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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

After an unsuccessful first foray on Fab, I took a break and tried more conventional ways to meet people. No luck there either. Any guidance for a single dad? All pointers appreciated.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Well your profile text is very good (some parts of it are almost strangely familiar) and your pics are well taken - so nothing to comment on there.

Beyond that it really is about patience, being polite and respectful, not having unrealistic expectations and maintaining a positive attitude.

Getting along to organised socials and clubs, or even getting more involved in the forums are all great ways of getting to know people and getting yourself known

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow


"Well your profile text is very good (some parts of it are almost strangely familiar) and your pics are well taken - so nothing to comment on there.

Beyond that it really is about patience, being polite and respectful, not having unrealistic expectations and maintaining a positive attitude.

Getting along to organised socials and clubs, or even getting more involved in the forums are all great ways of getting to know people and getting yourself known "

You can’t improve in perfection, sorry about that

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Well your profile text is very good (some parts of it are almost strangely familiar) and your pics are well taken - so nothing to comment on there.

Beyond that it really is about patience, being polite and respectful, not having unrealistic expectations and maintaining a positive attitude.

Getting along to organised socials and clubs, or even getting more involved in the forums are all great ways of getting to know people and getting yourself known

You can’t improve in perfection, sorry about that "

None necessary, I take it as a compliment plain and simple

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'd say your profile is good so as Gemini said, it's a time thing. Are you able to get to a social or a club? It's a good starting point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you're so far. I'd of loved to meet you for a coffee

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow


"Shame you're so far. I'd of loved to meet you for a coffee "

Wales isn’t too far. Scotland maybe a tad. Would love to chat though

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow


"I'd say your profile is good so as Gemini said, it's a time thing. Are you able to get to a social or a club? It's a good starting point. "

I would like to but have two children and no one else to support. Very much a not ideal situation. C’est la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame you're so far. I'd of loved to meet you for a coffee

Wales isn’t too far. Scotland maybe a tad. Would love to chat though"

I live in North Wales. Visit Scotland regularly. A chat sounds nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t take photos in front of toilets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t take photos in front of toilets "

And if you do, flush first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with everything it’s time and time and yet more time.... she says turning greyer at each second!!

It will just fall into place xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I'd suggest knocking around in the forums and getting involved in the threads. It's worked for me.

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow


"Don’t take photos in front of toilets "

Great advice, lol, deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t take photos in front of toilets

Great advice, lol, deleted "

Flushed.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I'd say your profile is good so as Gemini said, it's a time thing. Are you able to get to a social or a club? It's a good starting point.

I would like to but have two children and no one else to support. Very much a not ideal situation. C’est la vie."

I'm sorry to break this to you OP but if you have nobody to look after your children while you go to a social then you are going to struggle to get meets on fab.

Who will look after your children if you do get a meet? If you plan on bringing someone into your home while the children are in bed it is very unlikely to happen - very few people would be comfortable with this.

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow


"I'd say your profile is good so as Gemini said, it's a time thing. Are you able to get to a social or a club? It's a good starting point.

I would like to but have two children and no one else to support. Very much a not ideal situation. C’est la vie.

I'm sorry to break this to you OP but if you have nobody to look after your children while you go to a social then you are going to struggle to get meets on fab.

Who will look after your children if you do get a meet? If you plan on bringing someone into your home while the children are in bed it is very unlikely to happen - very few people would be comfortable with this."

You have a point but meeting someone for coffee during the day is a lot easier. Which is what I’m looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if we lived in the same country I’d meet you! Although I don’t like tea or coffee, so it would be a hot chocolate for me

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

You need to add in your profile description the best times for you to meet e.g. weekdays during school hours or evenings etc. That way people who are available at similar times will see and more likely to message

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow


"OP if we lived in the same country I’d meet you! Although I don’t like tea or coffee, so it would be a hot chocolate for me "

Hot chocolate it is. That would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP if we lived in the same country I’d meet you! Although I don’t like tea or coffee, so it would be a hot chocolate for me

Hot chocolate it is. That would be nice "

If only! You seem lovely, hopefully things will pick up for you

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You’ve had a huge amount of advice over all of your threads as far back as 14 weeks ago, most of it the same.

There is no magic formula, present yourself in the best way you can and keep going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, follow the advice you’ve been given on all the other threads you’ve posted on.

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Thanks everyone

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