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Is my profile just naff or what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello All!

Advice/help please lovely people!

So I'm starting to thinking that i'm doing something wrong. I'm getting no luck at all, no messages back, nothing. Is there anything wrong with my profile at all? If so can anyone give me pointers?

Many thanks in advance.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello All!

Advice/help please lovely people!

So I'm starting to thinking that i'm doing something wrong. I'm getting no luck at all, no messages back, nothing. Is there anything wrong with my profile at all? If so can anyone give me pointers?

Many thanks in advance.

X

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Short answer - Yes

Long answer - Yes it is. You've got one not great quality picture. There's thousands of guys like you on here hun, you need something that'll make you stand out. Be creative with your pictures and have various ones. Add something about what you have to offer.. what you enjoy etc. Get rid of the "tell me your kinks" BS.. no one will message you purely for that.

This isn't dissimilar to a dating site. You're hear to sell yourself.. maybe not for a relationship but all the same.

Happy Fabbing !

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

Do they not run the essay writing module at school anymore - I am sure the first essay is usually “write about yourself”

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You have to write a profile that lets people know what sort of person you are - try and get your personality across. Check your spelling and punctuation etc. After all, some people might think if you can’t be bothered with getting your profile to be as top notch as it can be then maybe you won’t be bothered with trying at sex. More photos. Get yourself to a social. 8 months and no veri? I’d delete and start again. Read all the forum advice threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t look to bad now to be fair.

Get yourself to a club or a social though and make a point of getting some verifications from various people. They’ll help no end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs. You can have the best profile in the world but there's so much competition on here you will be lucky to get a response. If you meet women in clubs you bypass all the bullshit and competition. Only problem is finding a single woman in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And take all the advice with a pinch of salt. We're all individuals who want different things

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice. I've removed that line but i'll review the text as a whole later this week. In term of pictures i'm horrible at taking selfies so thats gonna be a struggle for me! hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs. You can have the best profile in the world but there's so much competition on here you will be lucky to get a response. If you meet women in clubs you bypass all the bullshit and competition. Only problem is finding a single woman in a club"

Good advice on the clubs but as you said the issue is finding a single lady there or a couple looking for an additional male. But i've been looking into going to a club that is near by but again finding the correct night for a single dude, but only one way to find out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingles @ xtasia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs. You can have the best profile in the world but there's so much competition on here you will be lucky to get a response. If you meet women in clubs you bypass all the bullshit and competition. Only problem is finding a single woman in a club

Good advice on the clubs but as you said the issue is finding a single lady there or a couple looking for an additional male. But i've been looking into going to a club that is near by but again finding the correct night for a single dude, but only one way to find out!"

No!!! That’s not the way to look at it. Just go to a club to talk to people. Be friendly and confident. In the conversation ask if they are on fab and if They’d be kind enough to verify you. Don’t go to clubs with any preconceived ideas about them or you’ll be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs. You can have the best profile in the world but there's so much competition on here you will be lucky to get a response. If you meet women in clubs you bypass all the bullshit and competition. Only problem is finding a single woman in a club

Good advice on the clubs but as you said the issue is finding a single lady there or a couple looking for an additional male. But i've been looking into going to a club that is near by but again finding the correct night for a single dude, but only one way to find out!"

Yeah just do it man! There is never a good night to go to a club as a single guy. People always say to have no expectations but at then end of the day we all go to places like that because we're kinky. Like going to a comedy club and not laughing: no good is it! But yeah verifications don't really help that much anyway, it's more about meeting good folk of a similar mindset

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