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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not getting any interest or traffic from women.

Only getting guys pretending to be women. I need to be discreet so will only share pics once I have started talking.

I need help!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't accomadate, need to be discreet, no pictures.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Have a look at other blokes profile for help.

Like I just did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything!

Dont blame the fact theres loads of men on here as the reason you can't get a meet..

I would blame the profile

The fact you have a crap avatar and you have an awful.username...0/10 no effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is an advert for yourself. So make it appealing

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By *woforone2025Couple (MM)
over a year ago

near by


"I'm not getting any interest or traffic from women.

Only getting guys pretending to be women. I need to be discreet so will only share pics once I have started talking.

I need help!!!

"

start again do some research and follow the more successful profiles

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I say the same to all genders on here..your profile should inform the reader of your wants and desires give the reader an idea of yhour personality..hopefully the pictures and words will interest and entice the reader.

If it's working leave alone, if it's not change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring pic, boring profile

This is about the 20th thread today about this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks all

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Ok...

Photos - you need some

Text - make it positive and interesting

Men - block them if you don't want messages

Women - message them with something good after having done the above.

Good luck

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe it or not OP it’s all positive feedback - gives you something to work with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" thanks all"

Stop being glum chum . Take on board all the ideas , look at men's profiles and get some ideas

Ps my profile is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change up your text to say what you're interested in... even if it's not about sex or swinging, it's a conversation starter for someone to go off.

Remove wingy lines like "too many men on here it's ridiculous" as it gives off a bad vibe.

When you look on a woman's profile what do you expect to see? Is it missing off yours?.

Just a few pointers to help you along the way

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


" thanks all

Stop being glum chum . Take on board all the ideas , look at men's profiles and get some ideas

Ps my profile is amazing

"

Yours might be a tad long for some

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised you are only just asking. One verification in 3 years should tell you that your profile is rubbish and most women would instantly delete you. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" thanks all

Stop being glum chum . Take on board all the ideas , look at men's profiles and get some ideas

Ps my profile is amazing

Yours might be a tad long for some

Nita"
Ha ha I need to ad a bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could we not even get a picture of your bum as a tease.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


" thanks all

Stop being glum chum . Take on board all the ideas , look at men's profiles and get some ideas

Ps my profile is amazing

Yours might be a tad long for some

Nita Ha ha I need to ad a bit more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman, I wouldn't look twice at your profile I'm afraid. Why would I want to ask for photos if there's plenty of profiles with good visable photos on them already? I'd say most of us feel the need to be discreet for whatever reason on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any good now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any good now? "

You need to point out if you're discreet or not

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Any good now? "

It's better than it was...

The questions is do you think it will make women go "Ooh, he looks / sounds interesting"?

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any good now? "

Say you’re a heavy/ repeat cummer. Women lap that up, well until they’ve had there fill anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man I wouldn’t look twice at your profile, but I don’t look twice at any mans profile, unless of course I’ve spotted something interesting in the background like a lesser spotted Hilman Imp parked on the drive. But that’s very rare on here, I saw one once and gave it a Fab. He messaged saying thanks for the Fab, I said it was for the car not you. Broke his little heart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

FFS lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFS lol "

Dont take any notice of that impala fella.. Unless you want no meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFS lol

Dont take any notice of that impala fella.. Unless you want no meets"

Yadda yadda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much better. It is a profile at least now, not just a template.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The insistence on discretion and your name and lack of pics would put me off.

If we met would it need to be in a dark alley and wearing masks?!?

Not worth the hassle really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And that's why we would never meet lol. Thinking way to into things

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By *ew-shoesMan
over a year ago

South Shields

People, not just women make a decision based on gut feeling. If it feels right, you want to know more.

Women mostly have a type, I guess. If your first two seconds in their head appeals to their type, you're in.

Instead of, "I am this, I am that" in your profile, maybe try laying out what you have to offer them.

Subtle difference.

Something like,

Is discretion your number one priority?

Do you want your meet to be guaranteed shower fresh, clean shaven and on time?

Maybe you're a couple who need a night off from family life in a nice hotel room roleplaying with a well groomed younger man?

etc...

Let the razor sharp profile pic of you in your best suit, make that initial POW!

Grab them by the gut first and then let them want to know more.

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