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By *abo0 OP   Man
over a year ago

St blazey

I know there isnt much info in my profile, but i havent even been looked at in 2 weeks? Ive just changed my profile pic, from the face pic, in a white t shirt, to the one im using now. Ive been cycling through them to see which works best. When i send messages, i usually make some kind of reference to their "about me"

Do i just look like i should be avoided? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know there isnt much info in my profile, but i havent even been looked at in 2 weeks? Ive just changed my profile pic, from the face pic, in a white t shirt, to the one im using now. Ive been cycling through them to see which works best. When i send messages, i usually make some kind of reference to their "about me"

Do i just look like i should be avoided? Lol"

Maybe write a profile in the first instance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're profile text is dull and says absolutely nothing. Your pics are good.

Put more effort in. If your profile is lazy why wouldn't we make the assumption you'd be a lazy, boring meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe smile and actually write somthing about yourself.. why should someone message you when theres nothing to entice them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no information about you on your profile..nothing about you telling people what you like and what you are looking for,and the type of people you would like to meet ..look at your profile as you shop window..people will look in and want to guy if there is actually something of interest..face pics are fine but a smile or two would not go a miss

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By *anandLeia72Couple
over a year ago

St. Helens

Your photos are good but I agree with every one else in that your profile says nothing.

Talk about fantasies, what you've done in the past and what's brought you to fab.

Good luck

Leia

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What does "Saturday .....yar" mean?

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By *abo0 OP   Man
over a year ago

St blazey


"What does "Saturday .....yar" mean? "

No idea, it was a messy one.

Thanks for the replies everyone!

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By *he witch returnsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow in SW Devon

I agree with all others.

Pics good just improve your profile. Say more. Your likes, what you after etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youre just a sex addict so basically u want to have lots of sex with lots of ppl all the time ?

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

U look stoney faced! No expression! And " im a sex addict to me means its all about u! I wouldnt msg u! Have a look at other mens profiles get some idea to make ur profile stand out! Take more pics and smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, i dont know that i find 'sex addict' a particularly attractive proposition...but its pretty clear nothing is going change on the profile anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above.

Floppsy x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I know there isnt much info in my profile, but i havent even been looked at in 2 weeks? Ive just changed my profile pic, from the face pic, in a white t shirt, to the one im using now. Ive been cycling through them to see which works best. When i send messages, i usually make some kind of reference to their "about me"

Do i just look like i should be avoided? Lol"

People are avoiding your profile and as a result, you.

Why choose a dry old biscuit when right next to it is a cherry gateaux?

You must be going cold turkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a little boring alright. Good pix tho. Update to grab people's attention.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Well you’ve got them all looking now. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero profile and in your latest pic you look a bit sinister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 days later and the profile is the exact same, why ask for help and pointers and not act on any of them?

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By *abo0 OP   Man
over a year ago

St blazey


"3 days later and the profile is the exact same, why ask for help and pointers and not act on any of them?"

Because im in the middle of nowhere, busy, not meeting and not too fussed at the moment. I do plan on adding something, when i get back to real life. Thanks for the concern though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 days later and the profile is the exact same, why ask for help and pointers and not act on any of them?

Because im in the middle of nowhere, busy, not meeting and not too fussed at the moment. I do plan on adding something, when i get back to real life. Thanks for the concern though."

Well why bother asking for advice then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 days later and the profile is the exact same, why ask for help and pointers and not act on any of them?

Because im in the middle of nowhere, busy, not meeting and not too fussed at the moment. I do plan on adding something, when i get back to real life. Thanks for the concern though."

If you're busy, not that fussed and not meeting at the moment why bother posting a thread, just hide your profile and come back when you can devote a little more time here?

As for no views, many women look in stealth mode so won't show anyway. The number of views you get is irrelavent really.

All the best with the improvements suggested.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

No profile and unreasonable expectations?

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By *abo0 OP   Man
over a year ago

St blazey


"3 days later and the profile is the exact same, why ask for help and pointers and not act on any of them?

Because im in the middle of nowhere, busy, not meeting and not too fussed at the moment. I do plan on adding something, when i get back to real life. Thanks for the concern though.

Well why bother asking for advice then? "

Planning ahead?

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By *abo0 OP   Man
over a year ago

St blazey

I did actually create this thread, before i became busy. Family emergency, priorities and things, ya know?

Anyway, thanks for the advice all! I will be taking it x

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By *ucy83SOWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If you were nearer and a non smoker i'd message you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know the feeling wonder why im on here myself seems to be just for a quick chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know the feeling wonder why im on here myself seems to be just for a quick chat "

Maybe have a look at your profile and then compare it with successful ones......

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