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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering as im new to this side of life, whats the best way to get my foot on the ladder?

Im a single liverpool lad living in chester temporarily im 23 and 6 ft 1

Any advice will be appriciated

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Best place to start would be a well written and enticing profile and pics - once you have that done you have various options:

Look for people that take your interest and with whom you think you'd be a good match based on their profile text etc and send them a message that is polite and respectful, provides them a little information about you and why you think you'd be a good match for them - maybe invite them to take a look at your profile and go from there.

Get along to clubs and organised socials which are a great way to meet people and get yourself known.

Get involved in the forums and chat rooms which are another good way to get yourself known and get to know others.

Set your expectations low and stay positive and treat the site as an addition to your life rather than your whole life and you won't go far wrong - but remember there are no guarantees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best place to start would be a well written and enticing profile and pics - once you have that done you have various options:

Look for people that take your interest and with whom you think you'd be a good match based on their profile text etc and send them a message that is polite and respectful, provides them a little information about you and why you think you'd be a good match for them - maybe invite them to take a look at your profile and go from there.

Get along to clubs and organised socials which are a great way to meet people and get yourself known.

Get involved in the forums and chat rooms which are another good way to get yourself known and get to know others.

Set your expectations low and stay positive and treat the site as an addition to your life rather than your whole life and you won't go far wrong - but remember there are no guarantees "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not believe men like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do not believe men like me "

#heknowswhoheis

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Good advice above. Take some decent pics, rather than one where you've scrubbed other people out!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If you want dial-a-gash use a prostitute.

If not, have patience.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Your profile picture looks like you're being attacked by the Langoliers

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Your profile picture looks like you're being attacked by the Langoliers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you can’t be meaning you’ll give anyone who asks links to your social media?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Surely you can’t be meaning you’ll give anyone who asks links to your social media?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile picture looks like you're being attacked by the Langoliers"

LOOOL ! I actually peed a little laughing at this !

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By *exeiraMan
over a year ago

London

Hello everyone. It is a tough life in here as a single male for sure. Any help would be appreciated. Ladies please check if my profile fits the bill. Had 1 meet so far.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do the Bored status updates..always keep them positive..

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By *exeiraMan
over a year ago

London

Perfect thanks for your help.

Tristan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dial a hash ?????? that's brilliant and nice pics by the way love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on here on and off a while now, ive messaged people always polite etc.

Some answer , some dont.

I think its just a case of patience....sooner or later my luck might be in, there must be some need for a old dude somewhere

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

The fact that you expect people to immediately go off site and onto to social media is very off putting. No way would I have random people on mine. The site gives you all the tools you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that you expect people to immediately go off site and onto to social media is very off putting. No way would I have random people on mine. The site gives you all the tools you need. "

Appart from video sharing

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