FabSwingers.com forum: am i ANYONE'S "type"?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm beginning to think I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea if your my type!! I can't see any pictures of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no idea if your my type!! I can't see any pictures of you

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visible now :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May we make references to your profile text?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Everyone is somebody's type

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"May we make references to your profile text?"
Feel free but im happy with it. it is ME

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

But in fairness - your profile is not trying it's best now is it - ?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"May we make references to your profile text? Feel free but im happy with it. it is ME"

OK, it's not very welcoming is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its unique to attract a specific type.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What are non-misandrous women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May we make references to your profile text? Feel free but im happy with it. it is ME"

I'd meet you for a coffee if you weren't so far away. You look nice even though you've chosen non-flattering pics. You seem like you'd be a good laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What are non-misandrous women ?"

women who don't hate men

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Need to make yourself a little more presentable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea if your my type!! I can't see any pictures of you

visible now :D"

Id meet for a social bit the bears puts me off!! There are a LOT of women that love them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beard* bloody auto correct x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Need to make yourself a little more presentable"

That's part of my charm. I'm not ant or dec

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Beard* bloody auto correct x"

i just have a moustache now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your profile write up frightens me

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

You don’t want to be “anyone’s” type, you’re looking for a specific someone. You know your profile won’t attract everyone so you just need to be patient for what you want.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

May I recommend the priesthood or at least become a missionary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP your profile write up frightens me "

don't worry, i can't travel through telephone lines.

my barks really worse than my bite. perceptive people will notice that.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"perceptive people will notice that."

As a woman/couple on here we get tons of messages. There is no time to be "perceptive" about an unfriendly, nay aggressive even, profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beard* bloody auto correct x

i just have a moustache now."

My preference though is clean shaven x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"perceptive people will notice that.

As a woman/couple on here we get tons of messages. There is no time to be "perceptive" about an unfriendly, nay aggressive even, profile

duely noted x thanks

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"perceptive people will notice that.

As a woman/couple on here we get tons of messages. There is no time to be "perceptive" about an unfriendly, nay aggressive even, profile

duely noted x thanks "

I like the long hair myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Saying that. how many times have you seen "appealing" profiles only to be let down...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

"Saying that. how many times have you seen "appealing" profiles only to be let down..."

Can't count them. The way Fab works is that the men need to stand out from the crowd of mediocre males, if they even want to get the possibility of a look in.

And the best way to do that is to have a good profile, search the forums for the millions of posts about what makes a good profile.

And treating the women well, with respect and not getting all sexual in the first minute. Talk to women as women on here.

The meets then come once you've made real friends

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Its unique to attract a specific type. "

And it will. In time. You’ll just have to be patient and wait. Wait a while. Maybe a long while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don’t want to be “anyone’s” type, you’re looking for a specific someone. You know your profile won’t attract everyone so you just need to be patient for what you want. "

Always be yourself. Don't change to fit in with people that aren't going to like the real you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its unique to attract a specific type. "

Maybe OP, if you describe what specific type of woman you actually are looking for it would enlighten us and potentially alert such a lady reading this forum ?...could be worth the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm beginning to think I'm not"

OMG. That's it really. OMG

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm beginning to think I'm not

OMG. That's it really. OMG "

what is it? Your post doesn't make much sense?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its unique to attract a specific type.

Maybe OP, if you describe what specific type of woman you actually are looking for it would enlighten us and potentially alert such a lady reading this forum ?...could be worth the effort."

I don't know what type of women exist?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your mother must love you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying that because you're not getting replies to messages?

You kindly messsaged me but I won't reply as you're 300 plus miles away. Nothing personal, thanks for the compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not more about what kind of company you'd like and what activities you'd like to share and maybe what you'd like her to do, how you'd like her to be in appearance, intellect, energy, hobbies etc..

Whatever you describe that's real, some different combinations exist in different women..

Think on who you are and what you do, what you'd like to change about your life (if anything) and what kind of woman matches that or wakes you from your slumber, should you feel you are in one..

Be brutally honest with yourself including that you might not want to change too fast and that you might have different relationships as you change, to match the "You" of that period..

Streamline your description a little to attract a wider selection as being too specific means the thing you think isn't important, you might have made seem important..

You can adapt your profile as you learn more..

Any help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was to

I don't know what type of women exist?!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That was to

I don't know what type of women exist?!"

