FabSwingers.com forum: Please help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a man that would love to experience new things with a female or couple, but not having any luck . Think my profile is putting people off , but why?

Sometimes I think I should have just lied , but thats not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No public pics, default age setting- would you seriously meet a 99-year-old?

Your situation is very unusual and I think not many people would be interested. But at least you're being honest

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

U have no profile pic,i read u have friends pics which all fine but put a profile pic up! " ur profile words about u/ ur wife playing seperate etc theres no need its no ones business and its unecessary! No need to lie just say ur married end off! Also put something in about what u like to do to females sexually have a look on single male profiles and take advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always say that I will send a picture of my face if interested , but nothing. I think being honest is best , would not change our set up for anything. I love my wife enjoying herself and I enjoy it as well. Will change age , thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats true , maybe to honest.

Thank you and I will amend so that I still honest , but not that open.

Thanks again x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't even look at your profile if you were in my area as you have no profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair play , but not comfortable with face picture up with my job role. Anyway around it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always say that I will send a picture of my face if interested , but nothing. I think being honest is best , would not change our set up for anything. I love my wife enjoying herself and I enjoy it as well. Will change age , thanks for the advice "

We have the same situation, I don't think it's that that puts people off in my opinion. Although maybe you could rephrase it and just say you have an open marriage. It might be too much info.

I won't even open mail from someone without a public picture, I already find chatting too time consuming without having to ask for a picture just to give a general idea of the person. It doesn't have to be a face pic, get your wife to take one of you from behind, I love a cheeky bum pic lol. Also it is generally harder on here for men because there are just so many of you.

Good luck xxx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Fair play , but not comfortable with face picture up with my job role. Anyway around it ?"

There are surely other parts of your body you could use as an Avatar that people won't recognise?!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

A lot wont even look at a blank avatar profile. Some may even block them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you , will take on board

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats a good idea , will do that.

Thank you for your help really appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fair play , but not comfortable with face picture up with my job role. Anyway around it ?

There are surely other parts of your body you could use as an Avatar that people won't recognise?!"

Thank you never thought of that , really appreciate your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said. Your picture is pathetic.

A few shots of torso, bum, suited. Works well. Your circumstances automatically rule out 80% of fabbers meeting you.

Tough situation, but am least you are upfront and honest.

Mistress Amelia

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Fair play , but not comfortable with face picture up with my job role. Anyway around it ?"

So you chose a face photo as an avatar and not your arse or bicep?

Besides which, it’s Horsham, so you’re fucked.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Besides which, it’s Horsham, so you’re fucked.

The reason he posted is that he isn't getting fucked.

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