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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It takes me a while to make up my mind about things, and this has been quite the though provoker. I have decided that I am definitely in for a local meet and greet with an option at some hot and heavy fun.

In the end, however, you don't have to worry about me, whatever I say I am up to, I am a sure thing about it. Fixing electrics, or snaking your drain, I am the guy.

I work almost all the time, so a stop in for a meet or a local shop for a coffee is pretty much that. I'm just not the hang about kind of person, I like to finish what I set out to do and then buzz off.

If it is a coffee, then it is a coffee, not one to linger around. If it is a quick romp, then quick it will be. It takes some planning for a long term session of anything and I have to really get into someone to go for that.

Still, I am all about the area, downtown southampton to Lyndhurst, Romsey and Blackfield, even Lepe and associated New Forrest areas. Local Southampton is where I have most my time.

Anyone in Eastleigh? Places leisure centre is a great place for a coffee, swim, workout or whatever.

Just want a handyman to service something around the house? I can do it all, no kidding about there.

I need some excitement in my life!

If you are a bi or gay man trying to see if I can be turned, I don't mind the fancying at all, but I am not likely to do anything with a man. I am glad to be friends, etc., but it is just not my cuppa. Big girls, probably the same. I don't mind the banter and fun, but we aren't likely to do much together at any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giggles

Quickly steps aside to stop me from getting crushed in the stampede of slim woman looking for a quick coffee with a guy off fabs who doesn't want to spend too much of his precious time with

Have fun hunny and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This should more entertaining than country file, the conversation, watching for replies, getting the popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roll up, Roll up, get your popcorn here

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Grab yer swimming cozzy! But no chubby gals! ....good luck

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Prepare for the rush, best leave the door open save the hoards' of beauties beating it down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, why don’t you take your wife for a coffee and then go home and do all those DIY jobs you’ve been promising to do.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giggles

Quickly steps aside to stop me from getting crushed in the stampede of slim woman looking for a quick coffee with a guy off fabs who doesn't want to spend too much of his precious time with

Have fun hunny and good luck

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is fucking hilarious!

Dude, I don't know if I'm impressed or just downright shocked lol

The fuck's, this guy don't give is legendary.. Not sure if he be a troll or serious too be honest..

I would look past it if you looked like, say James Dean, Elvis.. Fuck it even Father Ted, but...

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

Tbh I'm a tad confused. July shows a super fit guy. Sept is not the same person and you have made a post about how much weight you need to lose before meeting. Maybe just maybe larger ladies should be avoiding larger men who have massive egos and 5 mins to spare behind their wives backs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I'm a tad confused. July shows a super fit guy. Sept is not the same person and you have made a post about how much weight you need to lose before meeting. Maybe just maybe larger ladies should be avoiding larger men who have massive egos and 5 mins to spare behind their wives backs "

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By *enandlisaCouple
over a year ago

Burnley'ish

Kudos to the OP for being honest and stating his preference.

Strange though that he’s jumped all over for doing so.

I do suspect that if the post had been started by a single female and worded the same the replies would have been completely different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys profile is quite well written and up front. He is honest with his position and his preferences. This makes it different.

Quite a few profiles and thread comments from guys fall into the trap that you have to worship the pussy to get some.

This guy gives zero fucks. Good to see.

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By *enandlisaCouple
over a year ago

Burnley'ish


"The guys profile is quite well written and up front. He is honest with his position and his preferences. This makes it different.

Quite a few profiles and thread comments from guys fall into the trap that you have to worship the pussy to get some.

This guy gives zero fucks. Good to see."

Interesting that a guy who is honest and upfront with his position and preferences has so far not got the green tick from being verified.

It begs the question how much bullshit and lies has to be told to earn the green tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes me a while to make up my mind about things, and this has been quite the though provoker. I have decided that I am definitely in for a local meet and greet with an option at some hot and heavy fun.

In the end, however, you don't have to worry about me, whatever I say I am up to, I am a sure thing about it. Fixing electrics, or snaking your drain, I am the guy.

I work almost all the time, so a stop in for a meet or a local shop for a coffee is pretty much that. I'm just not the hang about kind of person, I like to finish what I set out to do and then buzz off.

If it is a coffee, then it is a coffee, not one to linger around. If it is a quick romp, then quick it will be. It takes some planning for a long term session of anything and I have to really get into someone to go for that.

Still, I am all about the area, downtown southampton to Lyndhurst, Romsey and Blackfield, even Lepe and associated New Forrest areas. Local Southampton is where I have most my time.

Anyone in Eastleigh? Places leisure centre is a great place for a coffee, swim, workout or whatever.

Just want a handyman to service something around the house? I can do it all, no kidding about there.

I need some excitement in my life!

If you are a bi or gay man trying to see if I can be turned, I don't mind the fancying at all, but I am not likely to do anything with a man. I am glad to be friends, etc., but it is just not my cuppa. Big girls, probably the same. I don't mind the banter and fun, but we aren't likely to do much together at any time."
so succinctly put in and out in a flash is your name Jack by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The guys profile is quite well written and up front. He is honest with his position and his preferences. This makes it different.

