FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for new inexperienced couple

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're a very inexperienced couple. As of yet we've only ever had a two experiences which included naked tantric massages with happy endings for both.

We loved the experience and want to try more. Ideally, we're looking for a bi guy or couple who are more experienced, patient and willing to ease us into it.

We don't know if we'd ever take the plunge by meeting anyone online, how do you trust a stranger online?

The other problem is we have a child under two, who we've never been apart from. Anyone had any similar experience with a child and how did you cope?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're a very inexperienced couple. As of yet we've only ever had a two experiences which included naked tantric massages with happy endings for both.

We loved the experience and want to try more. Ideally, we're looking for a bi guy or couple who are more experienced, patient and willing to ease us into it.

We don't know if we'd ever take the plunge by meeting anyone online, how do you trust a stranger online?

The other problem is we have a child under two, who we've never been apart from. Anyone had any similar experience with a child and how did you cope?"

Id start with adding a few pictures of you both, they dont have to be of your face. Also consider rewriting the text on your profile. Even if your still unsure about actually meeting anyone, anyone that reads your current profile will pass you by as not meeting and you might miss the chance of chatting to some good people.

So you're not bombarded with messages, try putting all your filters on and you guys do the searching.

Oh, you always might want to set an age range, and make it clear why you're looking for bi guys when it says male half is straight.

Cant help with the child side of things, i can only guess that, you just have to bite the buttet and spend a couple hours away from your child, it doesnt have to be over night.

Good luck

Poppy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it might feel exciting and horny and something you want to try..but in reality it's probably something you will never do .. your profile text limits you greatly and the type you are looking for does too..I think your profile is set to protect yourselves from ever meeting or getting a meet because of your own reservations of the swinging lifestyle

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You can never be sure about anyone you meet from the internet, you either have to trust that the precautions you've put in place out any wrong 'uns or don't meet. A social meet first can ease worries but is no guarantee that they're not going to change.

Is one of you more concerned than the other about this and this is an attempt to reassure.

Babysitters are the only way to cope with having small children. Personally I would never mention that I had small children on the net or meet with them in the house but others disagree.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax

It says you are looking for bisexual men and women but your profile has you both down as straight.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think you need to find a babysitter you are happy with before you worry about swinging meets. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're a very inexperienced couple. As of yet we've only ever had a two experiences which included naked tantric massages with happy endings for both.

We loved the experience and want to try more. Ideally, we're looking for a bi guy or couple who are more experienced, patient and willing to ease us into it.

We don't know if we'd ever take the plunge by meeting anyone online, how do you trust a stranger online?

The other problem is we have a child under two, who we've never been apart from. Anyone had any similar experience with a child and how did you cope?"

your profile says ask to meet and be blocked

i didnt even bother reading it .........

to rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for your comments.

When we get a chance we'll try to update our profile.

As for the sexuality, not sure why it says straight. We're pretty sure we set it as bi-curious. Oh well, at least that is updated now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We took the feedback from you guys and have updated our profile.

Let us know your thoughts.

Thanks

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