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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to arrange a meet to get verifications when women won't meet without them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think having no verification's is the issue

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I don't think having no verification's is the issue"

It's not. Damage is not a good word to use.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Get yourself to social events/clubs or on webcam

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sorry but your profile is a bit of a turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to arrange a meet to get verifications when women won't meet without them "
just move onto someone who doesn't require that..... Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a read of your profile text, do you really think any woman is gonna like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people look at verifications though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don’t want to meet you or messsge you then look at your profile and see if it needs changing.

People can’t expect to get a different outcome if they do the same things

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Do people look at verifications though"

I do.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"I don't think having no verification's is the issue"

Yes -just remember to tone down the subtlety in your profile and always send 1 word unintelligible messages crammed with cock shots -that will sort out your lady drought for sure

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Do people look at verifications though"

Absolutely I do. I want to know, at a minimum, if other people think this person is decent, friendly and respectful in person. Reduces the risk that I'm meeting someone disrespectful or even dangerous.

OP, think about how you might look from a woman's perspective. Profile, messages, anything else in public.

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By *r n Mrs NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

eccles

Yes I always read veris, to see what the personone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people look at verifications though"
yes always

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's wrong with it

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"What's wrong with it "
it’s a complete turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with it "

"like to lick a woman to oblivion"

No, nothing wrong at all.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"What's wrong with it

"like to lick a woman to oblivion"

No, nothing wrong at all. "

Or do damage with his tongue!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I certainly don't have sex as some sort of masochistic endurance test. I "can take" many things, but I'll keep my grit for the gym or the dentist, thanks.

Also, apart from that you like oral and think you're exceptional at it (many guys do), your profile says nothing about you.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Do people look at verifications though"

You wouldn't get a verification as I'm not meeting. It would say nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people look at verifications though"

Most women read profiles very carefully - few men do, they generally just message women showing as online near them - hence the huge number of deleted messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile needs a lot of work.

I would delete any message from a profile like that to be honest.

Get yourself to a club or social event, best way to get verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just look at some of the guys who are prominent in the forums, check their profile out and compare it to yours

Those who are successful usually have spent time and put effort into their profile

Or/and have the body of an Adonis

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Just look at some of the guys who are prominent in the forums, check their profile out and compare it to yours

Those who are successful usually have spent time and put effort into their profile

Or/and have the body of an Adonis "

Or look at the profiles of the guys who've verified the women here. Some of the guys I've met have great profiles.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

How would verifications help? He's clearly a man. He's not a woman pretending to be a man is he? You can be stood up by someone with verifications just as easily as without.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"How would verifications help? He's clearly a man. He's not a woman pretending to be a man is he? You can be stood up by someone with verifications just as easily as without. "
verifications helps a LOT!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"How would verifications help? He's clearly a man. He's not a woman pretending to be a man is he? You can be stood up by someone with verifications just as easily as without. "

'Tis true, and I have been. But, it's a buyer's market and you need to set out your stall well. I've met people without verifications so that they can get one but they still have to persuade me it's worth me giving up my time.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"How would verifications help? He's clearly a man. He's not a woman pretending to be a man is he? You can be stood up by someone with verifications just as easily as without. "

They show what other people think the person is like. Are they polite, respectful, friendly, non-pushy, etc? Particularly when there are more than just a few verifications saying the same thing.

My biggest concern is never being stood up. My biggest concern is always my safety. Verifications are one way of taking care of myself.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"How would verifications help? He's clearly a man. He's not a woman pretending to be a man is he? You can be stood up by someone with verifications just as easily as without.

They show what other people think the person is like. Are they polite, respectful, friendly, non-pushy, etc? Particularly when there are more than just a few verifications saying the same thing.

My biggest concern is never being stood up. My biggest concern is always my safety. Verifications are one way of taking care of myself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read profiles and verifications. Profiles as they give a small window into the persons personality, verifications to back up what the profile said.

I think its an important part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Person I have been messed around by the most is well verified and the most reliable I have met were a few unverified ones. It doesn’t always guarantee reliability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet someone who isn't verified.

If they had a decent profile and put effort into building rapport.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I guess women like verifications so they can make sure that they like the other women the guy has met, plus they know who to ward off if they decide he's "all mine"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people look at verifications though"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess women like verifications so they can make sure that they like the other women the guy has met, plus they know who to ward off if they decide he's "all mine"..."

Do people do that?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Do people look at verifications though

Yes "

We do for lots of reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess women like verifications so they can make sure that they like the other women the guy has met, plus they know who to ward off if they decide he's "all mine"...

Do people do that? "

Men do that. Ive had horrible messages today as one of my meets is on the hot pics 1st page. Its shocking

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've had messages telling me that I'm tainted by association because of some of the people I've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people look at verifications though

Yes

We do for lots of reasons "

If there's only a couple of veri's then we check who gave the verification also, noticed a few that seem to be fake accounts or men verifiyiing other men which will put us off straight away

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I've had messages telling me that I'm tainted by association because of some of the people I've met. "

Not the judgemental type of people you'd want to meet then. Their loss, not yours.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've had messages telling me that I'm tainted by association because of some of the people I've met.

Not the judgemental type of people you'd want to meet then. Their loss, not yours. "

Oh quite. A whiff of that sort of nonsense and onto my block list they go.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Tut tut tut...

Another guy on fab who thinks that having verifications will get him sex!

You have to sell yourself and this is done by having a profile that attracts!

Yours is DULL!

Have a read of a few singles and take notes!

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Do people look at verifications though"
yes the ones who aren't too lazy

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"What's wrong with it

"like to lick a woman to oblivion"

No, nothing wrong at all. "

I'm sort of paraphrasing Buzz Light-year as I read that...lick a woman to oblivion and beyond!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for everyone's input still thinking of the wording

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