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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys, maybe I am talking to the wrong people but finding it quite difficult to interact ladies who are after something with a little more passion and intimacy. Once I finally get into a little conversation, it often leads on to words like fucked or spanked etc and I’m just sitting here thinking.....how about a normal bloody kiss first lol. Maybe I’m just being silly but the point of this post if to find out if I’m in a sea of fetish or if my profile attracts the wrong types of people?

Would love some insight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do know this is a swingers site for sexually liberated adults?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To clarify, I am not saying there is anything wrong with our individual preferences. I am indirectly asking if i am a little too old fashioned for this site

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By *iss tastyWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

I would kiss u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To clarify, I am not saying there is anything wrong with our individual preferences. I am indirectly asking if i am a little too old fashioned for this site

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Sounds like you're just chatting to the wrong women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I think that what you are looking for is perfectly alright and yes can be found on here ... there are no rules and swinging doesn't mean you have to spank or be spanked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand this OP. I crave sensual passionate and erotic encounters. The thing is, those things mean different things to different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do know this is a swingers site for sexually liberated adults?

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Doesn't mean that everybody just wants to be fucked though or is her for NSA. I love intimacy and with the right guy the sex can be mind blowing. Has to be the right chemistry and connection though because you really can't force it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do know this is a swingers site for sexually liberated adults?

Doesn't mean that everybody just wants to be fucked though or is her for NSA. I love intimacy and with the right guy the sex can be mind blowing. Has to be the right chemistry and connection though because you really can't force it. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You will find that a lot of people crave intimacy I think it's what brings the to a site like this in the hope of achieving it through sex.

Those of us who enjoy fetish experience sensuality and eroticism just as much as everyone else. There's room for us all here and going about achieving what we want differently to others doesn't make it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re all robots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love sensuality that's what gets Every thing awake aroused and ready

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By *RIDAY NIGHT LADYWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

It all comes down to how you interpret the messages and then your reply.

Say what you want.

It's a bit like love island, things are misconstrued

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Love a bit of sensual and saucy together - killer combo

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a refreshing post OP. Not something one hears much generally let alone on fab.

I get what you're saying and it is nice to have a good sensual respectful intimate encounter as well as the more playful fucking and spanking variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I concur, yes of course it is a sex site, but a little bit of decorum goes a long way ..

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Hey guys, maybe I am talking to the wrong people but finding it quite difficult to interact ladies who are after something with a little more passion and intimacy. Once I finally get into a little conversation, it often leads on to words like fucked or spanked etc and I’m just sitting here thinking.....how about a normal bloody kiss first lol. Maybe I’m just being silly but the point of this post if to find out if I’m in a sea of fetish or if my profile attracts the wrong types of people?

Would love some insight "

Personally speaking..... I've been fucked into next week on a few occasions, I can't say it does much for me.

Each to their own.

I need stimulation, if you stimulate my mind, my body follows. I like to take things slow, starting with the kissing.

As a lady that is searching for sensuality and passion, I'd say to you, we are here, just keep looking.

I wish you luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand this OP. I crave sensual passionate and erotic encounters. The thing is, those things mean different things to different people. "

Very good point, my thoughts might actually be aligned with someone else's preference. I didn't actually consider that.

Some might actually find the whips headlocks and wrestling moves very intimate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any pointers on how to identify the mutual mentality?

I do not want to come across as negative in any way shape or form because that simply isn't me, but my current solution is to continue searching and messaging to the point of failure which is quite an arduous for the average male on fab

Hence the reason for the forum post.

Ah, just want to say that I really do appriciate all of the feedback guys. So thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be offer a sensual massage and see which ladies respond?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give a nice Swedish massage and love to be sensual and caress.

I also love a good old fashioned snog. There's lots of people on here that like that. I also absolutely love to have pussy juices all on my face all wet and kiss the lady I'm with .. This seems to be a real turn on for myself and them while I'm kissing all hot and sweaty ... Love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient.

You've been here a week...even in the real world it can take two weeks to get that first kiss!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I understand this OP. I crave sensual passionate and erotic encounters. The thing is, those things mean different things to different people.

Very good point, my thoughts might actually be aligned with someone else's preference. I didn't actually consider that.

Some might actually find the whips headlocks and wrestling moves very intimate. "

There are a whole range of very sensual activities between passionately and sensually kissing a partner and wrestling. it isn't a case of sensual or not.

I haven't read your profile but if you haven't already say on it exactly what you're after. There are very many women on fab who want the same. Have a look around the forum, join in with the threads where people are expressing their preference for some kind of intimate connection with people.

Good luck with finding what you're after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for sensual, erotic, passionate sex.

If I meet someone regularly we can incorporate other things if we feel like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, be wary that the woman you're talking to might actually be a man.

I don't engage in in-depth fantasy talk, which deters men who are only after a wank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also, be wary that the woman you're talking to might actually be a man.

I don't engage in in-depth fantasy talk, which deters men who are only after a wank. "

It's not got to that stage but thanks for the heads up.

Some seemed a little too quick to engage in sexual chat after an exchange of photos!

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Ive met just 1 person (out of f,m,fm i spoke to) who actually could offer more than a dick.

Its hard to find what you are looking for.

Its hard to have good conversation. Mostly straight to the point action.. Guys think we are all dirty sluts here, begging for your cock in our throats.

Soft touch is tabu here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree.. Be very cautious of the young single females that want to swap photos .. You will get to suss them out and find out they are fake profiles and a man trying to get a kick out of your pictures.. Please report them if you ever come across these profiles. You can use your filters to stop them messaging you .. Good luck and Happy swinging

Mr_Nice.69

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I agree.. Be very cautious of the young single females that want to swap photos .. You will get to suss them out and find out they are fake profiles and a man trying to get a kick out of your pictures.. Please report them if you ever come across these profiles. You can use your filters to stop them messaging you .. Good luck and Happy swinging

Mr_Nice.69 "

This is most definitely appriciated. Wow looking back I can see one convo has gone this way. I will wise up pretty quickly and become more vigilant. Thanks for the tips. Happy Friday and have a great weekend

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