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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dear Fabswingers

Ive been on here for a while and apart from a ordinary meet,Ive been massively unsuccesful at getting any message or interest. I would appericate suggestions on how to improve my profile and get females and couples looking in my direction. I do realise there is a massive unbalance in favour of the ladies but Im honest enough to know that my profile is dead and I dont have the answers required.

Many Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH OP, your photos are god awful. And you profile write up is all about your pleasure.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I personally wouldnt message u as ur profile words are " what u want sexually! A lot of what u like! U come off too full of urself mayve im wrong but its how i read it!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Your photos could be better. Your text has a Tescoesque shopping list of what you like. What can you offer? Why should a last pick you and not me?

Ps. Your last sentence is pointless, as your profile says you’re straight. Why put pointless and irrelevant info in a profile? Additionally, maybe you could be confident enough in your own sexuality to not care if men contact you or use the filters so they can’t message you.

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

There are definitely improvements you can make.

The pictures aren’t great. Sell a sexy dream. Suggestive black and white shots are good.

It took me ages to figure out what the second pic was of (the one with the blacked-out cock).

Random capital letters throughout. Check grammar.

It’s “fulfilled” not “fore-filled”.

Agree with Steve - lose the defensive sentence about men contacting you.

Also lose the sentence saying “no time wasters”. Time-wasters won’t read it and it’ll put women off because we’ll think you’re about to start calling us time wasters if we chat and then don’t want to meet.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I didn't realise the cock was blocked out. I thought it must be some sort of black rubber cock sheath.

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Literally none of this advice acted upon. Not even the typos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, as others have said you need better photos. I’d suggest some full-body shots and trying to make the “scene” slightly classier.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What kind of pictures would you recommend using on FabSwingers? How do the ladies want in a profile to draw their attention?

Thanks for your honesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand that Ive been focusing on my pleasure needs. As a woman what do you like a man to pull you into his profile?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair points and I do need to make my profile more human. Yes correct on being comfortable if a guy contacts me.

Thank You

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought blacking out my Cock Picture would be different as most female members complain of cocks everywhere. My profile needs to be overhauled.

Respect for your honesty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive only justed logged into my profile tonight, so reading all the advice and tips. I will act upon new suggestions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics are crap, and I now know what you want. So what's in it for the lady?

Your profile is all you, you you and what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will do my best to take some nice pictures and upload soon.

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will do my best to take some nice pictures and upload soon.

Cheers"

Reply and quote when answering, so we know who you're talking to.

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