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By *uriousman1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

blackburn

Hi people please can somebody give me some advise and tips on my profile. I’m a medical professional - I guess that’s irrelevant.. I’m not having the best of luck at catching ameet . Please can some veterans help me. Really appreciated. I thought final push I’ll subscribe and be a site supporter however I just needed to understand maybe witha fresh pair of eyes. Mostly appreciated ladies and gents

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

Hello,

Just a quick pointer, you have no photos, they don’t need to be of your face or your cock but they could be body shots so still anonymous but at least people would know what they are getting.

What is the site’s reputation? I’d probably get rid of that sentence.

So many great male profiles on here, check some of the previous forum posts.

Be polite and have fun!

The blonde x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i will agree no photos is a no go area for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found pics help... pics in a suit or teasing pics especially... i would hide your cock pics unless asked

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

You also seem willing to meet anyone at any age.

The intention might be to look free and liberal but it could be putting people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you haven't even bothered to update your irrelevant first line about your age it seems probable you are beyond help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people please can somebody give me some advise and tips on my profile. I’m a medical professional - I guess that’s irrelevant.. I’m not having the best of luck at catching ameet . Please can some veterans help me. Really appreciated. I thought final push I’ll subscribe and be a site supporter however I just needed to understand maybe witha fresh pair of eyes. Mostly appreciated ladies and gents"
look at guys profiles look for veris if they've got 50 veris they're doing ok then emulate his profile, pics though and is your profile name suggesting you're bi that could hold you back with women, you said you're a ' medical professional' can you give me some help with a problem I've got, oh and what reputation has this site got?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of what the above have said. Also check your spelling and grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos! Again as people say they don’t have to be face in public, clothed, semi clothed, naked body. Cock photos are divisive so if you want to do a cock photo just make sure it’s not loads.

You totally need to rewrite your profile.

I agree with the comment above your username indicates you might be Bi-curious but they wouldn’t bother me either way.

The fact one place your profile says you are 34 and another says you are 36 is weird/ off putting. I also find the comment about the sites reputation off putting too. Remember this is actually a swinging site not a hook up/ sex site even though lots of people use it that way, it is a swinging site.

Plus you could do with saying a bit about what you are offering and looking for.

Then patience remembering how woman get inundated with so many messages so the odds are against again single Male.

Attention peoples advice and best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photos! Again as people say they don’t have to be face in public, clothed, semi clothed, naked body. Cock photos are divisive so if you want to do a cock photo just make sure it’s not loads.

You totally need to rewrite your profile.

I agree with the comment above your username indicates you might be Bi-curious but they wouldn’t bother me either way.

The fact one place your profile says you are 34 and another says you are 36 is weird/ off putting. I also find the comment about the sites reputation off putting too. Remember this is actually a swinging site not a hook up/ sex site even though lots of people use it that way, it is a swinging site.

Plus you could do with saying a bit about what you are offering and looking for.

Then patience remembering how woman get inundated with so many messages so the odds are against again single Male.

Attention peoples advice and best of luck. "

Act on* not attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instantly forgettable profile that won't stand out like hundreds of others on here I'm afraid my lovely. As others have said, with no photos to grab peoples attention there will be little interest. Also, you need to write a bit more about yourself and what you're looking for and can offer. Goodl luck

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By *hrewsgirl0Woman
over a year ago

shrewsbury

No photos or interests, and again it appears you are willing to meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No photos or interests, and again it appears you are willing to meet anyone"
don't you just naturally assume all guys are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had a meet it was two years ago. You telling me you not met anyone since.

Medical school teach you how to use words.

No photos.

Its boring and does not stand out enough

Kind regards

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By *addy Issues 23Woman
over a year ago

Blackpool

Perhaps look at correcting some of the spelling,You being a medical professional it should not be to difficult and a couple pictures maybe so I wouldn't feel I'm chatting to a silhouette with no soul.good luck

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't bother looking at profiles that haven't added an avatar....

But seeing as you asked.

You really need some pics.

You say you're straight but looking to meet tv/ts, I'd say that makes you at least bi curious.

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

The profile isn’t in sentences. Read it aloud. It doesn’t make sense.

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex


"The profile isn’t in sentences. Read it aloud. It doesn’t make sense. "

lucky he didn't write it by hand, no one would be able to read it.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Hi people please can somebody give me some advise and tips on my profile. I’m a medical professional - I guess that’s irrelevant.. I’m not having the best of luck at catching ameet . Please can some veterans help me. Really appreciated. I thought final push I’ll subscribe and be a site supporter however I just needed to understand maybe witha fresh pair of eyes. Mostly appreciated ladies and gents"

No profile photo means we would delete your message without reading.

No public pics means it would get deleted as soon as we opened your profile.

Very poor effort at text means we would delete your message as soon as we saw that.

3 strikes and your message hasn't even been read, and as a medical professional you can do a LOT better with that text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photos! Again as people say they don’t have to be face in public, clothed, semi clothed, naked body. Cock photos are divisive so if you want to do a cock photo just make sure it’s not loads.

You totally need to rewrite your profile.

I agree with the comment above your username indicates you might be Bi-curious but they wouldn’t bother me either way.

The fact one place your profile says you are 34 and another says you are 36 is weird/ off putting. I also find the comment about the sites reputation off putting too. Remember this is actually a swinging site not a hook up/ sex site even though lots of people use it that way, it is a swinging site.

Plus you could do with saying a bit about what you are offering and looking for.

Then patience remembering how woman get inundated with so many messages so the odds are against again single Male.

Attention peoples advice and best of luck.

Act on* not attention "

The first time I have seen someone go for a minor predictive text error!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

A confusing profile with not a single picture.

To reiterate what the previously forumites have said:

No avatar (doesn’t have to be identifiable)

No pictures

You say ‘straight’ - are you sure about that?

A few full stops and commas would help.

Very best of luck OP x

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