FabSwingers.com forum: Need advice

By *onnorwilllad OP Man
over a year ago

warrington

Looking for women/couples just can’t seem to get anyone to meet or even reply can anyone give me advice on how to start off chatting ?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

You've a few choices;

Message the people you like and say why they caught your attention.

If contacting couples address BOTH partners, it's only polite.

Post loads of good comments in the forums.

Do the same in the chat rooms.

Read similar threads, to this one: as hindsight is a wonderful thing.

Don't have cock pics on your public gallery.

Nice eyes/smiles/good clothes and an interesting profile.

Ask for coffee or a social first and be prepared to wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've a few choices;

Message the people you like and say why they caught your attention.

If contacting couples address BOTH partners, it's only polite.

Post loads of good comments in the forums.

Do the same in the chat rooms.

Read similar threads, to this one: as hindsight is a wonderful thing.

Don't have cock pics on your public gallery.

Nice eyes/smiles/good clothes and an interesting profile.

Ask for coffee or a social first and be prepared to wait."

What are 'good comments' in the forum or chat rooms?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"What are 'good comments' in the forum or chat rooms?"

Nothing sarcastic, argumentative, sycophantic, badly spelled, and ideally constructive and original.

For simplicity, click my green arrow and do the opposite of what I do!

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

"Looking for women/couples just can’t seem to get anyone to meet or even reply can anyone give me advice on how to start off chatting ?"

Well what ever you are sending isn't working so shake it up read profiles and message based on that people like you to take a personal interest in them added to that just be friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it would be the cannot accomodate & by the looks of your picture a kid so possibly a missus. That would put us off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly the most descriptive of profiles to be honest!

Put some do’s and don’ts on your profile, mix it up with some light hearted jokes and innuendos.

Some really good advice from the replies you’ve already had in this thread, be prepared to wait because it’s a really really big pond that you’re in, so waiting for someone to bite (no pun intended) may take awhile.

Ps, go to some clubs, a social or two and get some verifications - half the battle is completed when trying to create some meets

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's worthwhile to start thinking of the internet as supplementary to the swinging world. You can get out and about meeting people in person at clubs, socials etc, building up a network of people you know.

Then use fab to powerfully sell yourself - look in the forum for how you could do this. Photos also help others determine physical attraction of the person/body they might want. Pick people who like your age group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've a few choices;

Message the people you like and say why they caught your attention.

If contacting couples address BOTH partners, it's only polite.

Post loads of good comments in the forums.

Do the same in the chat rooms.

Read similar threads, to this one: as hindsight is a wonderful thing.

Don't have cock pics on your public gallery.

Nice eyes/smiles/good clothes and an interesting profile.

Ask for coffee or a social first and be prepared to wait."

Addressing both partners

There is nothing more annoying when you get a message like...Hi sweetheart..fancy a fuck...and it's a couples account..

I reply back..Sorry fella I'm straight and not into guys .. This usually bamboozles them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The up for anything line is a bit of a kopout..tell folk what you like and look for when meeting..set your age limits too..Would you really meet someone aged 99..always be realistic with your expectations..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've a few choices;

Message the people you like and say why they caught your attention.

If contacting couples address BOTH partners, it's only polite.

Post loads of good comments in the forums.

Do the same in the chat rooms.

Read similar threads, to this one: as hindsight is a wonderful thing.

Don't have cock pics on your public gallery.

Nice eyes/smiles/good clothes and an interesting profile.

Ask for coffee or a social first and be prepared to wait."

Excellent advice.

Mrs

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