FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Introductions

Ladies Advice

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been on here a while and never met yet, I’ve messaged one or two women for meets but with little success, I send face pics and everything and I don’t ask for on the spot meets is my profile ok and any women’s advice on approaching people

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a year on site and no verification isn’t a good look.

My advice, start over.

A dick pic for a profile pic. Not ideal. And that’s the only photo?!

You send a message, first thing I’d do is check your profile... and I’d say no.

And also maybe explain why you cannot accommodate.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Over a year on site and no verification isn’t a good look.

My advice, start over.

A dick pic for a profile pic. Not ideal. And that’s the only photo?!

You send a message, first thing I’d do is check your profile... and I’d say no.

Thank you

And also maybe explain why you cannot accommodate."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not good OP. Given you've been here over a year without any meets and your age is wrong, I'd advise you to start again.

I really dislike crude usernames.

In your profile text, what kind of person are you (fun, good sense of humour, that sort of thing - sell yourself for the purposes of here), what are you looking for, what do you have to offer? Make yourself stand out and unique (and make sure your text is well written, spelling and grammar)

Photos: many women find cock shots off putting, particularly as your profile picture. Some like to see it, but have it among a variety of other shots (chest, bum, partially clothed, arms or legs, etc).

Messages: I like to receive this sort of message. "Hi, I like your profile because (reasons). I think we have (stuff) in common. (something about the stuff) It'd be lovely to hear from you. Happy Fabbing."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I don't reply to dicks, chances are alot of others won't either

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a bit embarrassed about being on here at 25 years of age, I don’t post pictures because I have distinctive tattoos, if friends find out my pride is gone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m a bit embarrassed about being on here at 25 years of age, I don’t post pictures because I have distinctive tattoos, if friends find out my pride is gone "

Blur out the tattoos. People do it all the time. But the cock is a non starter for many women.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a bit embarrassed about being on here at 25 years of age, I don’t post pictures because I have distinctive tattoos, if friends find out my pride is gone "

Why do something you are that embarrassed about? There are alot of 25 year olds on here and surely if your friends saw you that would mean they were here too. Plus even I can take pics without my face and tattoos in and still show something interesting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also why is it sustainable for a women to have breast etc on show but a man in not aloud

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also why is it sustainable for a women to have breast etc on show but a man in not aloud "

You can show your breasts as much as you like OP!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Also why is it sustainable for a women to have breast etc on show but a man in not aloud "

Because know your audience. Men tend to be more attracted to explicit pictures, women less so.

You're allowed to do what you like, but we're telling you that women find it off putting, so you're less likely to get results with it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also why is it sustainable for a women to have breast etc on show but a man in not aloud "

It's not that it's not allowed but you think women see how many cock pics everyday. You got to stand out from the crowd

A body shot covering the goodies makes things more mysterious for me personally.

And agree with the others..start again with your profile as the wrong age and no extra pictures even though you have stated to ignore the display pic as your now clean shaven isn't s good 1st impression. Hope that helps?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also why is it sustainable for a women to have breast etc on show but a man in not aloud

You can show your breasts as much as you like OP! "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And honestly, a lot of cock shots aren't the equivalent of breasts, they're the equivalent of extreme close up with pussy lips open. They can do what they like as well, but... I don't want to see that either?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.


"I’m a bit embarrassed about being on here at 25 years of age, I don’t post pictures because I have distinctive tattoos, if friends find out my pride is gone "

If you are 25 then why are you lying about your age your profile? Dishonesty is a major turn off for women on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very catchy username, too...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you had a photo of torso in shirt for example we wouldn't see your tattoos.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Your username is a turn off. Profile pic of a hairy cock is a turn off. One public pic of said hairy cock is a turn off. Your age is wrong too. Just on the whole a bad profile. If you’re embarrasssed about being on here and actively admitting that on the forums people will take note of that. I doubt many women would want to be a notch in your bed post when you could possibly be embarrassed or ashamed of the encounter.

Why not try tinder then if fab is so shameful?

Mrs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"Also why is it sustainable for a women to have breast etc on show but a man in not aloud

You can show your breasts as much as you like OP! "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Well, apart from everthing to do with your profile, its absolutely fine.

Time to change username and have a complete overhaul.

However, dont expect this to make much difference, as replies to messages are a rarity.

If nothing else, at least fabbers wont have to look at your cock.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been on here a while and never met yet, I’ve messaged one or two women for meets but with little success, I send face pics and everything and I don’t ask for on the spot meets is my profile ok and any women’s advice on approaching people "

You wouldn't believe how many other guys who have messaged a couple of women and had little success on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top