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By *eek247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yeovil

Hi,

New to all this and it seems nobody will talk to me, I have no profile pics as don't know what to put up.

I need to get verified but do you have to get naked if you do a webcam?

The socials are always at an inconvenient time or location (we only have one car and my wife doesn't know about FAB).

Any help would be amazing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Look at some of the successful men (those who meet women), the types of profiles and pictures they have up. Sell yourself: it's an incredibly tough market for men.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Have a look at _sgiveswood profile. She has some cracking advice for newbies.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Hi,

New to all this and it seems nobody will talk to me, I have no profile pics as don't know what to put up.

I need to get verified but do you have to get naked if you do a webcam?

The socials are always at an inconvenient time or location (we only have one car and my wife doesn't know about FAB).

Any help would be amazing."
Surely by looking at other profiles you can get an idea of what picture might be suitable op, it does not need to be a face picture. You don’t need to be naked to go on webcam, can’t think why you’d think that. Just chat to others on there and ask politely if someone will verify you, and once you’re verified it does not magically mean you’ll get more attention op. I can’t give you feedback on your profile as you’ve not specifically asked op.

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By *eavier than HeavenMan
over a year ago

Belfast

All valid points, not much I can add

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"All valid points, not much I can add "

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By *eek247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yeovil

Wow talk about stating the bleeding obvious, if fact bloody obvious I didn't think of it.

Thanks awesome people.

And yes when I have amended my profile I will ask for feedback.

Please keep adding more to this thread.

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By *eavier than HeavenMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Wow talk about stating the bleeding obvious, if fact bloody obvious I didn't think of it.

Thanks awesome people.

And yes when I have amended my profile I will ask for feedback.

Please keep adding more to this thread.

"

Good luck, keep the chin up man, have patience and be yourself. All I can say

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By *eek247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yeovil


"Wow talk about stating the bleeding obvious, if fact bloody obvious I didn't think of it.

Thanks awesome people.

And yes when I have amended my profile I will ask for feedback.

Please keep adding more to this thread.

Good luck, keep the chin up man, have patience and be yourself. All I can say "

Thanks man, need to take a fresh approach

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Wow talk about stating the bleeding obvious, if fact bloody obvious I didn't think of it.

Thanks awesome people.

And yes when I have amended my profile I will ask for feedback.

Please keep adding more to this thread.

"

People are trying to help you, no need to be sarcastic.

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By *eek247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yeovil

Sorry wasn't being sarcastic honestly.

Just trying to point out I missed all the obvious things

Checked out you profile and some fantastic advice there.

Hope i didn't offend anyone - so many great people here

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By *eek247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yeovil

Heavier than heaven - love your profile, gave me some good ideas for mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

New to all this and it seems nobody will talk to me, I have no profile pics as don't know what to put up.

I need to get verified but do you have to get naked if you do a webcam?

The socials are always at an inconvenient time or location (we only have one car and my wife doesn't know about FAB).

Any help would be amazing."
you definitely need help, you don't have to be naked to cam, pics can be dressed to you don't have to put a face pic in public pics,the fact you're married and she doesn't know you're here will definitely go against you

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By *eek247 OP   Man
over a year ago

Yeovil

Thanks James, I know, whether I can get her around to this way of thinking who knows.

I'm just very conscious about my body, I know not selling myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks James, I know, whether I can get her around to this way of thinking who knows.

I'm just very conscious about my body, I know not selling myself"
I'd get your other half round now rather than later

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

The rules here are pretty much the same as anywhere else.

You can be a little more direct, but it basically works the same way - all the tings that attract the opposite sex in the real world work here - and all the things that repell them in the real world are just the same here too.

When you put something on your profile - your pics - or in a message, ask yourself - would this go down well with the girl next door / the girl down the pub?

For example - want to put lots and lots and lots of pics of your cock on your profile?

Think how this would go down in real life.

Would continually exposing yourself to a girl in the pub be:

A. Really freaking attractive and absolutely guarantee yourself a shag

or

B. Grounds for arrest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

New to all this and it seems nobody will talk to me, I have no profile pics as don't know what to put up.

I need to get verified but do you have to get naked if you do a webcam?

The socials are always at an inconvenient time or location (we only have one car and my wife doesn't know about FAB).

Any help would be amazing."

If you're cheating on your wife you may not get a lot of interest, but doubtlessly some women will so good luck

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By *eavier than HeavenMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Thanks James, I know, whether I can get her around to this way of thinking who knows.

I'm just very conscious about my body, I know not selling myselfI'd get your other half round now rather than later "

I agree

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By *eavier than HeavenMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Heavier than heaven - love your profile, gave me some good ideas for mine."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP as you have no pictures, your saving grace will be your profile, the opening line of which is "

looking for chats to satisfy my needs". Eh ? Usually the idea is it's a mutually beneficial arrangement.

I'd definately look to make your profile more appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

New to all this and it seems nobody will talk to me, I have no profile pics as don't know what to put up.

I need to get verified but do you have to get naked if you do a webcam?

The socials are always at an inconvenient time or location (we only have one car and my wife doesn't know about FAB).

Any help would be amazing."

With no pics it's almost certain that no one will talk to you. Get some up pronto, just not only of your bell end.

And with your text try and be seductive; think "What can I offer ladies?" rather than "What can they offer me?" which your profile leans towards at the moment?

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