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By *iscrete guy OP   Man
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Hi everyone

Ive been on the site for over a year now and met a very small number of ladies, can anyone give me any advice why i do not receive replies to my messages... Any advise would be great!

Many thanks

Ian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well .... looking at your profile ... things seem right, nice face pic and cock shot, you look nice (well i would lol) maybe its only because you cannot accom (some see this as married/cheating) or because there are just so many single men on here people are just spoilt for choice

Angela xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with michaelangela : your profile looks nice...

Maybe you should keep the cock pic in private, for people who ask for it only. It seems to put off a lot of people.

The fact you don't accomodate is definitely a massive turn off.

otherwise, try to emphasize on something you've got and the others don't : might be your accent, your eyes, your cock size, your abilities in sex or your sense of humor.... Just try to be outstanding

hope this helps

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

The problem doesn't necessarily lie with you, your pics, your messages or your profile (altho your profile hardly screams charisma - sorry).

The truth is that you've had at least three more meets in the 1 year that you have been here, than about 80% of the guys who ever join this site will EVER get.

You're actually doing extraordinarily WELL on here - not badly at all - you're problem, if indeed you have one at all, was merely to have too high an expectation of what you would get from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The truth is that you've had at least three more meets in the 1 year that you have been here, than about 80% of the guys who ever join this site will EVER get.

You're actually doing extraordinarily WELL on here - not badly at all - you're problem, if indeed you have one at all, was merely to have too high an expectation of what you would get from fab."

Interesting point here (sorry if it's out of the subject) : how many men on this website are actually not managing to meet anyone?? I'd like to have some stats of it...

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

yes iv only had 3meets and iv been on here nearly a year now , sent lot of messages ,only for them to be deleated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And when you send someone a message, don't send a cock one, for me personally its pointless I mean why send one of them instead of face picture, that's what one guy did

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"yes iv only had 3meets and iv been on here nearly a year now , sent lot of messages ,only for them to be deleated "

you missed the point

there is no such thing as "only" 3 meets

it's "WOW! I've had 3 meets! that's better than about 95% of all the guys on this site - I'm in the top 5% - I must be awesome at what I do!!"

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


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Interesting point here (sorry if it's out of the subject) : how many men on this website are actually not managing to meet anyone?? I'd like to have some stats of it..."

My 80% figure was just a guess but I reckon its pretty close to the real figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men vastly outnumber single ladies and couples on here and they get bombarded with messages (80 plus a day) so its really difficult to reply to each one. Added to that-a polite thanks but no thanks reply is often met with a reply asking why not? or abuse so some people avoid that by not replying if they're not interested. Single guy profiles really need to stand out if you're going to grab someones interest in the few seconds they glance at your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I`ve never had a meet yet but I`ve still go about 11mths to go before Iv`e been on here a year so if I have`nt had three meets by then I`m leaving lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The fact you don't accomodate is definitely a massive turn off.

"

i dont accom

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