FabSwingers.com forum: Single straight guy, 38 from Erskine.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m a single, straight guy from Erskine. I’m 38.

The truth is that I’m fairly new to using this kind of site and have had only one meet this way. I’m a slightly shy guy but this is not a major problem and I come out my shell pretty quickly.

I’m a really polite and respectful person but I think women maybe get the wrong idea and think I’m being a little offish at first which isn’t the case.

I’m actually pretty confident in the bedroom and it is just a case of being introduced that tends to be an issue for a few minutes with me but once I get to know someone I’m really comfortable within a few minutes.

I don’t have enormous experience to be honest but things go well with me and I’m really considerate. I’m really thoughtful of keeping things comfortable and pleasant. I’m not an obsessively aggressive guy and I’m someone that tends to stay within boundaries.

That isn’t to say that I’m not passionate though although I tend to be someone that communicates a lot and I’m always into doing everything being great for both parties and not going into business for myself.

So basically, I’m a friendly and really relaxed guy who isn’t a crazed machine but I have always had enjoyable sex and I’m really into keeping things intimate and I love being patient and I’ll chat and keep things interesting and varied.

So this might not be my natural environment but I’m a very genuine guy and I’m probably treating this site as a more colourful dating site in some ways.

I like the social side and I’m not always into diving straight towards a bed but I just tend to want to know a little about a woman more than what size her breasts are or what positions she likes.

That information is interesting too but I am a fairly romantic, gentle guy.

I’m not a totally vanilla person though and I can be fairly colourful in the bedroom. I just tend to like to build a little connection and find out some of the quirks in a woman. That really tends to work for me.