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By *orny PT OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Did my first visit last week at Jaydees and wanted to try the rooms out that were couples only. Is there any eligible female out there who could oblige? It's one thing to talk to couples in the club, but sometimes their filters won't allow me follow on the conversation, later in the week. How am I supposed to get verified?

It's easy to get a complex in this scene, as being a single bloke is hard (pun intended) when it comes to admissions and we tend to pay the higher entry fees.

What do you think?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP the easy way to get verified is to ask people you met at the club. Most club owners and staff are only too happy to oblige and other guests will too (if they can remember your username lol). Did it not occur to you to ask the people you met when you visited jaydees to verify you?

As for wanting a lady to accompany you - you may find this difficult to find (I almost wrote "don't hold you breath" but thought it was a bit mean!)

Here are just a few reasons why it may be a struggle:

If we go to a club with someone as a couple then we are stuck with them all night and we might not get along that great.

There can often be an expectation of play from the man.

We don't want to be used as a cheap entry ticket or an access all areas ticket.

Other couples can spot a "just for tonight" couple a mile off because there isn't really a dynamic between each other yet, they often prefer to play with real couples.

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By *orny PT OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Good answers Yorkie.

It never thought about asking about user names etc. I wanted to work out if this was a the right forum for me. Judging by the sincere answers, the answer is yes.

My other wish, later down the line, would be to find some new friends/playmates and take turns on driving.

The other thing I want, is to build up a good network and reputation on and offline and maybe do some matchmaking for others. Good karma is in short supply

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Doesn’t really work like that OP - I want to get in the couples room and mail couples who have blocked single men.

If you’re meeting single women, find one you play with regularly, enjoy clubs together and want into make it easier to chat with potential meets for you both - then is the time to look at a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, your post doesn't sound like you want to be in a couple at all...maybe the thread should be titled 'single guy wants to get into areas of a club denied to him'

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By *Jem1Woman
over a year ago

hereford

It is exactly the same for us single ladies OP xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is exactly the same for us single ladies OP xxx"

^^ this.

I have been asked to leave a couples room when just sat silently watching.

Thems are the rules.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You want a playmate to share the driving. Would you want her to share the couples entry fee too ?

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