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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi guys, just thought i'd introduce myself on here

my names Jan, i'm 30 from wolverhampton and i'm just looking for some really fun times

i've never met up with a couple before so that's top of my list

don't seem to be having much luck on here at the moment so any advice/tips would be appreciated

looking forward to hearing from you lot

bye for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi guys, just thought i'd introduce myself on here

my names Jan, i'm 30 from wolverhampton and i'm just looking for some really fun times

i've never met up with a couple before so that's top of my list

don't seem to be having much luck on here at the moment so any advice/tips would be appreciated

looking forward to hearing from you lot

bye for now "

Have you been on Fab before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah i was on here about a year ago

had a few good meets with single women

i went to chams with a woman off here aswel which i really enjoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah i was on here about a year ago

had a few good meets with single women

i went to chams with a woman off here aswel which i really enjoyed "

Perhaps you need to do the same things again then?

You obviously know what works for you

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just give it time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics are mostly crap. Profile write up is crap. Your status update is immature and whiney.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wel that's what i'm doing lol

i've got a beard this time round, i hope that's not going to hinder my chances haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for your reply

what's so crap about my pics?

how can i make them less crap haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics are mostly crap. Profile write up is crap. Your status update is immature and whiney. "

Ageee with this I’m afraid. Cock pics and one of I presume you shagging bare back when your profile says you practice safe sex. Actual write up is very light weight and says nothing about what you could offer.

If you’ve been here before then I’m sure you know what works. If not, have a look at some of the successful single men and take tips from their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics are mostly crap. Profile write up is crap. Your status update is immature and whiney. "

Sent a dm- hope that’s ok. Ged xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for your reply

what's so crap about my pics?

how can i make them less crap haha"

Cock shots, cock shot with someone hanging off the end, cock shot shooting your load.

Take your pick of which ones are crap.

We know you have a cock. I want to see more of the person it's attached to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok that's fair enough

do women on here prefer a profile without cock pics then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok that's fair enough

do women on here prefer a profile without cock pics then?"

wonders what answer your expecting !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you're* haha

i just want to know if that's just her opinion or if most women on here feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're* haha

i just want to know if that's just her opinion or if most women on here feel the same"

So you can correct peoples spelling, but you can’t write a profile by yourself. Priceless OP.

As a woman (in a couple) I know what a cock looks like. See you removed the shagging shot, but we saw that you were bareback.......

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By *thletic Fella!!Man
over a year ago

Wigan


"Pics are mostly crap. Profile write up is crap. Your status update is immature and whiney. "

If Simon Cowell wrote in the forum.....

Nothing wrong with straight to the point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you must be one of those keyboard warriors i've heard about, ive asked for advice there's no need to be an arse about it

as for the unprotected pic, it was with an ex girlfriend so yeah we had unprotected sex like most couples do

and as for my profile maybe there could be more information but i'd rather have a conversation with someone and let them know about me that way

and let's be honest your profile isn't exactly the most informative is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you must be one of those keyboard warriors i've heard about, ive asked for advice there's no need to be an arse about it

as for the unprotected pic, it was with an ex girlfriend so yeah we had unprotected sex like most couples do

and as for my profile maybe there could be more information but i'd rather have a conversation with someone and let them know about me that way

and let's be honest your profile isn't exactly the most informative is it"

So you asked for advice but when you didn't hear the answers you wanted you start being a dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if you read the post you'll see she was the one being a dick, i've just give her a piece back

there's advice and then there's just being rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you must be one of those keyboard warriors i've heard about, ive asked for advice there's no need to be an arse about it

as for the unprotected pic, it was with an ex girlfriend so yeah we had unprotected sex like most couples do

and as for my profile maybe there could be more information but i'd rather have a conversation with someone and let them know about me that way

and let's be honest your profile isn't exactly the most informative is it"

