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"Better pics and better profile will help massively. Not much there to tempt women into replying. " I wouldn't get past the 2nd picture. | |||
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"Better pics and better profile will help massively. Not much there to tempt women into replying. I wouldn't get past the 2nd picture. " I would pass at the first one | |||
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"Oh come on guys...let’s all fuck off shall we . It’s our £5 per month that keep this site going." Yeah all u guys fuck off il look after you ladys muhahahahaaaaaa | |||
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"Effort in might lead to a more rewarding experience with women. There are more men than women on the site. Some of the men do well, even though they're not an Adonis, others don't. Of course it's our fault that the ones who don't do well fail." note to self 'must do better 'xx | |||
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"Better pics and better profile will help massively. Not much there to tempt women into replying. I wouldn't get past the 2nd picture. " Me either, took me more than a moment to work it out and it hasn’t been *that* long since I last saw one | |||
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"You see my pet hate is when I turn down guys and they ask if we can chat. My answer is always no. I haven't got time to chat to everyone who asks. I happily chat to forumites in the forum and if they send me a message (I mean familiar faces not someone who posts once in the forum then messages me) and I chat loads to people I have met and people I intend to meet but other wise chat doesn't interest me. " great advice thankyou | |||
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"Jeez Umm everything and anything lol Mostly hi and how are u and then something reticent to there profile I liked etc. Then I'm thinking that ain't working so maybe true some rude talk I dunno it's hard cause well everyone is different but u have assume were all here to be a bit filthy ??" You shouldn't really assume any thing tbh. | |||
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"Jeez Umm everything and anything lol Mostly hi and how are u and then something reticent to there profile I liked etc. Then I'm thinking that ain't working so maybe true some rude talk I dunno it's hard cause well everyone is different but u have assume were all here to be a bit filthy ?? You shouldn't really assume any thing tbh. " assumption"the mother of all fuck ups " | |||
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"It's probably the third profile change to date and frankly the effort put into that one is due to the results I had been getting! " Was it a 'fill in later' previously? | |||
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"Nobody can see your face, to judge if you're handsome or not (only saying this, based on your words about attractiveness), so you need to pique a persons interest through your profile and messages. Perhaps take a look at the more successful males on here and see if your profile measures up? Remember, this is most women's initial port of call, before even opening a message. If the profile is a little shit, not many are going to waste their time replying to any message that person sends. Good luck OP " could you read mine and see where I'm going wrong | |||
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"It's probably the third profile change to date and frankly the effort put into that one is due to the results I had been getting! " If that is what you consider "effort" then it would appear you really do want it served on a plate for you. | |||
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"It's probably the third profile change to date and frankly the effort put into that one is due to the results I had been getting! " If u can describe yourself in 4 lines then you must have no substance to ya Beef it up fella It makes me think how much efforts put into your messages u send cos if its the same amount of effort your profile has im not all that suprised your struggling Take the advice already given you may have better luck Personally id say youl be unlos again within a week | |||
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"Hey everyone getting a conversation with you girls are something like mission impossible !? But why? I don't think I'm ugly and at the same time don't think I'm a god either lol. So what's happening pointers heads up whatever it is be nice to know " Go to a club or converse in the forums. Start by expecting nothing. Just chat, be yourself. Ask questions. Accept boundaries and enjoy. | |||
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"It's probably the third profile change to date and frankly the effort put into that one is due to the results I had been getting! If u can describe yourself in 4 lines then you must have no substance to ya Beef it up fella It makes me think how much efforts put into your messages u send cos if its the same amount of effort your profile has im not all that suprised your struggling Take the advice already given you may have better luck Personally id say youl be unlos again within a week" Careful now. You don't want to be dubbed a retard | |||
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"Hey everyone getting a conversation with you girls are something like mission impossible !? But why? I don't think I'm ugly and at the same time don't think I'm a god either lol. So what's happening pointers heads up whatever it is be nice to know Go to a club or converse in the forums. Start by expecting nothing. Just chat, be yourself. Ask questions. Accept boundaries and enjoy." not sure that 'be yourself' is such good advice for some.. | |||
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"It's probably the third profile change to date and frankly the effort put into that one is due to the results I had been getting! If u can describe yourself in 4 lines then you must have no substance to ya Beef it up fella It makes me think how much efforts put into your messages u send cos if its the same amount of effort your profile has im not all that suprised your struggling Take the advice already given you may have better luck Personally id say youl be unlos again within a week Careful now. You don't want to be dubbed a retard " Im not worried sticks and stones and all that | |||
