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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it? | |||
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"True but any i've gone with seem to be only interested in getting their own rocks off " Use reply in forum+quote under the post you're replying to, we'll know who you're talking to then  | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it? " It should be yes | |||
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"True but any i've gone with seem to be only interested in getting their own rocks off Use reply in forum+quote under the post you're replying to, we'll know who you're talking to then "Just dawned on me I should have done that... Oops rookie mistake | |||
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"So who are you replying to lol x" My reply to your post was the Brucey bonus one lol | |||
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"True but any i've gone with seem to be only interested in getting their own rocks off Use reply in forum+quote under the post you're replying to, we'll know who you're talking to then
Just dawned on me I should have done that... Oops rookie mistake "Lol | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it? " Not for everyone. | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it? Not for everyone." Mutual orgasms should hopefully come into at some point | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it? Not for everyone. Mutual orgasms should hopefully come into at some point " It doesn't always have to be women first though. Mutual pleasure, I agree. | |||
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"So who are you replying to lol x My reply to your post was the Brucey bonus one lol " Ok thank you, thought I was going mad and a deformed Bruce's bonus lol x | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? Not said it but definately true. That's the goal isn't it? Not for everyone. Mutual orgasms should hopefully come into at some point It doesn't always have to be women first though. Mutual pleasure, I agree. "definitely  | |||
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"Always I get so turned on knowing I’m making them cum and feeling it run down my balls as I fuck them mmm so horny " I'd have thought that would be the case too... Perhaps some dont want to put in the effort like your good self | |||
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"So who are you replying to lol x My reply to your post was the Brucey bonus one lol Ok thank you, thought I was going mad and a deformed Bruce's bonus lol x" No definitely not deformed lol xx | |||
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"Cumming together is heaven xx mmmmmmmm" Been elusive to me so far, well with intercourse anyway  | |||
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"I’d suggest this says more about you than you think..." You think? .. Explain please? | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same." Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards | |||
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"Cumming together is heaven xx mmmmmmmm Been elusive to me so far, well with intercourse anyway "Me too. I think that's a couples thing. I, and nice guy, always finish last. If at all.  | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards " One is all I can manage. | |||
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"Cumming together is heaven xx mmmmmmmm Been elusive to me so far, well with intercourse anyway
Me too. I think that's a couples thing. I, and nice guy, always finish last.
If at all. "I'd hope both would finish | |||
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"I don't think I've met anyone who has orgasmed before me. The poor bastards.....sometimes it takes me ages "Only takes me minutes when i do it myself  | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards One is all I can manage. "one for me too | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards " jammy sods lol x | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards One is all I can manage. "Then I hope it’s a damn good one x | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards One is all I can manage. one for me too "I'm more than happy with that. I don't usually cum with casual partners anyway so if a guy was waiting for me he'd be there a loooong time  | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards One is all I can manage.
Then I hope it’s a damn good one x" | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards One is all I can manage.
Then I hope it’s a damn good one x"Oh, it is | |||
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"Cumming together is heaven xx mmmmmmmm Been elusive to me so far, well with intercourse anyway
Me too. I think that's a couples thing. I, and nice guy, always finish last.
