the entire even surely?x (i'm probably being ignorant here but then again, I am!)"

Most organised social events manage the numbers of single men allowed to attend to prevent them becoming a total sausage fest. They are advertised on the forums and you need to ask to be put on the guest list. Once the quota of men is reached the organisers close the list to more men.

They are usually held in public places like a pub so no naughtiness is allowed - it is literally just a social meet up to chat with likeminded people, an opportunity to network and hopefully make friends you might meet one day for more than a social .

Sometimes there will be an "after party" at a nearby swingers club for those who want to go, again you need to be on the guest list for that and/or check with the club what requirements they have for single men to attend.

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

thanks

this is my issue I think. the "not for me" factor I imagine is significant in an already crowded market I'm making myself pretty niche I guess. it's also hard to protest you aren't a cliche when that makes it sound exactly like you are!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Some more pics made woukd be good. The Sydney University bit did make me giggle. Good luck x

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

thanks

what sort of pics to people prefer? clothed? naked? I have a coco pic up but know these aren't favoured!!! one is plenty id have thought.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Yes Coco pics aren't favoured, except for the clown porn fetishists

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Guess you need to target females 25 to 40 finding out what they want.

Remember it's your profile,changing it because others advise you will simply give you a different audience.

Be yourself and be patient.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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You've obviously took on board the advice you have been given , you've got not a half bad profile there

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

thanks Pablo x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Wow, well done OP. You've asked for advice and used it. A refreshing change on this type of thread. Profile looks great! Very best of luck to you. Xx

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By *moothCriminal_x OP   Man
over a year ago

Redditch

thanks. in my situation can't be too shy or embarrassed to say I'm clueless and need to learn!

fingers crossed. thanks for the support x

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