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1 meeting in 3 years.. Probably good for Fab.!

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

So I have had one great meet in three year's, probably good going for single male on here!

45 days left on my profile, before admitting defeat and deleting.

Just fed up with the delete and block brigade, I'm always polite in my messages... So why block?!

Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have had one great meet in three year's, probably good going for single male on here!

45 days left on my profile, before admitting defeat and deleting.

Just fed up with the delete and block brigade, I'm always polite in my messages... So why block?!

Rant over. "

To be honest having read your profile I don't think it appeals to the masses on Fab who aren't into niche fetishes. You might have better luck on other sites more geared to BDSM

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Having tried the main BDSM site I was recommended before...all I got was financial Dom trying to grab card details.. At least on here folk actually want to meet for sex play!

Thanks for looking at my profile though.

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"So I have had one great meet in three year's, probably good going for single male on here!

45 days left on my profile, before admitting defeat and deleting.

Just fed up with the delete and block brigade, I'm always polite in my messages... So why block?!

Rant over.

To be honest having read your profile I don't think it appeals to the masses on Fab who aren't into niche fetishes. You might have better luck on other sites more geared to BDSM "

Also don't think I'm into BDSM the way these sites are intended for...quiet like my tackle to continue working & not go funny colors because it being bound/beaten and had hot sauce stuffed down it!

Just after sexy fun under control of couple/female.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

The reason myself and a lot of females block is " the abuse we get if we say " no thanks not for me!! Which i have done so often!

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By *thena400Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I delete because I'm not interested, or because I'm overwhelmed, or because I'm not meeting currently, or because the writer is clearly sending a cut/paste message, or because the writer has written me numerous times already. I block because a person has written me numerous times already (and I'm not interested), or because he gets pushy and aggressive when I delete a message, or because I don't read the first message and yet get two or three follow ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's like a kink oriented site but can't remember what a member called it

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I absolutely block any woman that keeps emailing me incessantly and wont take no for an answer !!

Well, at least I will when someone messages me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The more specific your interests, the less people there are who are willing to go along with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if you’re so disillusioned why wait 45 days. You can delete your account at any time?

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"OP, if you’re so disillusioned why wait 45 days. You can delete your account at any time?"

True that's a good point....but then I'm a tight hit and its fun having a look at all you nice folk who have had a look at my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, if you’re so disillusioned why wait 45 days. You can delete your account at any time?

True that's a good point....but then I'm a tight hit and its fun having a look at all you nice folk who have had a look at my profile! "

Ah, so it was a “Look at me” thread all along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have had one great meet in three year's, probably good going for single male on here!

45 days left on my profile, before admitting defeat and deleting.

Just fed up with the delete and block brigade, I'm always polite in my messages... So why block?!

Rant over. "

Because it saves getting the same message again every few weeks for the next 6 months!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Blocking works to help you and the blocker from wasting time in future as you're not matched. It's not standard to get replies saying no thanks - no reply equals no interest.

Improving how you use fab to promote and sell yourself is key.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Why announce you're leaving, never understood that mentality. If you're going go, if you want to make better use of the site then chat and get pointers.

But there must be 3+ announcements a day of people leaving because its shite, why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why announce you're leaving, never understood that mentality. If you're going go, if you want to make better use of the site then chat and get pointers.

But there must be 3+ announcements a day of people leaving because its shite, why? "

Usually “look at me” posts I’d imagine.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

There is a site used by lots of people worldwide it's free and aimed at BDSM community. It's very sociable with lots of meetups, and vanilla socials. Fet...e. Might suit you better.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"OP, if you’re so disillusioned why wait 45 days. You can delete your account at any time?

True that's a good point....but then I'm a tight hit and its fun having a look at all you nice folk who have had a look at my profile! "

Yes.....but hooted with laughter

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"There is a site used by lots of people worldwide it's free and aimed at BDSM community. It's very sociable with lots of meetups, and vanilla socials. Fet...e. Might suit you better. "

Got the tea shirt.... If you want to give away your money or have your cock & balls remodeled!

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By *ollarLeadRestrain OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Why announce you're leaving, never understood that mentality. If you're going go, if you want to make better use of the site then chat and get pointers.

But there must be 3+ announcements a day of people leaving because its shite, why? "

Because Couples and Females profiles have all the power, being able to pick out of a large ocean of single male's! Gets very frustrating being one of many fish waiting for somebody's net to happen upon you. Then there's the chance the catch a bad fish and end up with bad taste... Throwing away there net!

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"Why announce you're leaving, never understood that mentality. If you're going go, if you want to make better use of the site then chat and get pointers.

But there must be 3+ announcements a day of people leaving because its shite, why?

Because Couples and Females profiles have all the power, being able to pick out of a large ocean of single male's! Gets very frustrating being one of many fish waiting for somebody's net to happen upon you. Then there's the chance the catch a bad fish and end up with bad taste... Throwing away there net!"

You have answered your own question. Yes women and couples do have many, many, many guys to choose from. Thats why you have to stand out from the crowd.

You havent asked for profile advice but I would suggest 1 meet in 3 years might suggest were the problem lies.

You have to make an effort. Go to socials, clubs etc. and chat to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have had one great meet in three year's, probably good going for single male on here!

45 days left on my profile, before admitting defeat and deleting.

Just fed up with the delete and block brigade, I'm always polite in my messages... So why block?!

Rant over. "

I prefer it when I am blocked if someone isn't interested in meeting me. It saves everyones time in not wasting further messages in the future. Also if you are blocked by them or you block them then they don't show up in future searches so you don't really know what you are missing anyway!

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