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " True, if you are not going to do something well, do it. If not, do not do it at all. I am sure many people will agree. | |||
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"I’d prefer it if men didn’t make it their mission and think that forcing me to cum first is somehow good manners or places them in some sort of position of talented being. If it happens, great but it puts as much pressure on me to cum as it does on a man not to. Can’t we just enjoy devouring each other?" Mutual satisfaction is where we are going, just a question of who leads the dance. | |||
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"Where possible though one can only fight nature's greatest impulse for so long... "Margret Thatcher naked on a cold day. HTH. | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " I like to lick n suck until a woman’s cum, then fuck her straight after and we both come together second time. | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I like to lick n suck until a woman’s cum, then fuck her straight after and we both come together second time. " What if she doesn’t want that? | |||
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"Lady has to cum first! Love to know the woman is enjoying it just as much as me "Has to? Why are you putting the women you meet under such pressure? | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " always | |||
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"I don't put them under pressure, I never actually say to them they have to, it's nice if a lady cums but I know there are some who struggle but enjoy it just as much without cumming " You just said the lady has to cum first. Have you considered the implications of that? | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? always "Really? Huge pressure to put a woman under, especially those that don’t cum, can’t cum under pressure, wants to cum at another point or only cums once. | |||
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"I don't put them under pressure, I never actually say to them they have to, it's nice if a lady cums but I know there are some who struggle but enjoy it just as much without cumming You just said the lady has to cum first. Have you considered the implications of that?" I have considered that the word "has" was perhaps the wrong choice x | |||
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"Always I get so turned on knowing I’m making them cum and feeling it run down my balls as I fuck them mmm so horny I'd have thought that would be the case too... Perhaps some dont want to put in the effort like your good self " Well more fool them | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I like to lick n suck until a woman’s cum, then fuck her straight after and we both come together second time. What if she doesn’t want that?" Well then she would get what she wants instead. I Can’t outline every single possibility in one post x | |||
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"Height of bad manners if you ask me" What a crock of shit. It’s the hight of ignorance to assume we are not in control of our own orgasms and it’s some sort of weird and false gentlemanly thing to do. What if I want you to come first? Shall I force and make you cum? How much pressure shall I put you under before you go droopy? | |||
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"Always make a woman cum with my mouth or hands before sex, that way if they don't orgasm during sex at least they've already had one "Another person who ‘makes’ women cum. Stop, just stop. | |||
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"True but any i've gone with seem to be only interested in getting their own rocks off " I've found that too | |||
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"True but any i've gone with seem to be only interested in getting their own rocks off I've found that too " Am more than a little shocked to hear so much of this. Seeing women orgasm is incredible. I thought that was hard wired in men like competitiveness and farting in the car. | |||
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"It's threads like this that makes me wonder if some men really know what a female orgasm is. Claiming to make women have multiple orgasms before getting their dick wet; when you consider how many women struggle to orgasm either in general or with new/casual partners or one is genuinely enough. I do not orgasm with other men on meets, I do not need an orgasm to enjoy sex, neither do I feel cheated for not orgasming. The one thing guaranteed to make me not orgasm is a man telling me I am. Ginger " I agree. Ms | |||
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"I like to lick women to the end and than stick it in and finish myself" Yep, that about sums up the attitude. | |||
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"I guess it's down to personal ability. I always try and make women cum first as I know they'll always be able to make me cum. "So why do the women that shag you have to cum first? Why is cumming such a goal? | |||
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"I guess it's down to personal ability. I always try and make women cum first as I know they'll always be able to make me cum.
So why do the women that shag you have to cum first? Why is cumming such a goal?"They don't have to, no one has to do anything. However, I wouldn't want them to feel like I've just got my own pleasure out of it. It's important to both enjoy yourselves in my opinion. | |||
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"I guess it's down to personal ability. I always try and make women cum first as I know they'll always be able to make me cum.
So why do the women that shag you have to cum first? Why is cumming such a goal?
They don't have to, no one has to do anything. However, I wouldn't want them to feel like I've just got my own pleasure out of it. It's important to both enjoy yourselves in my opinion."You said always. Why is cumming such a goal? | |||
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"I guess it's down to personal ability. I always try and make women cum first as I know they'll always be able to make me cum.
So why do the women that shag you have to cum first? Why is cumming such a goal?
They don't have to, no one has to do anything. However, I wouldn't want them to feel like I've just got my own pleasure out of it. It's important to both enjoy yourselves in my opinion.
You said always. Why is cumming such a goal? "I do apologise, I thought I said "always try". Because you it's such a good feeling. Again, if you both enjoy yourselves then nothing else matters. | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same." So once they've cum inside you, how do you like the guy to make you orgasm? | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. So once they've cum inside you, how do you like the guy to make you orgasm?" That would be between me and the person I was with | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " In my bf's case....100% true In fact sometimes he wont even let me get my hands on him...can be frustrating | |||
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"I prefer her to cum first, that means I win at sex." Haha!!! You do realise women win at sex though....we can keep going | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " True in my case as my recovery time is long. Love the lady to have two or three orgasms before my one x | |||
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"does it matter who cums first its not a race as long as you both enjoy it "Not a race but both should reach the finish line ?? | |||
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"Usually enjoy making the lady cum first...but it should never a rush to get there "As long as you get there though ?? | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " True for me | |||
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"It seems not .... never .... hence permanent chastity!" No thats crazy stuff ?? | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? True for me "You're a good one then ?? | |||
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"I’m surprised more people haven’t mentioned edging " Edging? | |||
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"What if she is simply not capable of doing that?" Aw poor woman if she cant | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? True in my case as my recovery time is long. Love the lady to have two or three orgasms before my one x" Thats very gentlemanly of you ?? | |||
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"I prefer her to cum first, that means I win at sex. Haha!!! You do realise women win at sex though....we can keep going "Well this is true lol ???? | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? In my bf's case....100% true In fact sometimes he wont even let me get my hands on him...can be frustrating "Oh I can imagine | |||
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"Yep, it's important me that the ladies pleasure comes first. Usually then mine can be a bit of a wham bang.... Is love to be able to cum first and then get back to it like I could a few years ago... Sadly time is catching me a bit... " It cums to us all eventually lol | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards One is all I can manage. one for me too
I'm more than happy with that.