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"Hey everyone getting a conversation with you girls are something like mission impossible !? But why? I don't think I'm ugly and at the same time don't think I'm a god either lol. So what's happening pointers heads up whatever it is be nice to know " Stop putting LOL would be a start,your not 14 | |||
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"Hey everyone getting a conversation with you girls are something like mission impossible !? But why? I don't think I'm ugly and at the same time don't think I'm a god either lol. So what's happening pointers heads up whatever it is be nice to know " I wish I could describe the kind of fella that I fancy. I can't. It's not really about whether you think yr ugly, it's about whether the girls you contact fancy you x | |||
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"Why are blokes on here telling him what to do, you want more competition?! " I aint worried surly ur not | |||
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"Why are blokes on here telling him what to do, you want more competition?! " He's even making me look good. | |||
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"Why are blokes on here telling him what to do, you want more competition?! I aint worried surly ur not" I’m not talking about me. | |||
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"Why are blokes on here telling him what to do, you want more competition?! " Because it's not a competition, simple as | |||
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"Why are blokes on here telling him what to do, you want more competition?! He's even making me look good. " Haha | |||
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"I don't speak to people like this unless I'm provoked and I was clear in what I said before she wrote what she did! I also didn't post this to get shit on either but to actually get a bit of help understanding of this site" I don't think there was anything wrong with what she said. She has a point about your profile. There's no need to get snappy or defensive because of it. You're not doing yourself any favours reacting the way you did. Any woman on the forums who reads your posts are just gonna pass you by. | |||
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"Why are blokes on here telling him what to do, you want more competition?! He's even making me look good. Haha" | |||
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"Ur obviously fucking retarded then Form an orderly que ladies.this one going to be popular You mean queue.....sorry You beat me to it Dash x I hate myself for doing that,im not doing it again " You will, though. I sit on my hands until the urge passes. Sometimes it doesn't. | |||
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"Nobody can see your face, to judge if you're handsome or not (only saying this, based on your words about attractiveness), so you need to pique a persons interest through your profile and messages. Perhaps take a look at the more successful males on here and see if your profile measures up? Remember, this is most women's initial port of call, before even opening a message. If the profile is a little shit, not many are going to waste their time replying to any message that person sends. Good luck OP " Glad we can see your face | |||
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"Ur obviously fucking retarded then Form an orderly que ladies.this one going to be popular You mean queue.....sorry You beat me to it Dash x I hate myself for doing that,im not doing it again " I do it in my head all the time I blame my parents x | |||
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"What was the question? " He wanted to know why women aren’t throwing thereselves at him or something! | |||
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"Wow some women decides not to read what I actually said in this convo decides do be an awhile to me I defend my self and I get ridiculed! Yeah OK might not of done my self favours here but am I fuck gonna be spoken to like a cock! And also thanks for the education back there much appreciated. But for people that actually gave advice thank u I actually appreciate it. But seriously why is there so many ready to jump on the hate bus! " In answer to your last question, I'd say it's your attitude and sense of entitlement. No one has spoken to you like a cock. You don't hesitate to be offensive or insulting. You're reading but not understanding. You're asking but not listening. You recognise that you've not done yourself any favours, and yet you seem intent on wearing that shovel out all the way to the handle. | |||
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"Op i can quite understand the lack of interest your getting. Your profile is a joke if thats you "trying" god help us when your not. Oh and the way you speak to people is disgusting" | |||
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"What will be, will be My old grandpapa told me once, There only two ways to win a woman over 1 Make her laugh 2 make her cum and if she doesn't come running to you after that....then leave her be " Well, I'm fucked then... actually that's the problem I'm not. | |||
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"Holy shitballs. Dude, chill your beans, lose the attitude against criticism and it will definitely possibly, maybe a little help a wee bit. You've asked a question about communication, yet you have shown on this thread that you do seem to lack communication skills. I appreciate it must be very frustrating not receiving replies, however, calling people names when you hear something you don't like just screams immaturity. Possibly the written word isn't your fortè and you communicate better in person, so may I suggest getting yourself to a social event to meet people face to face and maybe you will get the results you desire (or quite possibly a punch in the face if you call people names in public)" | |||
