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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love some advice. Finding it really difficult to arrange a meet or social. Any advice welcomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to people get a rapport with them then things may or may not follow but it takes time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

Lots of people will look at a profile before reading a message and you effectively don't have one. I focus my attention on guys who've made an effort and I don't have to elicit every single bit of info from. Maybe start there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

The lady above is right more detail helps it will cut down the people who weren't going to meet you anyway but the marginal ones might be more interested. You have to remember there are a lot of guys on here and a lot of competition.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Get rid of the status. A lot of people block those they are not interested in just not to contact them again by mistake a few months down the line. I certainly do as I never remember user names.

Otherwise, it's a good profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice taken. Thanks

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Would love some advice. Finding it really difficult to arrange a meet or social. Any advice welcomed "

4th time on fab and you still have a 3 line profile it don't make you sound like a guy who will put effort in if you haven't on your profile. Just giving a bit of helpful feedback why not expand on it and sell yourself more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol. Because people really read profile. Thanks for the advice anyways

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Lol. Because people really read profile. Thanks for the advice anyways "

I absolutely do, and not just when critiquing profiles. (and men who don't are, for many women/ couples, incredibly annoying)

Another thing, it's a turn off for me when guys make a point of being straight. If you don't want messages from guys, use your filters. Insisting that you're straight just looks homophobic.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon


"Lol. Because people really read profile. Thanks for the advice anyways "

Some of us really do, I don't want to waste my time messaging people who are looking for different things or where trying to find out is like getting blood from a stone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4th time on fab started this thread 17hrs ago yet doesn’t seem that you have taken any of the advice. Most couples and single females read profiles. Yours doesn’t say anything about you apart from your genuine and straight. Not much to catch anyone’s eye really.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Put up a profile pic

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Would love some advice. Finding it really difficult to arrange a meet or social. Any advice welcomed "

If this is your 4th visit to Fab you've not learnt much along the way.

You have no avatar pic. Instant pass by.

You have no profile text to speak of. Instant pass by.

One pic of your abs. They're great abs, (bastard) but I'll bet there's more to you than a 6 pack.

If your profile doesn't flutter the flange in the slightest, no one's going to ask you anything.

In fact saying "if there's anything you'd like to know ask" is pretty lazy.

Sell yourself, show your personality.

Good luck......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love some advice. Finding it really difficult to arrange a meet or social. Any advice welcomed

If this is your 4th visit to Fab you've not learnt much along the way.

You have no avatar pic. Instant pass by.

You have no profile text to speak of. Instant pass by.

One pic of your abs. They're great abs, (bastard) but I'll bet there's more to you than a 6 pack.

If your profile doesn't flutter the flange in the slightest, no one's going to ask you anything.

In fact saying "if there's anything you'd like to know ask" is pretty lazy.

Sell yourself, show your personality.

Good luck......"
what he said

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

No profile pic. Only one public photo. Three line profile text containing a spelling mistake. Cringy update status containing a spelling mistake. On the plus side if you put some more photos up and write a bit more about yourself you could do ok on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add what you would expect from the person you're interested in.

You would expect conversation, more than one picture and throw a little compliment in there. I also think a dick pic as the only pic is a really bad start.

Not that I'm an expert lol.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Maybe add a profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be 100% real and a 100% straight but you're 1% effort. If you can only put in 1% that's pretty well what you're going to get back.

Best advice would be to give it up as a bad job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a profile a pic

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