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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've been on here for a couple of months now and still haven't been able to get a meet and when we do arrange one they let us down last minute. We know clubs are a good way to meet but we quiet/shy people. What can we do??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've been on here for a couple of months now and still haven't been able to get a meet and when we do arrange one they let us down last minute. We know clubs are a good way to meet but we quiet/shy people. What can we do??"

Patience is the key to Fab.

Looking at your profile I'm not sure why you haven't had a meet but it will happen. Just make yourself available. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ditch the pointless legal bumpf at the end. Would you really try to bring legal actor to someone using your pictures?

And if you're dismissing clubs from the equation, it's gonna have to be a case of you being patient and finding the right person you're looking for.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No pics of the male is a big thing, women want to see what's on offer too .On our couple profile ,I delete any messages where there are no pics of the man too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We've been on here for a couple of months now and still haven't been able to get a meet and when we do arrange one they let us down last minute. We know clubs are a good way to meet but we quiet/shy people. What can we do??"

No photos of the man. Your legal warning has a mistake in it so it’s doubly useless.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

As per above comments.

Clubs its where we started & have remainef - will bring out your confidence, choose type you feel happier with ie dress down or not. You can social and relax no pressure, but for us always fun Fi xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We haven't dismissed clubs we just aren't sure we'd feel comfortable there when we don't know anyone at the moment.

I only added the legal stuff in someone advice after we found out lou's pics were being used by someone else.

Thanks for the advice

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We haven't dismissed clubs we just aren't sure we'd feel comfortable there when we don't know anyone at the moment.

I only added the legal stuff in someone advice after we found out lou's pics were being used by someone else.

Thanks for the advice "

A better place thing to do is to report to admin any misuse of photos as everyone knows people don’t take people to court. It involves the police, solicitors, court appearances, publicity. Depends if you have a few thousand pounds to spend on that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's your profile so you must put the pictures you like on it. However if you want a threesome with two women you'd stand a better chance if they could see the man they would be having sex with without having to ask. Otherwise its like buying a trouser suit without being allowed to see the jacket, you might not like it when you get it home.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

As others have said, pics of the male half would help

Also a lot of couples won't arrange to meet fuck buddy couples. Some will though. You're also after what most of Fab is after - a single lady who wants to play with a couple - so it's going to take some work. Add to that you only have 1 veri from a cam chat and I'm afraid you don't tick too many boxes for an in-demand female.

Clubs and socials are definitely the way forward. They can be daunting at first but as a means of getting your faces out there and verified as real, they're invaluable You don't have to do anything you don't want to and (depending on the club) you don't have to dress down. Once you're through the door it's almost anticlimactialy normal

The pics you do have up are great, by the way! You'd certainly draw attention in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried the club's and that's where most of our meets are now. If they don't turn up there is always someone else wanting to play and we have found everyone so friendly. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the people who have suggested clubs. They really are not as daunting for first timers as you would think. And you get a taste of what swinging is like without being let down.

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By *aitlinRobCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi, we have had a couple profile for 3 months and have lots of meet offers although have only done 3 so far.

I as the female tend to chat in messages, see if what they like is similar to what we want from a meet. We only meet guys though not couples. Rob gets off and sharing me, I find it very hot.

Rob will read the messages and sort the meets.

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