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By *ockbird OP   Man
over a year ago

rotherham

Cant help wondering why nobody looks at my profile or replies to messages I send. Am I unattractive or is my profile rubbish. Advice please.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Well you do have 2 of the same forum posts and what you have to think of is that there are more men on here than women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant help wondering why nobody looks at my profile or replies to messages I send. Am I unattractive or is my profile rubbish. Advice please."

Well your username is totally confusing, your pics are quite good. The profile isn't bad but try punctuating it better (read it aloud and see how it flows), fix the spellign mistooks and put some effort into it. Have a look at other people's profiles of both genders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you do have 2 of the same forum posts and what you have to think of is that there are more men on here than women"

Which means you have to try harder and better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant help wondering why nobody looks at my profile or replies to messages I send. Am I unattractive or is my profile rubbish. Advice please."

The c**k word in your username isn't a great start. On a sex site, there's kind of an assumption that you have one, and those who might be interested in you have seen a male member before, there really isn't a need to ever include it in any written parts of the profile, one photo if you must.

There are dozens of threads on here with profile advice, have a browse.

You're in the age bracket I would look at, but unless your post had prompted me to look I never would have browsed a profile with that word in the username.

Mrs

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By *ockbird OP   Man
over a year ago

rotherham

Thankyou for the advice. The username I use is because around these parts it is a term used for someone who is a bit of a laugh. It never occured to me that the c**k part of it would put people off. Apologies to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being unattractive to some people does not make you ugly! Always find that a really strange assumption

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Obvious the person that met you in July didn't think you were ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou for the advice. The username I use is because around these parts it is a term used for someone who is a bit of a laugh. It never occured to me that the c**k part of it would put people off. Apologies to all."

No need to apologise, it's only my opinion!! You're twenty miles away from us, never heard the phrase before.

Good luck, think positive thoughts.

Mrs

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

be creative confident and venture out in the unknown part of success is what failure embrace it learn from it and adapt never put yourself down remember ugly duckling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant help wondering why nobody looks at my profile or replies to messages I send. Am I unattractive or is my profile rubbish. Advice please."

To be fair mate you look in pretty good shape. Im a straight guy so please don't be offended. But you look pretty hench. Im ugly, been on here 3 times still not one meet. You got one on me

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By *rof. Brian cocksMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Cant help wondering why nobody looks at my profile or replies to messages I send. Am I unattractive or is my profile rubbish. Advice please.

The c**k word in your username isn't a great start. On a sex site, there's kind of an assumption that you have one, and those who might be interested in you have seen a male member before, there really isn't a need to ever include it in any written parts of the profile, one photo if you must.

There are dozens of threads on here with profile advice, have a browse.

You're in the age bracket I would look at, but unless your post had prompted me to look I never would have browsed a profile with that word in the username.

Mrs"

Bloody hell... maybe I should change my user name too then!

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

Yeah ugly ....

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

I wouldn't be interested because I'm not attracted to older men, but...in certain age groups not being able to accommodate at home means the person is playing away. Not everyone will meet someone who is attached.

Your profile name would probably mean I'd just scroll past to be honest

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Your very welcome OP.

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