FabSwingers.com forum: Any tips on new profile?

By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I suggest you delete the "legal" warning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t see many people wanting to travel to your place if work, but good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance.

Being brutally honest, it sounds like yet another young lad fantasising after watching too much porn.

Good luck though!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance.

Being brutally honest, it sounds like yet another young lad fantasising after watching too much porn.

Good luck though!"

Agreed.

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By *ercurialMan
over a year ago

Maidenhead

Drop the quotation marks. This site is as much about making friends as it is about getting your rocks off.

Other than that, not bad, stick at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why 'friends'? No way would I meet someone whilst they were at work

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By *ercurialMan
over a year ago

Maidenhead

So that would be the "rolls eyes" emoji then

No "Presumed Innocent" for you then legs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance.

The only meet at your place of work is certainly 'stand'out' but possibly not the kind you are after.

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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

Who would've thought it would've been this hard to get a bit of advice

Hostile comments must mean that you're not experienced enough to give criticism I guess.

I'll still be here though so don't worry about that

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Who would've thought it would've been this hard to get a bit of advice

Hostile comments must mean that you're not experienced enough to give criticism I guess.

I'll still be here though so don't worry about that

I don't think any comment was 'hostile', maybe you're a little too sensitive?

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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

I think if I was 'sensitive' I would've been hostile back but as you can see I was not. I asked for advice but little to none advice has been given, I've just received spam comments that is a bit embarrassing

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Who would've thought it would've been this hard to get a bit of advice

Hostile comments must mean that you're not experienced enough to give criticism I guess.

I'll still be here though so don't worry about that

Which comments were hostile?

You have asked for profile advise and been given some good tips so which bit is hostile?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

As for advice you need better pictures and a write up that says a bit about you and what you can offer. Come fuck me at my work is lazy and will attract no one.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

OP. I think every person has given you helpful advise and honest comments about your profile. If you do want the help of experienced people on here, then why ask for tips. ?

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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

I followed Sally's advice and I'll take in Slender's as well and I thank them for that however comments such as 'yet another young lad fantasising after watching too much porn' is just unneeded and ageist. I don't see an age limit on this website that is above my age so why should I be seen as that? Wanting to meet me at work is a personal opinion so saying that people would not want to is invalid as I have had people say they wouldn't mind that. If the community doesn't support all ages then it must not be a very welcoming and mature place to be.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I think if I was 'sensitive' I would've been hostile back but as you can see I was not. I asked for advice but little to none advice has been given, I've just received spam comments that is a bit embarrassing"

Almost every comment was advice which is exactly what you asked for.

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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

I know I'll have to work on my write up about me because I know that it is lacking a lot, that's the kind of things I wanted to here and about the pictures do you mind expanding on 'better' as to me that could mean anything. Thank you

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Oh dear, he blocked me

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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

x_eeleyx None of your comments had been anywhere near advice and just seem like spam now

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"x_eeleyx None of your comments had been anywhere near advice and just seem like spam now"

Because I disagreed with you my comments are spam? You're going to struggle round here with your attitude.

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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

Again nothing that is contributing to any sort of help. If you have a personal problem then don't comment? Thank you

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Again nothing that is contributing to any sort of help. If you have a personal problem then don't comment? Thank you"

I think changing your attitude is a great piece of advice.

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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

Lovely, Thank you!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Lovely, Thank you!"

No problem, best of luck!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"I know I'll have to work on my write up about me because I know that it is lacking a lot, that's the kind of things I wanted to here and about the pictures do you mind expanding on 'better' as to me that could mean anything. Thank you"

Leave your profile as it is if it reflects you. That will attract those who will meet you.

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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

I don't think my profile really reflects me at all and I know I need to change it that's why I was looking for help. One thing I can't change is being young though lol. But please let me know what I should change about my pictures though as it will help me out

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

however comments such as 'yet another young lad fantasising after watching too much porn' is just unneeded"

Agreed. That isn't advice

Can the people who don't want to give advice and just attack people instead please avoid the threads rather than do this

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Your profile is fine to me, short and to the point, but you might attract more/ different people if you added a bit more to it.