I don't usually cum with casual partners anyway so if a guy was waiting for me he'd be there a loooong time "INterested that you don't usually cum with casual partners. Deliberately, or because you don't get excited enough with them, or ....? | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " Absolutely true!! The ladies dont get penetration until they have gushed for me | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? Absolutely true!! The ladies dont get penetration until they have gushed for me "Gobsmacked.  | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " I thought that was the aim in sex, you try to make the other person come first to win the sex. | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I thought that was the aim in sex, you try to make the other person come first to win the sex. " I thought the aim of sex was to have an amazing, hot and horny time with each other not goal scoring. | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I thought that was the aim in sex, you try to make the other person come first to win the sex. I thought the aim of sex was to have an amazing, hot and horny time with each other not goal scoring. " Goal scoring is hot. Teasing, seeing what faces the other person makes when you go to deep, when you go slow, when you touch over there or here. What sounds do they make. Its all part of the game, to achieve victory, one must study your opponent to make the right moves when needed.  | |||
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"I prefer to cum last, I lose interest otherwise. I think it's best if people find out what the person they're with prefers rather than just assume everyone wants the same. Losing interest isn’t possible if you know there are multiple more orgasms on the cards One is all I can manage. one for me too
I'm more than happy with that.
I don't usually cum with casual partners anyway so if a guy was waiting for me he'd be there a loooong time INterested that you don't usually cum with casual partners. Deliberately, or because you don't get excited enough with them, or ....?"Because I need to know someone well and they need to know me well and for me that won't happen with a person I've only met a couple of times. It's not deliberate and its got nothing to do with levels of arousal neither does it mean that I don't find the whole encounter deeply satisfying. For me its more about the journey than the destination but it's extremely difficult to find men who feel the same way. That isn't a criticism of them, we're all different. | |||
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"Feminists would argue that their Orgasm is NOT a mans responsibility - but as a Gentleman I think it’s only right and proper that the Lady’s needs cum first - and given that - in the right circumstances she can have 2 or 3 to my 1 - so everyone is a winner!! However - as we have seen on here - it’s not only men who can lose interest when they have got their rocks off - so there should be lots of non verbal communication going on to Guate what is ‘right’" What has feminism and being a gentleman got to do with orgasms?! | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " always I like to make sure they do before penetration | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? " I’d like to think that I’m considerate enough to take my time to so the lady has at least one orgasam before me | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I’d like to think that I’m considerate enough to take my time to so the lady has at least one orgasam before me "I think it's the man's resonpsibility to make sure his lady enjoys herself, | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I’d like to think that I’m considerate enough to take my time to so the lady has at least one orgasam before me
I think it's the man's resonpsibility to make sure his lady enjoys herself,"Speaking as a woman I think it's both partners responsibility to ensure they both enjoy themselves | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I’d like to think that I’m considerate enough to take my time to so the lady has at least one orgasam before me
I think it's the man's resonpsibility to make sure his lady enjoys herself,
Speaking as a woman I think it's both partners responsibility to ensure they both enjoy themselves"Yes, true, BUT the man can spoil the opportunity if he cums quickly | |||
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"So many men claiming they like to make the woman cum first... True or just a myth? I’d like to think that I’m considerate enough to take my time to so the lady has at least one orgasam before me
I think it's the man's resonpsibility to make sure his lady enjoys herself,
Speaking as a woman I think it's both partners responsibility to ensure they both enjoy themselves
Yes, true, BUT the man can spoil the opportunity if he cums quickly "Oh, that's never been my experience. If they cum quickly they have either ensured I'm happy or I ensure it myself . | |||
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