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"Holy shitballs. Dude, chill your beans, lose the attitude against criticism and it will definitely possibly, maybe a little help a wee bit. You've asked a question about communication, yet you have shown on this thread that you do seem to lack communication skills. I appreciate it must be very frustrating not receiving replies, however, calling people names when you hear something you don't like just screams immaturity. Possibly the written word isn't your fortè and you communicate better in person, so may I suggest getting yourself to a social event to meet people face to face and maybe you will get the results you desire (or quite possibly a punch in the face if you call people names in public)" power to princess nuff luv | |||
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"Hey everyone getting a conversation with you girls are something like mission impossible !? But why? I don't think I'm ugly and at the same time don't think I'm a god either lol. So what's happening pointers heads up whatever it is be nice to know " Most read the profile before the message...I didn't get to the end of yours and it's not War and Peace. | |||
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"Hey everyone getting a conversation with you girls are something like mission impossible !? But why? I don't think I'm ugly and at the same time don't think I'm a god either lol. So what's happening pointers heads up whatever it is be nice to know Most read the profile before the message...I didn't get to the end of yours and it's not War and Peace. " | |||
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"Effort in might lead to a more rewarding experience with women. There are more men than women on the site. Some of the men do well, even though they're not an Adonis, others don't. Of course it's our fault that the ones who don't do well fail." | |||
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"Better pics and better profile will help massively. Not much there to tempt women into replying. " I wouldn't say that. I read a message and reply quicker to it if there's effort put in or they're a bit of a comedian. I have a tendancy to look at pics and profile at a later stage. Which is probably one of my downfalls | |||
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"Ur obviously fucking retarded then I think I know why people aren’t speaking to you... Are you thinking what I'm thinking B1? I think I am B2 " Thanks you two...I'm now humming Bananas in pyjamas. | |||
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"I'll give the same advice that I give on all of this type of thread. It is: Don't be a dickhead. That's pretty much all there is to it, and yet so many fall at that hurdle." It’s a good rule, unfortunately most blokes on here are unable to manage it. | |||
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"There is not one second I think I'm entitled to a reply!!! I don't think my op actually reflects that at all. Possibly the wording of it wasn't correct wasn't there to sound arrogant or distasteful just wanted a bit of help and understanding. Perhaps I may have a gone off a bit sharp but if you look back at the reply's it goes from constructive cristisim to assault then to the girl that didn't read or just ignored what I said properly. I have actually been given some good advice from alot of you do thank you" You may not think you are, but that's how you come across. You've asked for help and advice, great. You have to accept that you may not like the help and advice you've been offered. What you really shouldn't do is lash out and abuse people merely because you didn't like what you were told. | |||
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"Hey everyone getting a conversation with you girls are something like mission impossible !? But why? I don't think I'm ugly and at the same time don't think I'm a god either lol. So what's happening pointers heads up whatever it is be nice to know " Woman play hard to get. And from the inside of a woman’s mind (I’m in touch with my feminine side), they like a man to do all the work and prove they are willing to make an effort. | |||
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"Ur obviously fucking retarded then I think I know why people aren’t speaking to you... Are you thinking what I'm thinking B1? I think I am B2 Thanks you two...I'm now humming Bananas in pyjamas. " They're coming down the stairs you know | |||
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"There is not one second I think I'm entitled to a reply!!! I don't think my op actually reflects that at all. Possibly the wording of it wasn't correct wasn't there to sound arrogant or distasteful just wanted a bit of help and understanding. Perhaps I may have a gone off a bit sharp but if you look back at the reply's it goes from constructive cristisim to assault then to the girl that didn't read or just ignored what I said properly. I have actually been given some good advice from alot of you do thank you" Going out on a limb here, but I think it was calling someone a retard that possibly shook it for you... | |||
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"Hey everyone getting a conversation with you girls are something like mission impossible !? But why? I don't think I'm ugly and at the same time don't think I'm a god either lol. So what's happening pointers heads up whatever it is be nice to know Woman play hard to get. And from the inside of a woman’s mind (I’m in touch with my feminine side), they like a man to do all the work and prove they are willing to make an effort. " Not in my experience they don’t, if they see something they want they usually go after it. | |||
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"Literally changed for that pic to been shown today I don't get you lot a women actually told me that it be a good idea fml " When we understand what a man writes, we get much easier to talk to. | |||
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"There is not one second I think I'm entitled to a reply!!! I don't think my op actually reflects that at all. Possibly the wording of it wasn't correct wasn't there to sound arrogant or distasteful just wanted a bit of help and understanding. Perhaps I may have a gone off a bit sharp but if you look back at the reply's it goes from constructive cristisim to assault then to the girl that didn't read or just ignored what I said properly. I have actually been given some good advice from alot of you do thank you Going out on a limb here, but I think it was calling someone a retard that possibly shook it for you..." "Possibly" | |||
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