FabSwingers.com forum: Where are the bi females?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're a couple looking for a bi female but nobody wants to chat or even reply to messages! Arghhhh what are we doing wrong lol

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Are you expecting this female to be involved with the male half of your couple? You may do well to include some pics of him on your profile (as often people look at the profile before even opening the message).

Remember that this female is also looking for something for her, it's not just about what you want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 pics, and both of the female half.

Nothing to say what sort of meets you are looking for except that you want a bi female.

You state you don't chase so comes across like you expect bi females to come to you. They won't.

Your profile gives no clue about either of your personalities or likes and dislikes.

So in short, more photos and more effort in your profile text.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

As has already been mentioned - no photos of him

Nothing in your profile text to entice me I’m afraid - if I lived in your area I probably wouldn’t respond to a message. What’s in it for the lady? Where are your boundaries? I’ve read too many generic couples profiles that say absolutely nothing and then get a very detailed message stating no kissing, no fucking my man, ff only play whilst he watches and doesn’t join in... it made me tighten up my profile in response.

I hope you can see where I’m going with this - we’re not mind readers but we are all different and enjoy different types of play. I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for - just give us some clues

Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Lots of people totally ignore winks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies, thankyou for your feedback and on reflection you've all made some really good points so we'll sit down later & rewrite it.

Hubby didn't want his pics public & they're on our friends only pics & no it's not all about me, he'd want to join in too but yes I can definitely see now how our profile could be misread & could be discarded by many xx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above members state, you need to improve your profile text to attract the bi females. Also maybe remove the bit about tvs ect, as all you need to do is message Filter block them. Concentrate On Saying What you Want Rather Than what you dont.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

All great constructive comments, with pics you could do some teasing bod pics, they don't have to be of your faces. Lots of us are in the same boat with jobs etc but there's teasing pics to bridge that gap.

Good luck on your search

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've just changed it to look a bit better for now & added one more public pic that includes my hubby but will give it more attention later.

Thanks for the feedback ladies, we're so new to all this so it's much appreciated xx

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