Quite a few profiles and thread comments from guys fall into the trap that you have to worship the pussy to get some.

This guy gives zero fucks. Good to see.

Interesting that a guy who is honest and upfront with his position and preferences has so far not got the green tick from being verified.

It begs the question how much bullshit and lies has to be told to earn the green tick "

He doesn’t have to do much to get his green tick... just go to a club or social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile speaks volumes and non verified too ... Yaaaaaawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile speaks volumes and non verified too ... Yaaaaaawn "
none verified means nothing I choose not to have veris doesn't stop me meeting it only restricts you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile speaks volumes and non verified too ... Yaaaaaawn none verified means nothing I choose not to have veris doesn't stop me meeting it only restricts you "

I agree BUT that coupled with the profile and this original post does NOT make him a likely candidate for most decent women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile speaks volumes and non verified too ... Yaaaaaawn none verified means nothing I choose not to have veris doesn't stop me meeting it only restricts you

I agree BUT that coupled with the profile and this original post does NOT make him a likely candidate for most decent women."
oh in his case he will need help

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By *enandlisaCouple
over a year ago

Burnley'ish


"The profile speaks volumes and non verified too ... Yaaaaaawn none verified means nothing I choose not to have veris doesn't stop me meeting it only restricts you

I agree BUT that coupled with the profile and this original post does NOT make him a likely candidate for most decent women."

So if in time he meets someone on the terms he’s looking for she won’t be a decent woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile speaks volumes and non verified too ... Yaaaaaawn none verified means nothing I choose not to have veris doesn't stop me meeting it only restricts you

I agree BUT that coupled with the profile and this original post does NOT make him a likely candidate for most decent women.

So if in time he meets someone on the terms he’s looking for she won’t be a decent woman?"

You’re posting with intelligence and common sense....

You won’t last too long on the forums because you don’t have a pack mentality....

God speed my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The profile speaks volumes and non verified too ... Yaaaaaawn none verified means nothing I choose not to have veris doesn't stop me meeting it only restricts you

I agree BUT that coupled with the profile and this original post does NOT make him a likely candidate for most decent women."

So, chances are he wouldn’t meet you so anyone he does meet will not be ‘decent’. Get where you’re coming from yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This one I will answer, I don't reply to many, but I like your position. I do all those things. I give her all the attention anyone could handle and it did not work. Most of this adventure is a result of hoping to improve things, as I found her chatting foreign men, declaring wanting to see them, cuddle them, etc. She has teased with me about light swinging before and we even made 'pacts' to do so, but I know nothing about the lifestyle, save what I have seen on Benidorm. I love that couple, actually, their blatant openness and I have always been into naturism, so I thought to get into the lifestyle, at least to some degree. I have met one very decent person here, and she seems to share a lot of my goals, so the site is working out for me. I have no guilt about how much I do in this home, be certain of that. I am a very decent man, and I actually hold no secrets. I do like the insight in your post, however, so that is why I answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This one I will answer, I don't reply to many, but I like your position. I do all those things. I give her all the attention anyone could handle and it did not work. Most of this adventure is a result of hoping to improve things, as I found her chatting foreign men, declaring wanting to see them, cuddle them, etc. She has teased with me about light swinging before and we even made 'pacts' to do so, but I know nothing about the lifestyle, save what I have seen on Benidorm. I love that couple, actually, their blatant openness and I have always been into naturism, so I thought to get into the lifestyle, at least to some degree. I have met one very decent person here, and she seems to share a lot of my goals, so the site is working out for me. I have no guilt about how much I do in this home, be certain of that. I am a very decent man, and I actually hold no secrets. I do like the insight in your post, however, so that is why I answer."
you havnt quoted anyone so who are you responding to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, Benendisa, I have chosen yours as the second of the two replies that I want to answer. Your answer lies in the opening statement of my thread:

'I am ready for a meet....' that in itself implies that I have to date not met with anyone.

I'm not on this site for sex. If I find someone that just sets off my fire, then I am all in, that is for certain, but I may not set them off. The other side is that anyone I meet may not want to just go out and pass me this green tick.

As I put in the text, I am after an adventure, it has to be thrilling and exciting. If it were just sex, well, as a military veteran I know how to get that taken care of easily. I tired of singles clubs in my twenties (which was a long ways ago) and quick, random partners are just physically dangerous these days.

So, while I want wild and extreme, I don't necessarily need 'lots' of it. If it takes longer to meet what excites me, then sobeit. Don'e forget, I have to excite them too, and that multiplies the difficulty. Thanks for responding, however.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, why don’t you take your wife for a coffee and then go home and do all those DIY jobs you’ve been promising to do....... "

This is the one I was quoting first. Not used to the forum yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Interesting that a guy who is honest and upfront with his position and preferences has so far not got the green tick from being verified.

It begs the question how much bullshit and lies has to be told to earn the green tick "

This is the one I was quoting on the second one. Thanks for noting, I will get used to the syntax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is interesting is that the 'rules' or etiquette for men and women on fab are quite different.

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