FabSwingers.com forum: Another one cute and polite newbie :)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems that women are really busy on here or I am not sexy at all. Any thoughts? Please Help a newbie lol x Thanks for reading this

By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Hya and welcome to Fab.

2 weeks membership is not a long time here, so i advise patience. Women and couples can get a lot of messages and may not be able to respond to all. I would read the tips and advice on the forums and work on standing out when you send a message and try to engage in conversation. You have to remember this is a swinging site not a sex one and people do not jump into bed after one message (although this has happened with us when mood takes

)

Socials and clubs also a good place to meet people.

Play the long game, get to know people,and put the effort in and sure you will get what you want out of the site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much for your advice!

By *heeky-gingerWoman
over a year ago

Not meeting

If you go to the message filters section in the account settings you can block single guys from messaging you, and then you can take out the stuff from your profile about not wanting to meet men. I’d also recommend having at least some sort of public picture, it doesn’t need to be something identifiable necessarily. Having no public pictures puts you at a disadvantage because with so many single guys on here the ones with public pictures will stand out more!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You are right, thanks! I will do it now

By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

"It seems that women are really busy on here or I am not sexy at all. Any thoughts? Please Help a newbie lol x Thanks for reading this

People are busy at times yes but you have only been here a couple of weeks it disn't happen instantly it can take weeks months for some.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeap fair enough! Thanks!