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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m curious as a newbie, I keep reading female profiles that suggest “I get thousands of friend requests, winks, requests for photos, but don’t expect a reply, take the hint if I don’t reply “ and the like, in fact it makes them appear rude, pretentious and obtuse, so please “ladies” enlighten me, just how many such advances to you receive daily?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My lady friend and I put a meet up once and almost immediately the messages started pinging in. I was shocked because it was literally about every 30 seconds another message. After about 10 minutes I closed the meet down and shagged her myself.

Some ladies get upwards of 50 messages a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Create a fake profile with just a breast pic. You'll have the answer you're looking for within 5mins of logging in.

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By *he honey dipperMan
over a year ago

Anywhere but not there

I'm lucky to get one a month??

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Can't comment on single girls but as a couple when we ticked the meet single guys box we got 78 messages in the first 20 minutes so had to untick as too many messages to reply to and always like to reply to all people that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 109 since my last bulk delete on Wednesday morning. I do flick through them but not all. I can't have conversation with too many at once so I chose the profiles that stand out to me and I think are roughly a match for me.

If I had the time to reply to all even if it was to say "no thank you", I would unfortunately I don't. If that makes me sound rude, Rude I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently 109 since my last bulk delete on Wednesday morning. I do flick through them but not all. I can't have conversation with too many at once so I chose the profiles that stand out to me and I think are roughly a match for me.

If I had the time to reply to all even if it was to say "no thank you", I would unfortunately I don't. If that makes me sound rude, Rude I am."

Easy to see why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently 109 since my last bulk delete on Wednesday morning. I do flick through them but not all. I can't have conversation with too many at once so I chose the profiles that stand out to me and I think are roughly a match for me.

If I had the time to reply to all even if it was to say "no thank you", I would unfortunately I don't. If that makes me sound rude, Rude I am.

Easy to see why. "

Nice B+W pics

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

With no meet requests, status updates etc, probably 1-2 dozen messages from different people a day if I go online, I delete winks and f/r without looking 99% of the time - just because I prefer a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most was on an old profile within the first hour I had over a thousand. I closed the account down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading this I'm just going to stop messaging people and just look. What are the chances of anyone actually even reading my messages lol

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By *2665Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I get about 40 messages a day but very few actually read my profile or are interested in mutually beneficial arrangements. The bar is set so low that I'll reply to anyone who has actually read my profile, mentioned something specific, and crucially not sent me a dick pic!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Too many to reply to. It's supposed to be fun not a chore.

If you think a profile is rude feel free to ignore or block it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to send a wink to show am interested then leave it to them to make contact if they are interested

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Sooooo many that we just keep the filters set to block single males, and if we want one we find one ourselves, we tend to find single males unreliable or worse complete time wasters, last time we decided to play out in our car and wanted an audience and someone to help us take some new pics, we checked our whos near button and invited six fabbers that were asking for something to do now, got one reply even though all were online, he was less than a mile away and said it was too far to come to just watch us .... Ok thier loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too have not had much joy on here despite all my efforts. Most messages sent are deleted although i do try to make them stand out. Most are thoughtful, polite and expand a little from my profile. Still i feel they are bulk deleted. I totally get that an attractive lady on here will recieve a vast amount of messages and that it is impossible to go through and reply to all but that then raises the question what can a single guy do? Keep trying i guess. Is it just a numbers game ?

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I get loads of messages and I do actually read them all......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get loads of messages and I do actually read them all......"

Having looked at your profile you are very different to 90% of the ladies on here. I would message you but not sure Im what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get that many messages certainly never had to bulk delete. If I wanted to I could reply to all and wouldn't be a chore. Think if your message is being ignored it is because of either what you wrote, didn't read profile or they just don't like the look of you, sorry guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Create a fake profile with just a breast pic. You'll have the answer you're looking for within 5mins of logging in."

Isn't that 90% of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the well verified ladies who are 100% obviously for real will get a few 100 a day to be honest. Even as a tgirl I clock between 150-200 if I have meets up.

I don’t think they are pretentious, they are just managing their time and filtering the 1 in 20 decent messages.

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