FabSwingers.com forum: Finding a boyfriend for us

By *st timers 2012 OP Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale

Hi all I'm sure we will be informed of the correct terms to use,but we are unsure as this is the very start of this hopefully exciting journey

We are looking for a bisexual man who can accom,and is happy with meeting us both,separately and together when we can

We are hoping that he will be a relaxed open minded guy who is comfortable with long term so we can really push our boundaries as a 3

He needs to be respectfull and discreet as we risk alot by letting a 3rd into our relationship

And in return will get the same from us

We know this is a lot to ask but think if we found the right guy it could be wonderfull for all

Any advice or offers gratefully received

D and S XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky one this for lots of reasons..can be risky too..you will need a rock solid relationship..timing issues could be tricky getting the time you are all free to meet right.. place an advert and take it from there..

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By *st timers 2012 OP Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale

Thanks for replying x

we don't worry about our relation ship as we have a strong marriage and have been swinging for a number of years

For us it feels like we are ready to take this step all be it slowly at first

In terms of timing of meets we would more than often meet alone either d or s but would meet as a 3 when we could

Have you ever tried anything similar? Xx

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Have you had repeat meets with any guys? Maybe they might be up for exploring this further? That way you're not starting at the very beginning...it sounds incredible if it does work, so I hope it works for you both...

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Ah, too bad I no longer live in Bristol!!

In all seriousness though, I'm sure you'll find the right guy, and he'll be a very lucky chap! I guess the key is not to rush and allow the 'relationship' to grow naturally...

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By *st timers 2012 OP Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale

"Have you had repeat meets with any guys? Maybe they might be up for exploring this further? That way you're not starting at the very beginning...it sounds incredible if it does work, so I hope it works for you both...

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we have but unfortunately non are bi

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By *st timers 2012 OP Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale

"Ah, too bad I no longer live in Bristol!!

In all seriousness though, I'm sure you'll find the right guy, and he'll be a very lucky chap! I guess the key is not to rush and allow the 'relationship' to grow naturally..."
yes we plan to take it all slowly so hope it will be long lasting x

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

When you say regular how regular are you both thinking? Also it might help to give a bit of info on what bi activity you like..is it oral, top / btm or both...

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By *st timers 2012 OP Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale

"When you say regular how regular are you both thinking? Also it might help to give a bit of info on what bi activity you like..is it oral, top / btm or both... "
all things that are up for discussion with the right guy

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Hopefully the right guy for you both is only around the corner...

Good luck...

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By *st timers 2012 OP Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale

"Hopefully the right guy for you both is only around the corner...

Good luck..."
thanks fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish I was closer xx wonderful photos xx

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By *st timers 2012 OP Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale

"wish I was closer xx wonderful photos xx"
thankyou yours too xx

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By *oresexMan
over a year ago

South West coast

Just a thought, but if your pics included some of your male half too, you might attract some genuine bi candidates, instead of the ones who pretend, so they can get at the female half.

Ps happy to throw my hat in the ring btw.

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By *exaddicted80Man
over a year ago

Belfast

This is what I always wanted. Unfortunately far away from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully my best friend only 23 is interested in being my GFs boyfriend

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Sounds like fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good she wants to make him her boyfriend so we will be a triple not a couple

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Especially for you Jason and Kyle is always romantic music formlovers

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Especially for you is good

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