Definitely helpful. thanks man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your mother must love you."
she would if she were alive...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Is it not more about what kind of company you'd like and what activities you'd like to share and maybe what you'd like her to do, how you'd like her to be in appearance, intellect, energy, hobbies etc..

Whatever you describe that's real, some different combinations exist in different women..

Think on who you are and what you do, what you'd like to change about your life (if anything) and what kind of woman matches that or wakes you from your slumber, should you feel you are in one..

Be brutally honest with yourself including that you might not want to change too fast and that you might have different relationships as you change, to match the "You" of that period..

Streamline your description a little to attract a wider selection as being too specific means the thing you think isn't important, you might have made seem important..

You can adapt your profile as you learn more..

Any help?"

Very well put

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Your mother must love you. she would if she were alive..."

She still does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I've noticed you've now changed your profile write up. It's definitely a big improvement to what you first wrote and not so scary

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"OP I've noticed you've now changed your profile write up. It's definitely a big improvement to what you first wrote and not so scary

He's actually listened to people's advice and made changes. It's a great improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I've noticed you've now changed your profile write up. It's definitely a big improvement to what you first wrote and not so scary

He's actually listened to people's advice and made changes. It's a great improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm beginning to think I'm not

OMG. That's it really. OMG

what is it? Your post doesn't make much sense?"

Your profile. Im dumbstruck sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"May we make references to your profile text? Feel free but im happy with it. it is ME"

You've changed the wording now, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm beginning to think I'm not"

That is so much better. Good forclistenning OP

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

So who are you looking for OP?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

So he turned his profile that truly reflected him into the one he has.

Great. Not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So who are you looking for OP? "
who? i guess I'm looking for my soul mate?

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Somone who took a bit of flack and didn't throw their toys out of the pram, then actually listened to some of the good advice given....refreshing change...browny points earned there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he turned his profile that truly reflected him into the one he has.

Great. Not. "

um. no. there's many sides to me. this is the positive side.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"So who are you looking for OP? who? i guess I'm looking for my soul mate? "

A description would help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So who are you looking for OP? who? i guess I'm looking for my soul mate?

A description would help. "

I'm not looking for a missing person lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"So he turned his profile that truly reflected him into the one he has.

Great. Not.

um. no. there's many sides to me. this is the positive side."

There are many sides to every single person on the planet but now you have a profile based on what others have said and it’s not the original which, by the sound of it, would have told me far more about you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So he turned his profile that truly reflected him into the one he has.

Great. Not.

um. no. there's many sides to me. this is the positive side.

i just can't win can i...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I could compromise and add my old profile in there too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This what my old profile looked like

"Male looking for non-misandrous women Want to cum repeatedly til i die so sex depraved I'm considerimg cutting my own cock off act like a cunt expect to be treated as one maybe ill go eat worms..."

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Your prolife name isnt nice .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having seen this old version of your profile, from my perspective of not knowing you at all, it screams of depression..

Seems, further to the point of being on this site and in this forum, to be based on loneliness..

If i might re-iterate advice I'm sure you've heard a thousand times..

RELAX..

Desperation is a severe red light to company..

Give up on "Desperately Seeking Susan" and just relax and look for company to share your interests..

Start by going up to complete strangers and saying hello and telling a woman whom you think is pretty exactly that and no more..

As you gain confidence you can dare to say more..

You'll get embarrassed, you'll get over it..

You'll get treated as a weirdo.. we all do with/ by people who think our interests are a waste of time and effort..

Play the numbers game and look on lots of social efforts for your interests..

Eventually, you'll strike well and maybe Gold..

Persevere to prosper

Speculate to acquire and accumulate (experience and confidence)

Be you and be cool and confident in that and you'll feel more relaxed and better able to cope..

There's no God Given Instant knowledge..

There's those who did all that stuff young and learned quickly and there's the rest of urs ego muddle on in the dark and hope..

Don't give up on hope, but don't let it control you..

Want to explore Fantasy?

Try one at a time and start slow to build quick..

Want a lasting relationship?

Same thing..

Want a heap of meaningless sexual encounters?

Still applies..

Work at it, don't expect to arrive by train when your learning to guide a bicycle..

I don't know if any of these presumptions are relevant to you but maybe there's something here that helps..

As to having changed your profile based on others' advice..

It's still you and the previous profile.. well it said a lot of clear things about you that weren't, apparently, getting good results..

If people want to know more, they can ask..

And remember..

It's an "All of the people all of the time" situation.. try to please you at nobody's expense is the best you can do to start and maybe you'll get much more..

Best..

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