OP, use quote so we know who you’re replying to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you must be one of those keyboard warriors i've heard about, ive asked for advice there's no need to be an arse about it

as for the unprotected pic, it was with an ex girlfriend so yeah we had unprotected sex like most couples do

and as for my profile maybe there could be more information but i'd rather have a conversation with someone and let them know about me that way

and let's be honest your profile isn't exactly the most informative is it

OP, use quote so we know who you’re replying to

"

you know who i'm talking to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello OP and welcome . You are a good looking man, so I'm sure you will be fine, once you find your feet on here. My little snippet of advice? Make sure your profile text is up to par, as many women will read your profile, before even opening a message. I would also say, be patient. You are still very new. It can take a while to secure a first meet. Good luck lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello OP and welcome . You are a good looking man, so I'm sure you will be fine, once you find your feet on here. My little snippet of advice? Make sure your profile text is up to par, as many women will read your profile, before even opening a message. I would also say, be patient. You are still very new. It can take a while to secure a first meet. Good luck lovely "

thanks for the reply

i think ill rewrite it at some point then, i did it in a hurry last time lol

you look very nice btw ??

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By *eordieslutWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sum might do and sum might like bums etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sum might do and sum might like bums etc"

thanks for the reply

that's a good point actually, i've got a good bum aswel haha

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By *eordieslutWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

And lot perf safe sex than bareback and just b yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And lot perf safe sex than bareback and just b yourself "

i agree, i only have unprotected sex when i'm in a relationship

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your profile says you have been here before and know the score so why do you need to ask for advice ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile says you have been here before and know the score so why do you need to ask for advice ?"

because last time i had a very similar profile and got a lot more interest, i just wanted some feed back so i can make myself look more appealing on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello OP and welcome . You are a good looking man, so I'm sure you will be fine, once you find your feet on here. My little snippet of advice? Make sure your profile text is up to par, as many women will read your profile, before even opening a message. I would also say, be patient. You are still very new. It can take a while to secure a first meet. Good luck lovely

thanks for the reply

i think ill rewrite it at some point then, i did it in a hurry last time lol

you look very nice btw ??"

That's good. I'm sure you'll warrant more replies, than you may be currently getting then, fingers crossed.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics are mostly crap. Profile write up is crap. Your status update is immature and whiney. "

Just about spot on.

Surely you should know better having been on here before??

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I hate the cock pics, when you've seen one you've seen them all. Not much different from one to the next.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pics are mostly crap. Profile write up is crap. Your status update is immature and whiney.

Just about spot on.

Surely you should know better having been on here before??

"

you don't even have pics on your profile so how can you comment?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok so after all your input i've made a few changes to my profile

hopefully you all approve and fingers crossed i get some interest now lol

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

The changing room pic is cringe worthy tbh. And you say you are respectful, yet going by this thread you find criticism in others when they are offering advice. What you failed to realise is that they were both couples and like it or not, the rules don't really apply as to having a standout profile for couples. You being a single guy have to make an effort. Nature of the beast I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you really meet a 99 year old ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I actually thought you was wearing stockings in the changing room one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOBODY has to justify why they have unprotected sex... Really isn't anybodies business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NOBODY has to justify why they have unprotected sex... Really isn't anybodies business! "

Youre right

It isnt

But OP was wondering why he wasnt getting any luck

People offerered that as a possible reason

Especially as his profile states he is an advocate of safe sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The changing room pic is cringe worthy tbh. And you say you are respectful, yet going by this thread you find criticism in others when they are offering advice. What you failed to realise is that they were both couples and like it or not, the rules don't really apply as to having a standout profile for couples. You being a single guy have to make an effort. Nature of the beast I'm afraid."

i actually like the changing room pic lol

if you read it carefully you'll see that if i'm given advice ill answer respectfully but if i'm just being straight up harshly criticised then ill fight my corner

respect has to be earned in my eyes

i've just come to realise now that you can't please everyone on here lol

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