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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m still awaiting my 1st meet, ive spoke to a few women but doesn’t Seem to be going anywhere. Is there any tips or pointers anyone has?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no magic wand to getting a meet there are a lot of guys on here the only advice I can give is not to let it get you down be gracious and good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I respond to any message on fab, I will read the senders profile beforehand.

Do you feel that your profile appeals to women, men, and/or couples (if that’s who you’re wanting to meet)?

Do you feel that you are standing out amongst all the other men on fab?

Before messaging are you ensuring that you are reading their profile thoroughly and you meet what they are looking for?

If yes to all of these, then if no one is replying or conversation is bare, then they aren’t interested OP.

Be patient and remember that there are so many men on fab, and women have a lot of choice.

Like what was said above, no one can wave a magic wand.

Maybe attend a social event? Or get on the cam rooms and chat to people on there. Or join in with the forums

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Put a few more pics up, not necessarily cock pics, but a good torso shot and bum pics look good too. Beef yer profile out a little and inject some of your humour into it, get yerself to a social, that kind of thing and you should do ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried turning it off and on again?

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By *uriousguy81Man
over a year ago

Hackney/ Islington


"There is no magic wand to getting a meet there are a lot of guys on here the only advice I can give is not to let it get you down be gracious and good luck x"

I completely agree with Cora79... Also if you read her profile there’s great advice generally on what to and not to do.

The best advice I can offer otherwise is to be patient. One of my best meets on here is with a girl who I was messaging with for months. Normal conversation throughout that time with occasional flirting and fabbing of each other’s photos etc but building an actual connection.

I don’t think there really is any quickies here - at least not before you’ve got to know some people and are part of the community.

Hope that helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried turning it off and on again?"

Always worked for me.

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By *uriousguy81Man
over a year ago

Hackney/ Islington


"Have you tried turning it off and on again?"

Hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no magic wand to getting a meet there are a lot of guys on here the only advice I can give is not to let it get you down be gracious and good luck x"
looking at his pics he has his own wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here...not saying I've give up but going to see if it will happen naturally...for now just happy to chat on forums and do lots of perving if I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no magic wand to getting a meet there are a lot of guys on here the only advice I can give is not to let it get you down be gracious and good luck x looking at his pics he has his own wand "

That might be the scary part for ladies.

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By *othrockercplCouple
over a year ago

Halloween Town

The others are fibbing.

There is a magic wand, and when you learn how to use it you need to utter the magic words "Shagiosa Terrificus".

Ms GR

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Hi op, its a big world on fab so many guys to ladies ratio.

I agree with what others have said, try socials there great and very relaxed, maybe attend clubs etc and chat.

Also read back your profile and think would a lady like this etc.

Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your username to 'women only but i'll try fellas out of sheer desperation'.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I’m still awaiting my 1st meet, ive spoke to a few women but doesn’t Seem to be going anywhere. Is there any tips or pointers anyone has?

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1st thing is unblock single guys imo. Do you know how many meets i get asked to attend from guys who aren't "fab straight". 2nd is why can't get meets threads rarely go down well from what i've seen. Get to socials,parties and maybe clubs if you're brave enough to go alone. Drop me a message. I may have another option for you OP

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Change your username to 'women only but i'll try fellas out of sheer desperation'. "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I haven’t met anyone new for ages. I’m waiting for my hopes to exceed my expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m also waiting for my first meet, I’ve been here since July (new profile).

I’m not seeking it anymore and just making it come to me in a sense I think it will work better that way.

Patience is key!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guy, I’m going to take so advice I’ve seen. Just sign up to Xtasia so I see how that works out!

Thanks again

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Same here but nevertheless

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Get yourself the Platinum Membership. ..... it's like how catnip is to kitties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m still awaiting my 1st meet, ive spoke to a few women but doesn’t Seem to be going anywhere. Is there any tips or pointers anyone has?

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Clubs.... You can talk to all the fems on here, but it'll be a small majority who'll take you seriously and meet you.

You never bother with this place once you find contacts at a club x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guy, I’m going to take so advice I’ve seen. Just sign up to Xtasia so I see how that works out!

Thanks again "

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