FabSwingers.com forum: Start of our journey

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi we are a couple new to this but discussed it many times,we have exhausted anything imaginable between us but now looking to broaden things and the thought is exciting??would someone maybe have some pointers or do's and dont's as want to act appropriately at least.thx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree the rules between you, what do you want from it, what don’t you want? Enjoy the rest x

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou wise words and we have discussed this area and found ours were broader than we both expected lol,thanx again

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try a club, they are usually very friendly and you can do as much or as little as you like?

By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I too would suggest a club, where you can meet all sorts of people and there would be no pressure to play. Have fun on your journey!

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Never be persuaded to do something because someone says everyone does it or *real* swingers do it.

Think twice about discretion. I notice you give names (not sure if they're you real ones) and have your faces as your avatar. Not everyone is who they seem on here, would it cause you problems if a local person recognised you?

Make sure before you meet someone that you're all on the same page and want similar things.

Agree that neither of you takes one for the team.

Take your own condoms. The amount of people who *forget* is surprising.

Other than that sit back, relax and enjoy the ride.