Your pics are fine.

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By *RIDAY NIGHT LADYWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

"I don't think my profile really reflects me at all and I know I need to change it that's why I was looking for help. One thing I can't change is being young though lol. But please let me know what I should change about my pictures though as it will help me out"

Look at your profile from a womans perspective and think this.

1) Would they find the text enough to understand me

2) Why would a woman want to come to your work place on her own...yes some will.. but think safety.

3) Smart phones take excellent pictures, a picture in a suit, a picture of your ass.

Make your profile stand out, but your age will go against you on here so please do not take offence when people mention age.

Your are younger than the children, I would say of 50% of the people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t see many people wanting to travel to your place if work, but good luck

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better pictures

Better profile

Indeed work meet... Only

Tell us what you want what you like and what you want from the site.

Are you rich lol

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By *urhamjayMan
over a year ago

Durham

One of the biggest problem with any forum is the way people react to comments.

The comments you like, act upon.

The ones you don't like, ignore.

Then move on and carry on joining in the site.

All forums are like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A naked skydiving picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to do mate is be honest and make sure you treat ladies with the respecr they deserve and approach them in calm mannor i don't get many replies but all you can do is try and if you they don't reply don't hassle

best of luck dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A picture in bed looks unattractive, cock pictures need to go, have a smiling picture in the daylight will show you off better, ass pictures as suggested earlier would be more enticing, jazz up your intro make it jump out and definitely not meet at work not acceptable for work and comes across sleazy... Otherwise good luck

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By *ay_Lx OP Man
over a year ago

Stafford

This is what I was hoping for at the start, actual advice. I'll take to account the points you've all recently made and act upon it. Thank you for the help

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Ok OP I’m only 2 years older than you I would suggest looking at other guys profiles and see what they are doing right and see if you can incorporate that into your profile but don’t copy verbatim and also I have seen some great advice on this thread if you don’t take it that’s fine but listen and don’t just outright ignore it. It took me a little while to find my feet on here I would suggest posting on other threads to get yourself noticed or maybe go to a social event or a swingers club.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Also quite a few women won’t want to meet you at your work because it’s a line they won’t cross and I understand why they don’t want you to lose your job because you had sex at work and management caught you. Why not suggest for example you live in the countryside a outdoor meet if you can’t accommodate it’s just a suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red flags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really good advice that is darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked to visit people at work in the past, with role playing in mind.

There are people on Fab that are daring enough to be turned on by the idea. I think you would struggle with meeting TV/TS in the same scenario, as they like the time to dress up in their own environment. Maybe consider travelling too.

Best of luck

Its quite difficult if you're under 25 on here x

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Really good advice that is darling"

Who was that to?

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"Red flags "

For him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depressing folk on ere....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really good advice that is darling

Who was that to?"

That reply was to classact18 i think her name is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance.

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your age plays a big part and 55 really? Oh and you only meet at your work late at night you need to work on profile a bit me thinks

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Couldn't you meet somewhere during the day time before you start work ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 days after asking for advice and not one change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 days after asking for advice and not one change

We wonder why on earth ask for advice in the first place.

Aahh well!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It isn't compulsory to take the advice, he might think it is rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't compulsory to take the advice, he might think it is rubbish"

True, but..........

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Needs more tits

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"It isn't compulsory to take the advice, he might think it is rubbish

True, but..........

Is agree with you he should at least acknowledge it or even make changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6 days after asking for advice and not one change

He gone on his hols

Not all glued to the hip swinging site lol

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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago

DERBY/Notts border

"Hi all, just looking for some extra tips on what to make a profile standout on here. If anyone helps, thank you in advance.

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e/mate i wouldnt bother this site is shite youll have more look on pof and its easier to many dreamee couples and women on here.quote]

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